Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Lunaseraphim]

Random thought : I had a client recently whose smell reminded me of someone I used to be close to. It brought back a lot of good memories.

 

[Enjoying life]

Sps are the best kept secret!

Im very kinky so I could not get that satisfaction with a partner something was missing and you cannot ignore it even I had dreams telling me something! Ive had nothing but great conversations and the best kinky sex with sps! I cannot lie!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Im very kinky so I could not get that satisfaction with a partner something was missing and you cannot ignore it even I had dreams telling me something! Ive had nothing but great conversations and the best kinky sex with sps! I cannot lie!

Partners can also be kinky but I see how if you're in a relationship with someone who isn't open minded about certain things you'd want to avoid talking to her about it

It's true that most SP I've met in person including all the people who post here are really funny, intelligent, interesting and have a lot of cool hobbies and knowledge.

 

[Enjoying life]

Partners can also be kinky but I see how if you're in a relationship with someone who isn't open minded about certain things you'd want to avoid talking to her about it

It's true that most SP I've met in person including all the people who post here are really funny, intelligent, interesting and have a lot of cool hobbies and knowledge.

You rock!

 

[LeDodo]

Both men and women have difficulty with dating right now. Hook up culture, ''situationships'', ''ethical non monogamy'' (we all have our opinions on this, I'm not against it but I've often seen it get really messy and I think most people aren't doing it for the right reasons) etc are really prevalent in the past 10 years, particularly since the pandemic which is weird because everyone was very lonely and isolated. A lot of the time when you use dating apps people are just looking for hook ups or they are not honest about what they want and need. A lot of people are simultaneously lonely & isolated, and also afraid of commitment and having a lot of difficulty really connecting with someone. Dating apps among other things are kinda like ''buffets'' that give you an illusion of choice.. It's true that it's easier for women to find someone to have sex with, but it's not easier for us to find someone to date. A lot of really attractive and interesting women I know can't find someone who is serious about dating or wants to be in a monogamous relationship.. The funniest part about this is that people who want to keep their options open are not less lonely than anyone else. At least a lot of men who book escorts are honest with themselves and mature enough to know they currently aren't ready to date in a serious way. I know there was a time when I was very lonely during a breakup, and seeing some of my clients was actually helpful and comforting, too.

I think many factors have lead to today situation.
First the generation gap and specifics.
Older generation tends to try to live with and/or fix a situation whereas newer generation has the tendency to "fix" by switching. Analogy with how well built appliances were and changes less needed versus nowadays when something is broken the reflex is to find something new instead of looking for the root cause and fix. Everything has became disposable.

Dating app is also part of that situation in a sense that it facilitated matching people but as you mentioned it's more like hooking up rather than looking for a meaningful relationship.
But I think one side effect of dating app is that it allows people to think they can easily find someone else and that illusion destroys lot of relationships. I'm not saying that you need to stick to a toxic relationship but people tends to assess the problem in their other half behavior where actually most of the time it's within ones self that issues dwell.
And by looking for greener grass elsewhere is just running again the same story with someone else.

 

[Mailloche]

I miss my regular sp, damn we used to fuck so hard as we were going to die the next day.

 

[LeDodo]

Wanted to try the casino in Kahnawake but because of renovation 6tried a nice restaurant! The Mirela's Restaurant and Cigar Lounge

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think many factors have lead to today situation.
First the generation gap and specifics.
Older generation tends to try to live with and/or fix a situation whereas newer generation has the tendency to "fix" by switching. Analogy with how well built appliances were and changes less needed versus nowadays when something is broken the reflex is to find something new instead of looking for the root cause and fix. Everything has became disposable.

Dating app is also part of that situation in a sense that it facilitated matching people but as you mentioned it's more like hooking up rather than looking for a meaningful relationship.
But I think one side effect of dating app is that it allows people to think they can easily find someone else and that illusion destroys lot of relationships. I'm not saying that you need to stick to a toxic relationship but people tends to assess the problem in their other half behavior where actually most of the time it's within ones self that issues dwell.
And by looking for greener grass elsewhere is just running again the same story with someone else.

I agree
Positive thought: my kitten is growing very strong! and he and my other cat love each other, they are both with me watching a movie.

 

[Enjoying life]

You rock!

It seems you have a love of History Luna like myself! Marilyn, Dean Jazz ect…! I know of many Ordinary women who I cannot even have an intelligent conversation with about history! Maybe, it has to do with being open minded not boring and Kinky!! lol

 

[philonius]

Wanted to try the casino in Kahnawake but because of renovation 6tried a nice restaurant! The Mirela's Restaurant and Cigar Lounge

If you're just looking for traditional casino games it's mainly just slot machines and a couple video blackjack/roulette/baccarat terminals. If you're looking for table games, there aren't any. If you're going to play poker, well it's the best poker room in the entire world (truly, as voted).

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It seems you have a love of History Luna like myself! Marilyn, Dean Jazz ect…! I know of many Ordinary women who I cannot even have an intelligent conversation with about history! Maybe, it has to do with being open minded not boring and Kinky!! lol

a lot of people are boring lol

 

[Alucard87]

That is the main reason for me too. I crave intimacy, eye contacts, kisses, closeness, whispers and passion. It’s not really possible when there’s more than 2 people. Someone will feel left out.

Duos meet my needs for voyeurism more than anything I’d say

I think back to TPB... When Randy tells Lahey he doesn't want a pill boner or whatever, but rather a love boner. It's much stronger when the passion is there (doesn't have to be love per se).

 

[Enjoying life]

I think back to TPB... When Randy tells Lahey he doesn't want a pill boner or whatever, but rather a love boner. It's much stronger when the passion is there (doesn't have to be love per se).

Certainly if the passion is not given back it will affect everything and it has nothing to do with yourself I noticed!

 

[Alucard87]

I sleep not enough every night

Liking your comment from the gym at 2:46. Gotta be up at 7:00 and won't be home for another hour at least.

 

[Alucard87]

It's not necessarily about physical strenght although that is part of it. On the ''taboo fantasy'' thread there's a man who says he got a woman so drunk that he could have sex with her while she was passed out. I think he doesn't believe this is an assault. I think that yes some women can be violent, and a lot of women are psychologically abusive, but statistics unfortunately prove that men are more likely to commit sex crimes or domestic violence that includes physical assault etc.

I loved my long term GF and mother of my one year old until while I was driving she punched me in the head. Didn't feel it but it sure as fuck killed the love. Ffw a year or two and the wild attacks and scratches, the screaming. The cops taking ME away when I was covered in marks and didn't lift a finger. Then a few months later she was taken away when the neighbors called the cops for a second time. Or throwing a knife at my back, luckily it bounced off. Nothing for a few years then recently trying to attack me when I had the baby in my arms. I'm a body builder, she's an ex-cheerleader and (physically) beautiful. Yeah it ain't always what it looks like. Took until now for something to give and it's me booking SWs in secret, looking to get a peid a terre for my own rendezvous.

 

[Enjoying life]

I loved my long term GF and mother of my one year old until while I was driving she punched me in the head. Didn't feel it but it sure as fuck killed the love. Ffw a year or two and the wild attacks and scratches, the screaming. The cops taking ME away when I was covered in marks and didn't lift a finger. Then a few months later she was taken away when the neighbors called the cops for a second time. Or throwing a knife at my back, luckily it bounced off. Nothing for a few years then recently trying to attack me when I had the baby in my arms. I'm a body builder, she's an ex-cheerleader and (physically) beautiful. Yeah it ain't always what it looks like. Took until now for something to give and it's me booking SWs in secret, looking to get a peid a terre for my own rendezvous.

Did she get jail time I hope?

 

[Alucard87]

Did she get jail time I hope?

Nope out in a couple hours and right back to the house.

We're still together, it's just toxic.

 

[Enjoying life]

Nope out in a couple hours and right back to the house.

We're still together, it's just toxic.

Sucks! Go have fun you need peace!

 

[Alucard87]

Sucks! Go have fun you need peace!

I sure am

 

[LeDodo]

Liking your comment from the gym at 2:46. Gotta be up at 7:00 and won't be home for another hour at least.

Replying at 4:35 and see if you're still up