The Bitching thread
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I don’t have much to bitch about really but here’s one:
Vagueposting. Stop dancing around it and tell me what/who you’re referring to. I shouldn’t need to know everything about everything just to understand your hints and clues and it does nothing to protect the person/events/situations you're referring to.
Vagueposting. Stop dancing around it and tell me what/who you’re referring to. I shouldn’t need to know everything about everything just to understand your hints and clues and it does nothing to protect the person/events/situations you're referring to.
Sometimes some situations need to be addressed but it's not good to name a specific individual or specific people, because it applies to many. But yeah I feel weird about some types of vague posting...
[rant mode on]
At a concert with a VIP access (freestanding) on an elevated terrace with balcony, suddenly a girl push her way and stand in front of me.
She try to pull her friend in front of me.
Me: what are you doing?
Her: you are too tall and we can't see.
Me: it's not a reason. I waited here 4h in this spot.
Then a lady next to me brush her off too.
But come on. We are not at Disneyland and let kids sit in the front. Stop the bullshit.
[Rant mode off]
At a concert with a VIP access (freestanding) on an elevated terrace with balcony, suddenly a girl push her way and stand in front of me.
She try to pull her friend in front of me.
Me: what are you doing?
Her: you are too tall and we can't see.
Me: it's not a reason. I waited here 4h in this spot.
Then a lady next to me brush her off too.
But come on. We are not at Disneyland and let kids sit in the front. Stop the bullshit.
[Rant mode off]
This reminds me of how school photos were organized in elementary school looool!
I had this week a bad situation with my regular indy SP. I saw her like 3 times per month since February. It is day meetings from 9h30 to 15h30, a 6h lunch date. Sex in the morning lunch and sex in the afternoon. So this time in the afternoon something weard happened. i saw in her eye that she hesitate to do a bj and when she started she seemed disgusted like she was to vomit. So i stop her and decide to masturbate myself. She leaved me at 15h30 with her yoge kit. In the evening i saw on her instagram a story about her last night date. She had the same dress as with me in the morning. So she had an overnight just before seeing me and did not even change her clothes. I think she is working too much and will not see her again. This is a first for me, a girl that almost vomit doing me a bj. Maybe i am wrong but seeing indy with a 500$/h is supposed to avoid this kind of situation.
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I mean during your 6h dates I assume you guys talk and discuss.
You mentioned the BJ event which is like 30 minutes top.
No discussions during your session/day?
At this point I might propose a sugar deal at the frequency you see her to be honest. Maybe it would work better.
What this sounds like the overnight that she did prior to seeing you had some sort of emotional impact on her. If and when you been with someone for a long period of time you can see the change and shift of someone’s energy. When you saw her did you sense that something was a bit off?
Best I can say is this encounter will surely change your perception of her. Don’t know what you plan to do but looks like this journey for you with her has reached its finish line.
I am in a big convention hotel right now that has about 150+ rooms.
After the convention on Saturday, where it had hundreds of people, somehow the entire hotel is completely empty by Sunday morning.. The parking lot went from 100+ cars to just me.
And as such, I am sticking out like a sore thumb. I have SPs coming in and out of my room and all the employees know exactly what I'm doing.... they even know my name when I take the elevator and when I pass by.
This is insane. It's the middle of August, why in the world is this hotel empty
After the convention on Saturday, where it had hundreds of people, somehow the entire hotel is completely empty by Sunday morning.. The parking lot went from 100+ cars to just me.
And as such, I am sticking out like a sore thumb. I have SPs coming in and out of my room and all the employees know exactly what I'm doing.... they even know my name when I take the elevator and when I pass by.
This is insane. It's the middle of August, why in the world is this hotel empty
There's not a dollar amount that can replace communication. Something was up with your session, either with you or her, and the only solution is to talk about it. Doesn't have to be a shameful convo just a "hey, I noticed this, what's up and what can we do to avoid this?"
Neither of you are detectives so just talk it out.
I wouldn't see her again.
Everyone suggesting talking to her, the whole reason to pay a premium is so you can skip the nonsense.
FIY most incalls have washing machines. I sometimes wash my dress and lingerie in between calls. It doesn't mean the clothes are unclean. You're assuming a lot. I've seen incall roommates do the same, wash their clothes before another client arrives later. If you have an overnight right before there's no point in bringing a ton of outfits.
You're saying "she seemed disgusted so I stopped her" and now this turns into "she almost vomited on me". Those are not the same things. You saw that she wasn't feeling well and -you- stopped her from continuing the service and jerked yourself off.
Being a regular and booking someone for several hours many times a month you should have built enough trust with this person that you can discuss it with her, in my humble opinion. Otherwise.. why book someone that often and for that long?
"I saw in her eye" and "she works too much" are very much interpretations.. it seems like you filled in the blanks.
Sure as indies we don't tend to do a lot of volume in the same day but sometimes we go several days and sometimes a whole week or longer without bookings. We can't control when the bookings will come. Sometimes I have 0 bookings for 3 days, then I have a single booking on 2 different days and then 3 bookings in a row the next day. This is freelance work.
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