Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[Rebaynia]

It's the amount of data. No need to crop. Just needs more compression.

I crop to remove extra anyways. Don't need extra filler background. Prefer to be selling myself than the location. The further distance the higher the photo quality. Better to take extra background and crop it out.

 

[Julia Sky]

I'm going to write a nice suggestion in the "Clients and providers what are your dream social date ideas?" thread. But the forum won't let me post lot of pictures because somehow the size is too big. I keep on croping my pictures to make it fit but it won't sigh ...

Screenshot the picture and post the screenshot instead. It should be less heavy than the original pic! Or you can compress it. I to screenshots when too lazy to compress lol

 

[jeffmathers]

All I suggested was creating a specific category for “intimacy” or “social-based” services instead of lumping everything together. Searching for SPs is already long and exhausting - area, budget, fit, donations, restrictions, booking policies etc.

A dedicated category would simplify things for both clients and providers. Not every SP has a 2-hour minimum, and most men aren’t looking for that. Many stop hobbying altogether because it’s too complicated and financially inaccessible - especially when a 2-hour social meet runs $750+. They will be turned off and try tinder instead.

And yeah, maybe I sounded annoyed - but that’s because she imposed her way like it’s the new industry standard. It’s not. People are allowed to disagree. Getting your feelings hurt over that doesn’t justify dragging it out or stirring more drama on socials for validation.

That thread is closed. I already answered your question and won’t keep going in circles (unlike some). I just needed to make it clear: berating someone online simply because they don’t agree with a thread is childish. Add to that having my words twisted and being name-dropped - not exactly fun.

I already said " I'm not against or for the idea of a "social / arm candy section"."

I don't see anything wrong with your suggestion for a new category. I didn't disagree with that. I just think providers should decide; not me.

I see no one can explain how " Searching for SPs is already long and exhausting" because it's not hard.

There are a bunch of providers on this list offering 1 hour or shorter services. https://merb.cc/xenforo/forums/Ξ-montreal-independent-escorts.117/

You describe it as no one being able to find an SP. If someone wants a one hour or shorter provider there are 24 providers on the first page here. 23 of them offer an hour or shorter. All of the providers have different rates. I don't see how anyone is priced out. Like every industry all services have different prices. There are people with lower and higher rates than you on merb and elsewhere.

"Many stop hobbying altogether because it’s too complicated and financially inaccessible" If there are providers above and below your rate then this line confuses me.

 

[LeDodo]

Screenshot the picture and post the screenshot instead. It should be less heavy than the original pic! Or you can compress it. I to screenshots when too lazy to compress lol

I've taken the suggestion to send it to myself in Whatsapp lol
It worked but I found out we're limited to 10 pictures only ...
Anyway, it's enough for my little presentation of a nice social date.

Hopefully it's inviting enough

 

[jeffmathers]

I've taken the suggestion to send it to myself in Whatsapp lol
It worked but I found out we're limited to 10 pictures only ...
Anyway, it's enough for my little presentation of a nice social date.

Hopefully it's inviting enough

If a few different providers had long social dates in Montreal recently maybe you were one of the clients. Imgur is an option for sharing pictures on here also. It's awesome how taking a provider shopping and other activities are so much cheaper in Montreal than in NYC, Toronto, LA, Seattle, Bay Area, etc.

 

[Mailloche]

I think i will open a cafe similar to the ones they have in japan for men who want to pay to talk with the ladys. Hopefully it will clear the board of sp's who encourage this beahavior and the bunch of loser who are ready to pay for that.

 

[LC18]

Y a t il des rumeurs concernant Magalie Lepine Blondeau ?

J’avais entendu ça en début d’année mais Magalie elle même avait démenti

 

[LC18]

Everyone is seeking a different experience, everyone is offering a different experience. You are unique until cloned and even then…

There’s only one you ❤️

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I already said " I'm not against or for the idea of a "social / arm candy section"."

I don't see anything wrong with your suggestion for a new category. I didn't disagree with that. I just think providers should decide; not me.

I see no one can explain how " Searching for SPs is already long and exhausting" because it's not hard.

There are a bunch of providers on this list offering 1 hour or shorter services. https://merb.cc/xenforo/forums/Ξ-montreal-independent-escorts.117/

You describe it as no one being able to find an SP. If someone wants a one hour or shorter provider there are 24 providers on the first page here. 23 of them offer an hour or shorter. All of the providers have different rates. I don't see how anyone is priced out. Like every industry all services have different prices. There are people with lower and higher rates than you on merb and elsewhere.

"Many stop hobbying altogether because it’s too complicated and financially inaccessible" If there are providers above and below your rate then this line confuses me.

There's always going to be people charging different rates. I personally don't have the intention to remove my hour long option and to raise my hourly rate to like 500$ anytime soon, but I understand why some providers do and it doesn't ruin my business that certain people charge more or have a 90 minute minimum..

This week I had 2 x 12 hour bookings. But this weekend I have a 45 minute session, and 2 regular hourly sessions, along with 2 hour appointments. I wouldn't cancel a hour long booking if another client offered something longer.

I also don't feel like individual providers should be held responsible for why "many stop hobbying".. things change and maybe the industry isn't suitable for certain people's needs anymore. Maybe some are afraid that things will become like in the US where a lot of people's rates are very high and services like bbbj and dfk are not the norm, but I don't think this is happening right now.

Here are other issues I see more worth bringing up: the bad economy leading to a hike in rent & prices & people's rates, websites like tryst, EI and leolist not filtering profiles, scams, people trying to get unsafe services from providers (and often trying to subtly inquire about them...) which leads to some people casually offering them, laws that criminalize clients, stigma against clients of providers (some of you call it client bashing, and I agree that it's a problem if it's unfounded)

There are also different types of clients just like there are different types of providers. If I'm not offering anal and PSE doesn't mean I don't like my clients and I don't want to give clients what they want.. I'm just not the right provider for the type of client looking for that experience and what's wonderful is that others are.

 

[themonk83]

X doesn't ban people when being reported anymore and mass reporting, we are talking thousands and thousands of people reporting you and that comes from being a public figure or going viral. If you ever get suspended, it is the algorithm and AI doing so. Purely random

You can go crazy on rants, harrassment and they won't do much

Too much paranoid talk. Sigh

 

[Lunaseraphim]

X doesn't ban people when being reported anymore and mass reporting, we are talking thousands and thousands of people reporting you and that comes from being a public figure or going viral. If you ever get suspended, it is the algorithm and AI doing so. Purely random

You can go crazy on rants, harrassment and they won't do much

Too much paranoid talk. Sigh

Exactly.. a really random post of mine was reported and it's not even graphic

 

[Valentina Amante]

X doesn't ban people when being reported anymore and mass reporting, we are talking thousands and thousands of people reporting you and that comes from being a public figure or going viral. If you ever get suspended, it is the algorithm and AI doing so. Purely random

You can go crazy on rants, harrassment and they won't do much

Too much paranoid talk. Sigh

Exactly. Now tell that to people still trying to smear campaign me online and actively messaging other SPs that they’re being reported by “jealous people” LMAO. Then act all righteous on forums hahahah
Siiiighhhh

 

[LC18]

Merb a subi le même sort que les autres plateformes de communication et partage

 

[clemieux6]

What should I read to have a better idea of what a sex club is like? I can just google it but I value humans over search algorithms.

I think you need to experience it first hand. Its fun, liberating, respectful, with the one I go to no single men are around so its not a walking meat factory. Often times you will have more women then men present.

All in all, its a interesting place to go with a date to see a playful side of the kink swinging community.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Merb a subi le même sort que les autres plateformes de communication et partage

Le problème avec les forums comme merb c'est que ce sont des plateformes anonymes, c'est facile de se cacher derrière un alias.. Même nous, on communique à travers notre ''persona'' d'escorte sur internet, et on s'adapte à la plateforme et à ses utilisateurs.

 

[jeffmathers]

Everyone is seeking a different experience, everyone is offering a different experience. You are unique until cloned and even then…

There’s only one you ❤️

If everyone had the exact same offering it would be way harder for people to stand out. It's great that different people adopt different personas and run their business differently because that's what this is. It's a business.

 

[jeffmathers]

There's always going to be people charging different rates. I personally don't have the intention to remove my hour long option and to raise my hourly rate to like 500$ anytime soon, but I understand why some providers do and it doesn't ruin my business that certain people charge more or have a 90 minute minimum..

This week I had 2 x 12 hour bookings. But this weekend I have a 45 minute session, and 2 regular hourly sessions, along with 2 hour appointments. I wouldn't cancel a hour long booking if another client offered something longer.

I also don't feel like individual providers should be held responsible for why "many stop hobbying".. things change and maybe the industry isn't suitable for certain people's needs anymore. Maybe some are afraid that things will become like in the US where a lot of people's rates are very high and services like bbbj and dfk are not the norm, but I don't think this is happening right now.

Here are other issues I see more worth bringing up: the bad economy leading to a hike in rent & prices & people's rates, websites like tryst, EI and leolist not filtering profiles, scams, people trying to get unsafe services from providers (and often trying to subtly inquire about them...) which leads to some people casually offering them, laws that criminalize clients.

There are also different types of clients just like there are different types of providers. If I'm not offering anal and PSE doesn't mean I don't like my clients and I don't want to give clients what they want.. I'm just not the right provider for the type of client looking for that experience and what's wonderful is that others are.

"the bad economy leading to a hike in rent & prices & people's rates, websites like tryst, EI and leolist not filtering profiles, scams, people trying to get unsafe services from providers (and often trying to subtly inquire about them...) which leads to some people casually offering them, laws that criminalize clients."

I hope you know that I agree with all of that. Also I would add the fact that leolist charges providers a lot more than it did before. Also it's awful that it's getting harder for providers to travel internationally safely than before due to border changes though this started before 2020. Before 2020 a provider who is not in the province of Quebec and had her face blurred in all photos was going to a family event in the US (not even planning to work) and got banned from Canada at the border and turned back. Her case is the exception not the norm as international tours still exist but yeah a lot of people (who are not providers) don't realize how much pressure is on providers.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

"the bad economy leading to a hike in rent & prices & people's rates, websites like tryst, EI and leolist not filtering profiles, scams, people trying to get unsafe services from providers (and often trying to subtly inquire about them...) which leads to some people casually offering them, laws that criminalize clients."

I hope you know that I agree with all of that. Also I would add the fact that leolist charges providers a lot more than it did before. Also it's awful that it's getting harder for providers to travel internationally safely than before due to border changes though this started before 2020. Before 2020 a provider who is not in the province of Quebec and had her face blurred in all photos was going to a family event in the US (not even planning to work) and got banned from Canada at the border and turned back. Her case is the exception not the norm as international tours still exist but yeah a lot of people (who are not providers) don't realize how much pressure is on providers.

Yes, the advertising platforms charging a lot is another issue, particularly leolist because it's not a monthly price. You are also not guaranteed to get a client if you bump your ad on leolist, particularly if you screen or ask for deposits. According to many providers, in the past you could advertise for free and get clients.. You also didn't need to have a ton of social media accounts to promote yourself.

Would anyone like to see a photo of my kitten? He's very cute. Free cat pics in your inbox.

 

[LeDodo]

Would anyone like to see a photo of my kitten? He's very cute. Free cat pics in your inbox.

Me!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Me!

I know some people will not want to ask so here is one