Continuos SP Cancellations and Your Time

[Vegeta1]

Personally my only issue is that there is no "equivalence" in this business.

If you are a client and cancel : You are the bad guy or/and you lose deposits. Hey i agree with that... Its how it should be.

But if you are the SP and cancel : Oh well tough luck budy ... better chance next time...

I know there is some gymnastic saying "its our business, while you do that for fun" wich ok... i can at least understand the reasoning. But if a client goes out of his way to book you, like pay travel, pay hotel, reserve his time... is it ok to just be like "im sorry bud... can we reschedule".

I dunno... for me it kinda feel "not right". Should a discount the equivalent of a deposit be applied next time he schedule and it work?

Je sais que ca peux sembler un peu "bébé" de dire ca ... mais imaginez ... vous etes un parents et votre enfant se leve le jour de Noel... mais ya pas de cadeau en dessous de l'arbre... Et la vous dites a votre enfant "bin dsl le pere noel y pouvais pas passer... y'avais mal au ventre". Moi c'est un peu de meme je me sens quand ya une cancellation surtout 3/4 du temps c'est tellement des excuses bizarres qui cache autre chose. Je sais que bin des clients sont des ... hum je peux pas dire le mot parce que ...rules... lol, mais je suis pas eux. Moi je book, je show up... Meme si j'ai une jambe peter je vais quand meme show up !! (la demoiselle devra juste travailler une tite affaire plus lol). Bref ... juste mon sentiment.

Bingo! Blame others, take zero accountability, and expect folks here to agree + acknowledge + support your one-way reasoning. I wonder what this thread would look like if the dialogue was flipped (customer cancelling on SP).

That being said, thankfully, not all SPs are like the ones chiming in to this thread. Some actually acknowledge the inconvenience caused by last minute cancellations and make it up to customers at their discretion (new appointment, discount, etc.).

 

[Halloween Mike]

I wonder what this thread would look like if the dialogue was flipped (customer cancelling on SP).

That being said, thankfully, not all SPs are like the ones chiming in to this thread.

Sadly there is a lot of customers that do tough. And very few SPs that actively engage on the board (outside of ads). So its not a good reflection but basically what im trying to say is i put a lot of blame on clients who cancel too. They screw up the business not only of the SPs (making them lose revenues, time etc) but us the legit clients as it lead to many different "counter measures" taken by the SPs wich are not "ideal" even if you are 100% genuine in your bookings.

Try to not be too harsh on the SPs that DO participate here. I am personally happy they do. I may not always agree with them, even sometimes hard disagree, but i think conversation, exchanges, knowledge, can only be benefit for everybody. Its true that we (clients) can't have a 100% knowledge of what happen behind the scene, even if we been partially at that place (because we known SPs more personally, or even booked in some case). And even another SP is only 100% knowledgable of her own situation. The situation of a different provider can be totally different as well.

There is an escort subreddit where they don't allow clients to post, but they allow us to "lurk", and i been reading a lot on various situations and i noticed providers "bickering" among themselves is happening often. They don't all have the same situations, same bookings, same clients base etc. I do have to say i had to bite my tongue more than once to refrain from posting on stuff that i really disagreed hard (lol) but for the most part its a good read and it bring a lot of good infos.

 

[Dvsone]

There is an escort subreddit where they don't allow clients to post, but they allow us to "lurk", and i been reading a lot on various situations and i noticed providers "bickering" among themselves is happening often. They don't all have the same situations, same bookings, same clients base etc. I do have to say i had to bite my tongue more than once to refrain from posting on stuff that i really disagreed hard (lol) but for the most part its a good read and it bring a lot of good infos.

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

 

[Enjoying life]

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

700 an hour do not think so

 

[Halloween Mike]

That subreddit is hilarious. A bunch of girls who don't do GFE and think they all deserve $700+ an hour then complain to each other about slow bookings.

Its mostly American tough so i can understand the style is different over there. But yeah sometimes i read pretty much what you say, or super entitled opinions, and then i just have to bite my tongue as im not allowed to post since im not an SP myself.

 

[CaptRenault]

There is always a chance of a last minute cancellation or time change with any call girl, whether she works for an agency or is a so-called independent.

I have had a few bad experiences with last minute changes with both agency girls and indies. But one great thing about dealing with an agency is that I have always been able to book another girl for the same day or night, and sometime the substitute girl turns out to be a pleasant surprise.

A couple times I have had an agency offer me a small discount as compensation for an appointment cancelled at the last minute. When an indy girl cancels, she generally won't offer anything except the chance to reschedule for another day, and that does me no good when I am in town for only a few days.