After reading your post, I think I understand what he said. I was confused at first. I think he means that men should try it on themselves before asking women to do it? If I am mistaken, please correct me.
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I've the same understanding. But the try is more to get a better understanding at it before doing it on someone so it's more enjoyable for the receiver.
I don't disagree with you honestly, even if it's not for everyone. I can offer it on someone if they enjoy it and I've definitely tried it many times and never liked it, but I know how to avoid hurting someone and I'm well aware of all the rituals around itAs a side note on this fascinating topic, i'm among the people who think we should try anal play before asking for it, it gives more perspective and probably more clues about how to handle it. Not sure i'm in the majority on this one
No.. and I'd never call anyone that during sex no matter what lol I don't judge people who have that kink but it's not for me.
I agree, both for your understanding of what a provider might be feeling when you do it but also bc it may unlock a whole suite of pleasures/experiences/orgasms you might enjoy.As a side note on this fascinating topic, i'm among the people who think we should try anal play before asking for it, it gives more perspective and probably more clues about how to handle it. Not sure i'm in the majority on this one
Yes, it comes with paying extra for a dominating me visit. But very few clients earn the right to get to book that visit. Offered as a special offer only to those I see the right personality traits I am willing to be submissive under.
I would accept an exchange of service if I would need something that I can't pay myself, or if it'd be easier to get from a good, regular client. But I don't at the moment, so no other form of payment than cash is accepted.
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It depends on the person. It also depends on what you mean by "supporter".. someone being a client isn't the same thing as somebody investing in your future. If a client had been super generous with me over a long period of time (over a year) I may accept an exchange of service that would be of great value to me. I'd also accept seeing him in a social context for free one last time and I'd stay in touch.. but there's nobody who fits that description...
Fair point. Being a regular is amazing but unfortunately not enough for me to accept actions in lieu of monetary payments
That's the thing. I appreciate regulars and repeat clients, but they are coming back because they like me and they enjoy my service, not to get something in return one day.. there are occasions when I've thanked clients in the form of extra time or exchanging messages or gifts but ultimately these clients are not there to "support me"... I hear a lot of stories about providers who had their rent paid by a good client or were sent large amounts of money by someone who wanted to invest in their future. This never happened to me ...
What kind of regular are you? Do you visit me every month or every week? Are you always nice or are you sometimes being a prick? Are you jumping in me as soon as I open the door or do you at least ask how I’ve been before we start kissing?
Many factors will influence whether I’ll give you a generous discount or not
Many factors will influence whether I’ll give you a generous discount or not
Luckily a special someone helped me with my laptop but maybe the thread can matchmake some others
Après 12 ou 15 rencontres avec la même personne, avec une fréquence d’environ une fois par mois, je me considère comme un régulier. Et je ne crois pas m’être jamais comporté comme un crétin. Les rencontre sont d’une durée minimum de 2 heures, et lorsqu’elle ouvre la porte, c’est comme si je revoyais une bonne amie. Gros câlins, et débute une conversation autour d’un bon verre, qui peut durer 30, 40, 50 minutes. And then, slowly, we start kissing, and the crescendo is always incredible. A mon âge, une heure de jeux intimes me satisfait pleinement, pour ne pas dire me vide complètement. Avant de lire cette chronique, je n’ai jamais envisagé une forme d’escompte en tant que client régulier. Et n’irai jamais dans cette direction.
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