After reading your post, I think I understand what he said. I was confused at first. I think he means that men should try it on themselves before asking women to do it? If I am mistaken, please correct me.Don't know where "the public" lands on this, but IMO the only way to enjoy anal is to adequately prepare before penetration (especially if girth is above average).
If you've never tried on yourself, you can't appreciate the difference between "prepared" vs "unprepared" and that is no fun for anyone.




