Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

Lunaseraphim said:

That but also some men are capable of it and prefer not to. I've had clients who strangely were okay with everything BUT penetration and kissing because they felt that was cheating. Not sure where the logic is behind that lol but if it makes them feel better, that's alright. Some men also can't get used to condoms but still want to see SP, so they opt for sessions that include everything but penetration. The truth is that as SP we have to accommodate a wide variety of sessions within our boundaries.

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Giselle Montreal said:

If he's your friend, than you could just talk to him on the phone, or facetime or zoom.

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Lunaseraphim said:

There are different style of reviews, I've noticed that mine aren't written in detail, which gives me mixed feelings. On one hand, I like the discretion.. I'm not a huge fan of details of my encounters with gentlemen being revealed on the internet. On the other hand, I know some men are worried we won't provide the services we say we provide....

I think you are right, men who want different types of sessions are less likely to write reviews. You're far from the only one who doesn't want penetration during sessions. Some clients are the opposite, they go straight from kissing to penetration.. no bbbj or daty (their choice, probably safety related)

I've realized however that a lot of people have critical thinking and emotional regulation skills and are capable of asking for what they want.

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Rebaynia said:

My random thought of the moment...

I need to smoke a joint so I stop sounding like a damn sex ed teacher. Dumb myself down a bit so my vocabulary doesn't sound too hoity-toity.

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Rebaynia said:

Lol. This logic falls under the same logic of the restrictions I placed in my relationships when it came to 3somes. If they were never going to be willing for a MFM 3some, then penetration on her was not allowed.
We all 3 got to play freely, but his member was not going to be stuck inside someone else, if I was not going to get to feel someone else inside me as well. For me that would have been the unfair line that would make the relationship a sham, and an instant dealbreaker if he could be inside others, and I only ever feel him. F*CK THAT nonsense. He could only do to her what I could.

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jeffmathers said:

I could give extremely graphic reviews but I doubt any providers here would like that. If someone would like that it would be interesting to see them and give every detail. I feel afraid of saying the wrong thing when writing reviews. I wouldn't want the person to feel objectified. Off topic but

Spoiler

Obviously being a provider is way harder than being a client but it would be so cool if civilian dating was the way it was before one company bought all the dating apps.

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Lunaseraphim said:

That's the thing lol some men like to write graphic reviews but I'd say most don't

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jeffmathers said:

Really I feel all clients should ask before writing reviews.

I wrote a long reply and then just deleted it. This is an interesting topic.

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Lunaseraphim said:

I'm sorry you experienced emotional abuse.

I don't want to talk about this anymore. I thought I was shedding light on something, but it was deflected.

I feel stupid. Honestly I feel pressured to explain myself by detailing personal experiences & things my friends and the women in my family experienced and I don't want to. (And I'm pretty sure you guys don't want to hear these stories, either. Let's stay positive)

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jeffmathers said:

Really I feel all clients should ask before writing reviews.

I wrote a long reply and then just deleted it. This is an interesting topic.

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jeffmathers said:

Today I learned the English word "roué"

roué - Wiktionary, the free dictionary

en.wiktionary.org

"a debauched man, especially an elderly one."

Also "fleshpot"

"places providing luxurious or hedonistic living."

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ChloeCoeur said:

I've never heard this used in a sentence.... you'll have to give me an example

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jeffmathers said:

"he had lived the life of a roué in the fleshpots of

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LC18 said:

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