Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[philonius]

To those that don’t understand men gifting SPs items on their wishlist, I just saw a very obvious AI generated Twitter account that has a wishlist with items being bought

At least if you gift a SP something, she truly exists and will thank you in person

I try and bring something off the list in person. It's a risk in case someone else gets it online first but I usually bring the gift receipt too. I'm selfish and want to experience the gratitude right away lol.

 

[LeDodo]

I try and bring something off the list in person. It's a risk in case someone else gets it online first but I usually bring the gift receipt too. I'm selfish and want to experience the gratitude right away lol.

Seeing her happy right away is nice but I like to surprise (almost) anonymously and Throne disappointed and frustrated me as I had no clue if she had received or even know about it. So I couldn't be happy of making her day

 

[philonius]

Seeing her happy right away is nice but I like to surprise (almost) anonymously and Throne disappointed and frustrated me as I had no clue if she had received or even know about it. So I couldn't be happy of making her day

Plus you have to be careful/check out the items independently first bc a lot of items on Throne are marked up from retail by upwards of 20%. Also, no disrespect against those that do this but, if the whole list has "Payout" on every item, you're just giving them money, not gifts, which for me defeats the purpose. I can give cash in person without a middleman.

 

[LeDodo]

Plus you have to be careful/check out the items independently first bc a lot of items on Throne are marked up from retail by upwards of 20%. Also, no disrespect against those that do this but, if the whole list has "Payout" on every item, you're just giving them money, not gifts, which for me defeats the purpose. I can give cash in person without a middleman.

Yeah that's why it's a bit off putting but well, I'll find other ways to surprise the lady. I have lot of social dates ideas up my sleeve

 

[LC18]

Online gifts are great when you don’t live in the same city, when you want to surprise someone and more. I like to thank people in person and online as well

 

[philonius]

Online gifts are great when you don’t live in the same city, when you want to surprise someone and more. I like to thank people in person and online as well

Yeah but the in-person thanks tend to be noticeably, um... wetter.

 

[Rebaynia]

You would create your in-person ad in the independent escort section, and your online ad in the online section. There were new girls who tried to advertise their onlyfans in the independent escort section trying to make believe they offered in-person, but they didn't, it was only a way to get clients to subscribe to their onlyfans. It is now a problem on Tr*st, and now it slowed down but they started doing the same thing here. Clients will eventually get tired of the deceptive advertising, and might not come back.

I have my in person ad, and my online stuff is only a mention in a further message, used as a means to bump my ad, it isn't in my main part of the ad.

I agree with online people shouldn't advertise in the in-person section, but someone who is in-person, and also does online shouldn't be prevented from advertising both in their advertising space.

Like when I was offering in person only, I wouldn't go advertising in the online space. (But I agree the online only advertisers have found a way to breach all areas to try pushing their advertising, it is an issue it seems all over the internet, not just here.)

Reviews don't make the difference either, as I've been Indy for 3 yrs, and online for like 2 weeks, with no reviews from being an indy. And I don't want to have to try and push ads in 2 places on merb, I am Indy first, so anything I will have to advertise goes on my 1 Indy ad. I couldn't be bothered with makeing a second ad for online stuff.

If they aren't Indy, they get their ad removed from the Indy section, (sounds good to me) but I don't see why anyone should gatekeep what another indy has to advertise in their ad. If I do both, then it is my right not to make my life more difficult and have to make seperate ads to advertise the 1 person who is myself. It's more work for nothing.