Would you ever be a sugar daddy?
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I did it for about 2 and a half years. It was a lot of fun for most of the time we were together and there was nothing about the experience that wouldn't make me want to do it again.
My ATF and I discussed getting together and getting into an arrangement but we decided that if we did, it might change the relationship that we had, and that we still had, and we were both really happy with where we were at. I think that was a good long term decision for me because I find when we're together too often, I find myself falling for her in a way she doesn't want to be fallen for.
My ATF and I discussed getting together and getting into an arrangement but we decided that if we did, it might change the relationship that we had, and that we still had, and we were both really happy with where we were at. I think that was a good long term decision for me because I find when we're together too often, I find myself falling for her in a way she doesn't want to be fallen for.
Bingo! Congratulations for your prescience on this topic. Contrary to what most people believe, these relationships are very "complicated". And while many would believe that the power dynamic would favor the "daddy", it's actually much more nuanced than that. In plain terms, women know how to exploit men's emotions. See this interesting study on this topic.
The psychology of sugar dating: New research dives deep into the realities of sugar arrangements
New research highlights the complexity of sugar dating, blending elements of transactional sex and traditional romantic relationships. The findings shed light on the motivations, benefits, concerns, and nuanced power dynamics between sugar babies and their benefactors.
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Short answer: no. For me, it's client SP or boyfriend/girlfriend. Anything that blends elements of the two–and that's exactly what SB/SD is–is an emotional minefield.
I find being an SD interesting, as you get to build more of a relationship than just for sex, and the bond would be long term, similar to have a regular SP but more like friends with paid benefits. As a bonus if this helps a lady to get through university and get a degree, it a very beneficial for her long term and something I would happily support.
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