Would you ever be a sugar daddy?
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I did it for about 2 and a half years. It was a lot of fun for most of the time we were together and there was nothing about the experience that wouldn't make me want to do it again.
My ATF and I discussed getting together and getting into an arrangement but we decided that if we did, it might change the relationship that we had, and that we still had, and we were both really happy with where we were at. I think that was a good long term decision for me because I find when we're together too often, I find myself falling for her in a way she doesn't want to be fallen for.
My ATF and I discussed getting together and getting into an arrangement but we decided that if we did, it might change the relationship that we had, and that we still had, and we were both really happy with where we were at. I think that was a good long term decision for me because I find when we're together too often, I find myself falling for her in a way she doesn't want to be fallen for.
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Short answer: no. For me, it's client SP or boyfriend/girlfriend. Anything that blends elements of the two–and that's exactly what SB/SD is–is an emotional minefield.
I find being an SD interesting, as you get to build more of a relationship than just for sex, and the bond would be long term, similar to have a regular SP but more like friends with paid benefits. As a bonus if this helps a lady to get through university and get a degree, it a very beneficial for her long term and something I would happily support.
No. For the simple reason that I wouldn’t put all my resources on one girl…
They have all their specialties.
They have all their specialties.
Not with a SP. Tried once with SP and I was treated more like one of her all time favorite client
she was still hustling to meet her quota of Johns
I rather look for a non pro for SB experience
SB have different mindset. Willing to be more exclusive and have fewer partners No condom needed. Willing to spend nonsex activities with you at no costs . Travel with you and be with you overnights. The mindset is one of Hoping to have a long term relationship with you.
she was still hustling to meet her quota of Johns
I rather look for a non pro for SB experience
SB have different mindset. Willing to be more exclusive and have fewer partners No condom needed. Willing to spend nonsex activities with you at no costs . Travel with you and be with you overnights. The mindset is one of Hoping to have a long term relationship with you.
Just a few partners is safe enough for you? How many is "a few partners", and will you really ever know what she's doing when you're not there?
Nope. Each time I'm not looking for more than a deeply connected, mutually enjoyable sexual experience, whatever that looks like. I think it would ruin the fantasy of it to a degree.
Yes. But it minimal compared to SP. Pay for her dinner Pay for her concert.
We enjoy each others company
Escorts expect to be paid for the time no matter if sex is included.
Yes with married couples never know
You probably see a lot of married dudes so condoms are the way to go cause no one’s honest
That’s why open communication and being honest with your sex partners is important to me.
We do StD tests before exclusivity and if there a feeling we don’t want to exclusive then it’s condom time.
Not what you said. Read your message again. You said a perk with s/ugar baby is that the condom is not needed.
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Yes. It’s a mutual decision to go without condoms
There going to be some SB that want to use condoms no matter what
Nothing is absolute
Almost all escort will want condoms, but there are exceptions in the escort world too
What I’m saying condoms are an option when hooking up with Sb
With an escort it’s a necessity
I understand but I think what you want to say is that you are looking for less experienced SBs who don't know yet how to "maximize" the relationship versus an experienced SBs who by experience will be more demanding.
It has nothing to do with being an SP. The results would have been the same with a less experienced SP.
Does sound risky not to use a condom with an SB, as expect may not be a monogamous relationship.
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