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You are incorrect. Several of my colleagues require deposits and they aren't scammers.

Also, when you visit agencies, you are identifying yourself by using your real phone number. So I guess, run from agencies.

Also, massage parlours have cameras so likely they have recordings of you somewhere. Run from them too.
In terms of deposits, I was moreso meaning that it doesn't make logical sense to pay a deposit, regardless if they are a scammer

And for the last 2 points, I'd say that's a bit different compared to sending over an image of your personal ID
 

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In terms of deposits, I was moreso meaning that it doesn't make logical sense to pay a deposit, regardless if they are a scammer

And for the last 2 points, I'd say that's a bit different compared to sending over an image of your personal ID
Maybe to you it doesn't, but I personally have to pay deposits for several services, so it's curious to me that you find this concept "illogical" and that you haven't encountered it yet outside of "mongering".

I pay a deposit to my hair stylist. I pay a deposit if I want a tattoo. I've paid deposits to rent hotel rooms. I've paid deposits at spas if I wanted a massage. Lawyers, therapists, you name it... Many many professionals require deposits.

It's not just escorts who ask for them, and nobody asks for fun. The thing I was bitching about is why people ask for deposits.

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It's different from a piece of ID but they are still personal identification. And none of it can actually be used to -scam you-.

The fact that an escort or her boss has information about you won't magically remove money from your bank account.
 
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You are incorrect. Several of my colleagues require deposits and they aren't scammers.

Also, when you visit agencies, you are identifying yourself by using your real phone number. So I guess, run from agencies.

Also, massage parlours have cameras so likely they have recordings of you somewhere. Run from them too.
I do kind of feel like we've strayed from the path here, and I agree with you mentioning that earlier, but I'm going to say that you are incorrect as well, or some context needed, so I'm going to dip my oar in the water again. Sorry.

1) several of your colleagues aren't scammers and do ask for deposits. That's fine, and I agree with you. Once again you are a small group of fish in the pond and guys need to look out for more than just you and your friends. There will be scammers and there will be lost deposits. Ths has already been discussed. Also, whether they are scammers or not doesn't really necessarily affect whether you should be paying deposits or not which is a different question.
2) I can't speak to how many people use their real phone numbers, but they're crazy if they do. None of the people I hang with use real numbers and all have a burner phone for all of their monger related activities. So, visit agencies at will if you like. I don't use agencies either, so it's all academic to me, but whatever applies to you.
3) Again I know that many MPs have cameras, although not all recording. Most indy MPs don't and so there's once again a decision to be made. This is in part why when I see MPs i generally prefer indies to salons although since I share no personal info I don't worry overly about it much even in the spas. It's a very small level of risk that I'm comfortable with and since I see indies or go to micros mostly it's unlikely to be an issue.
 
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I do kind of feel like we've strayed from the path here, and I agree with you mentioning that earlier, but I'm going to say that you are incorrect as well, or some context needed, so I'm going to dip my oar in the water again. Sorry.

1) several of your colleagues aren't scammers and do ask for deposits. That's fine, and I agree with you. Once again you are a small group of fish in the pond and guys need to look out for more than just you and your friends. There will be scammers and there will be lost deposits. Ths has already been discussed. Also, whether they are swcammers or not doesn't really necessarily affect whether you should be paying deposits or not which is a different question.
2) I can't speak to how many people use their real phone numbers, but they're crazy if they do. None of the people I hang with use real numbers and all have a burner phone for all of their monger related activities. So, visit agencies at will if you like. I don't use agencies either, so it's all academic to me, but whatever applies to you.
3) Again I know that many MPs have cameras, although not all recording. Most indy MPs don't and so there's once again a decision to be made. This is in part why when I see MPs i generally prefer indies to salons although since I share no personal info I don't worry overly about it much even in the spas. It's a very small level of risk that I'm comfortable with and since I see indies or go to micros mostly it's unlikely to be an issue.
I expressed myself incorrectly, what I meant is that agencies do not accept text apps from what I've heard. Textapps can easily be changed and the client can't be traced.

And for MPs I'm talking about massage parlours specifically, not independent erotic masseuses. Many of them have cameras including in the rooms.

I don't think anyone is "crazy for using their real phone numbers" because the likelihood of something bad happening is very low. I don't want to get into this, tho. It's really off topic.

I was really only just bitching about cancellations.
 

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I expressed myself incorrectly, what I meant is that agencies do not accept text apps from what I've heard. Textapps can easily be changed and the client can't be traced.

And for MPs I'm talking about massage parlours specifically, not independent erotic masseuses. Many of them have cameras including in the rooms.

I don't think anyone is "crazy for using their real phone numbers" because the likelihood of something bad happening is very low. I don't want to get into this, tho. It's really off topic.

I was really only just bitching about cancellations.
Yes, cancellations suck. :)
 
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So, then what's the best rule of thumb to avoid scams from escorts?
There's lots of good advice you can get from here about this (in other, more specific threads) but these below aren't even remotely it:
Rule number 1) if a deposit is required, run

Rule number 2) if you have to send your personal identification, also run

And rule number 3) if you're considering seeing a freelancer or independent woman, it's not worth your time or money unless you've read real reviews of her from previous mongers
Here's a piece of advice: if they've got less posts than fingers and toes, you can safely take their advice with a grain of salt.
 
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I hate those fruits and vegetables plastic bags. They are so hard to open. My go to technique is to blow it till both sides separate :D
 
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Hate those drivers who can't make a proper left turn, and by laziness just drive in diagonal
 

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When you are polyglot and you can messed up the scammers. The real Katrina can speak French
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I never realised, until tonight, how much I can't stand women that clap their hands when they talk.
 
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First world problem bitching to follow:

It's fucking feast or famine round my way for fun things (and people) to do this summer. 4 concerts and 6 touring favourites near me in 2 weeks is gonna age me like nothing before. By fall I'll have hearing aids and be shooting only dust when I cum.
 

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I'm grateful my sudden lower back pain is gone after a good night sleep, it was suddenly so painful yesterday ...
That sudden pain appeared when I planned to go to a concert that night ... I held my lower back during the whole concert and was sweating of pain ...
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LeDodo

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You should take one or two Robaxacet when it happens. And it might mean that you need to move your body more often, babe :- )
Thanks for the recommendation!

Didn't know there was specific medication for such issues. It's perfect for me generally speaking!

I need to extend my body movement from just my stomach one lol
 

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Thanks for the recommendation!

Didn't know there was specific medication for such issues. It's perfect for me generally speaking!

I need to extend my body movement from just my stomach one lol
Also tiger balm
 
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Thanks for the recommendation!

Didn't know there was specific medication for such issues. It's perfect for me generally speaking!

I need to extend my body movement from just my stomach one lol
It's a muscle relaxant. When your lower back hurts, it's 99,9% muscular.

Yes, you need to move more than your shoulder (to lift youe fork) and stomach *laughing emoji*
 
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Oh yes. And I don't remember if here the Salonpas brand is sold here. In Asia their stickers/bandages and solutions are widespread
Yes you can find capsaïcine sticker bandages, I cant remember exactly where but china town is certainly a good place to look. To me they dont do anything, neither tiger balm, besides the heat sensation I don’t feel any pain relief.

Robaxacets extra strong are effective, but for some sensitive persons they can induce dizziness, or other inconfortable side effects. I use them as a last resort solution and it is not recommanded to drive when using it.
 
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