The Bitching thread

[twenty4seven]

I suppose if I’m paying 2 hours incall date for the triple the cost of agency girls, I would hope that they are dress to impress? (At least look like their advertisements) Perhaps that’s not the expectation I should have. And that’s okay if that’s the norm.

Did you communicate your expectations? "Hey, we're going to this <upscale restaurant> so I'll be dressed like X, if you want an idea of what to wear" or "I really like that <outfit from an ad pic>, can you wear that?"

Otherwise you're just hoping someone reads your mind. At that price points there's no harm in asking.

You want them in the cow print lingerie you saw them wear one time online? Just ask.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Did you communicate your expectations? "Hey, we're going to this <upscale restaurant> so I'll be dressed like X, if you want an idea of what to wear" or "I really like that <outfit from an ad pic>, can you wear that?"

Otherwise you're just hoping someone reads your mind. At that price points there's no harm in asking.

You want them in the cow print lingerie you saw them wear one time online? Just ask.

lol at the cow print lingerie.

I just want to add that sometimes we don't have these clothes anymore.. but if you give an idea of how you want the woman to present herself, just share it with her when you inquire. If you communicate different expectations, you'll see if it's a good match or not.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I also wouldn't wear the same thing for a one-hour incall as for a five-hour dinner date at La Tanière.

 

[Fradi]

I’m going to change the topic quite a bit. There are some amazing Indy SPs and love seeing them multiples times. However, do we feel like some of them are just not worth it at their price point? Whether it’s their looks, how they prepared for the date, personality or the services they provide,…

I suppose when I am having a 2 - 4 hour date with an Indy, and provide drinks and food, I have certain expectation as to how they should dress and prepare for the date? I don’t know if anyone else had this kind of experiences or if I had some just bad experiences as of late,…

I guess a lot can be said for doing your research well so you won’t be disappointed and the good news is that you only need to repeat with the one that met your expectations.
Style really depends on your taste and the ladies as well.

The two ladies I see are very different in style and dress and I like them both.
My ATF always looks as if she just stepped out of a fashion magazine and she could hold her own in any country club or celebrity gathering but is so down to earth and easy to be with. Her bedroom attire is like a fashion show lol.

The other young lady I see is usually dressed very sexy but I guess nothing would be able to hide her amazing curves and I don’t mind her not hiding them.
I am comfortable with both and I love the way they look but even more Importantly both these ladies are kind and extremely nice human beings and both are a pleasure to be with every time.

 

[LC18]

I suppose if I’m paying 2 hours incall date for the triple the cost of agency girls, I would hope that they are dress to impress? (At least look like their advertisements) Perhaps that’s not the expectation I should have. And that’s okay if that’s the norm.

I dress normally, I almost always wear a dress if I’m hosting. Winter/summer

But I won’t go as far as wearing makeup because that’s not something I do in my normal life unless it’s to go out

If not wearing makeup means I should lower my rates then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

This sounds just like another way to rant about rates, next!

 

[Mason2295]

All valid points. I did start the “complaining” by saying how much I enjoy seeing indies and I have repeated multiples times and spend a day or a weekend together, and money didn’t seem like an issue for me.

I guess I’m just sharing some thoughts about some of the experiences this year. There are indies whom does not have MERB or have much reviews,.. I did take chances, but didn’t work out so well lol. Thanks for listening!

 

[mtlspacial]

I also wouldn't wear the same thing for a one-hour incall as for a five-hour dinner date at La Tanière.

How about we go to Pacini.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

How about we go to Pacini.

It’d just be less short than for a one-hour incall :- )

 

[mtlspacial]

It’d just be less short than for a one-hour incall :- )

If I ever go on a date with you, I swear we're going to Pacini. LOL

 

[Giselle Montreal]

If I ever go on a date with you, I swear we're going to Pacini. LOL

I said less short, not shorter!

 

[LC18]

I did take chances, but didn’t work out so well lol.

Maybe it’s a lack of chemistry and not a lack of good clothes

 

[mtlspacial]

I said less short, not shorter!

Whatever you say. But I'm not paying extra for the bread bar... I have my limits.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Whatever you say. But I'm not paying extra for the bread bar... I have my limits.

Isn't that the only point of going to that restaurant?

 

[mtlspacial]

Isn't that the only point of going to that restaurant?

Rules are rules.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Isn't that the only point of going to that restaurant?

Unlimited bread and garlic butter, the only reason to go there! But it’d better be after our sensual little moment because, garlic.

 

[mtlspacial]

Unlimited bread and garlic butter, the only reason to go there! But it’d better be after our sensual little moment because, garlic.

Now I have an idea: Giselle and Luna, double-date. Pacini. No bread bar.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Now I have an idea: Giselle and Luna, double-date. Pacini. No bread bar.

If Giselle is there, the bread bar isn't important

 

[mtlspacial]

If Giselle is there, the bread bar isn't important

You now understand my male brain will be thinking about this each time I see a Pacini.... torture.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

If Giselle is there, the bread bar isn't important

Likewise :- )