Online Dating, any one into it ?
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I have tried a few and the ones that you need to pay are mostly a scam. One site I put in 60yrs old 250lbs and income of less that $20,000.00 ( This is in the free part ). In less that a day I was getting e-mails that some hot ( pic included ) 26 year old wants to get to know me. Click on the link and you need to pay for a membership to see who it was... Plenty of Fish is free but you need to send a lot of e-mails back and forth, the girls have the upper hand and pick and chose after awhile. Met a couple of them and there is a lot of baggage that comes with some of these. In Plenty of Fish there is also an erotic encounter section for quicky meetings 
Again, the women have the upper hand as always with these sites. It would be nice if the tables were turned and women did the " hunting ". Imagine, women buying guys dinner and drinks, taking tham away on holidays. Instead of GoodGirls you would have an agency called GoodGuys and then thousands of guys could be making $200.00 per/hr having sex with girls and women could review us
Again, the women have the upper hand as always with these sites. It would be nice if the tables were turned and women did the " hunting ". Imagine, women buying guys dinner and drinks, taking tham away on holidays. Instead of GoodGirls you would have an agency called GoodGuys and then thousands of guys could be making $200.00 per/hr having sex with girls and women could review us Jay, Online dating has become quite mainstream in the last dozen years. I know quite a few people who have found long term relationships and I've had some short term (six weeks-four months) success myself, though I ascribe my inability to find a long term relationship through them more to the fact that there are very few women in my age bracket that I find attractive, that most younger women looking on the "mainstream" sites are primarily looking in their own age bracket and most of those near my age, sadly, have considerable baggage. If I recall from your other thread, you are some 20 years younger than I am and, as such, you're much more likely to be successful than is someone my age.
Match.com is probably the oldest and most successful and has a membership fee. The one that I'd recommend as they have matching algorithms that are quite sophisticated is okcupid.com. These sites are both tailored for people looking for "traditional" relationships.
Good luck.
Match.com is probably the oldest and most successful and has a membership fee. The one that I'd recommend as they have matching algorithms that are quite sophisticated is okcupid.com. These sites are both tailored for people looking for "traditional" relationships.
Good luck.
Funny, Alyssa, that the other thread was started by the same guy and I'm the one that mentioned meetup.com.
Meetup.com isn't a dating site, per se, but a meeting ground for people of like interests. Of course, that makes it a terrific place to meet people and also a possible place to find a mate. I've personally met someone through a meetup group, and though it lasted a few months, it wasn't to be. It's my clear observation that the majority of the people joining meetup groups are single.
I am part of meetup.com , its not a dating site but a site where you find groups that have common interest . I want to start a Merb community on meetup.com
^^ Yeah, it's that bad on the men's side. Someone recently conducted experiment on this question (using Okcupid rather than POF, but I think the results would be more or less the same) and found that the most of attractive women had almost 20 times as many messages as the most attractive men, and that average-looking men typically had no messages at all:
http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/
So the odds are really stacked against men, especially if their looks aren't up to par. Average-looking women, on the other hand, are bound to get lots of attention.
http://jonmillward.com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/
So the odds are really stacked against men, especially if their looks aren't up to par. Average-looking women, on the other hand, are bound to get lots of attention.
That is part of the problem... almost 1 in 3 messages sent to women get answered... women get swarmed with too many messages. I do not believe in online dating at all. Better to go to a regular club and pick up there... I get waaaayyy more success over there. I get tired of sending emails and most of them not being answered. Believe me it is very bad on the mens side... if you are an average looking male you will probably get very few emails if none at all... and unless you are a master talker and can say all the right things to turn her on then most probably most of the emails will not even be answered by women. Women just get too many emails.
Actually, it does, for two reasons. First, very few of the women make overtures toward the men; the vast majority put themselves up there and wait for reply. If you look at the results, there are over 1000 messages from men to 50 from women. Second, 10% of the women get 90% of the messages. The attractive women are inundated with messages and, hence, only reply to a few.
So, what you're saying is that you're single.
It looks like we could have a new use for Merb.I checked out POF.
That site is total bullshit!
No women want to talk to me.
I goes if you don't have pictures of yourself flexing your muscles no girls will talk to you.
FUCK THAT SHIT
Id rather get in a relationship with an escort.
I think they are nicer people and more sincere
That site is total bullshit!
No women want to talk to me.
I goes if you don't have pictures of yourself flexing your muscles no girls will talk to you.
FUCK THAT SHIT
Id rather get in a relationship with an escort.
I think they are nicer people and more sincere
LOL
i really didn't spend a lot of time on my profile, cause i couldn't be bothered lol
usually ill just message a girl with a simple hello and they don't reply :\
well just the fat ones reply
in my profile i wrote hangout and not looking for commitment so maybe thats whats turning them off
i really didn't spend a lot of time on my profile, cause i couldn't be bothered lol
usually ill just message a girl with a simple hello and they don't reply :\
well just the fat ones reply
in my profile i wrote hangout and not looking for commitment so maybe thats whats turning them off
I went off on one girl
I told her off cause she wrote catholic on her profile.
I basically told her she was full of it and that i was against religion lol
At the time she had no pic.
Then she put a pic and she was hot !!!!!!!!!!!
Like an idiot i spoke too soon.
Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore ! LOOOL
I told her off cause she wrote catholic on her profile.
I basically told her she was full of it and that i was against religion lol
At the time she had no pic.
Then she put a pic and she was hot !!!!!!!!!!!
Like an idiot i spoke too soon.
Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore ! LOOOL
Id rather get in a relationship with an escort.
I think they are nicer people and more sincere
agreed!!
At least for the ones that are at the right place are good listners and they seem to be able to see good in ppl that are hiding it very far!
I'd rather get in a relationship with an escort.
I think they are nicer people and more sincere
What! You can not be serious. Do not get me wrong because I have met some very nice SP's but you can not make a general comment like that. Most Sp's, Mp's and strippers are at work when you see them and it is their job to make you feel good because you give them money.
Exactly rule n°1 boy ! At the time you see them they are WORKING ... plain & simple
Yup you feel good with some of them becoz in other words, it's called acting and some can be reallyyyyyy good actress !
Oh and most of them have already BF , ex BF, fuck friends ... name it !
Sorry to bust your bubble... just... my 2 cents :amen:
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