These days, we have so many options sold in aluminium cans, it's so trendy! Kombucha, lemonade (Flirts are good), ice tea, mocktails (a lot of mocktails are available on the shelves everywhere), non-alcoholic beers, etc. Sparkling water is always a nice, refreshing options, considering it's cold. Even coffees / latte are sold in cans. Maybe bringing 3-4 cans would be thoughtful, non expensive and she'll choose what she likes!
Making the SP feel comfortable
- Thread starter Michaelscott
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My favourites are sparkling water, fancy pop and bubble tea from specific places
Always have a great vibe as you are going to experience lust with someone you barely know which makes it very thrilling and personal ! I love giving gifts and nice kissing greeting hugs! It’s a great feeling being sexually open so enjoy!A lot of what you read in reviews is exaggerated, and I think sometimes when a client is reserved shyness is contagious.
Here is my advice for what made me comfortable as an indy SP, along with what others have already said:
-the client introduced himself properly with his name and age and maybe a bit more info about himself.. he filled my booking form or texted me with a real phone number. he already had a date and time in mind
-the client has a positive attitude, asks the right questions and says what he's looking for directly, he sends screening info
-if he is shy and reserved, he can say that during the booking process so that i'm ready for it
-if you want her to take the lead, let that be known.. sometimes guys just wait there without doing anything or saying anything, and that's uncomfortable for both parties
-if you need to break the ice, i recommend booking more than an hour with the SP so you guys can have a conversation maybe over a glass of wine before heading to the bedroom.
-book the same provider more than once. you will become more comfortable with her over time.
I'd prefer a client be shy and reserved than aggressive and cocky, personally.It's not a character flaw to be introverted and some SP are more suitable for a connection like this.
I agree with LC. I won't drink something from an open source from someone else. (Within reason, water straight from the tap is different, poured in front of me.
Besides I find refreshers have a bad aftertaste.
I think it would go better if you could provide a sealed drink for them. A bottle of something to drink. More SPs might take advantage of the refreshment you provided them that way.
I'm sure every single one of them appreciates the gesture that you braught them a drink. As a safty mechanism, I think women in general are cautioned about accepting open drinks from men, in any context, not just in our situations we have behind closed doors.
I have had the rare person ask me what I would like to drink. It gives me the opportunity to let them know what I like, and has always been a suggestion that came sealed. Or they have had a couple of options in bottle form to offer. Water and Coca-Cola, I'm takeing cola, water and Pepsi, I'm taking water. Drink options are personal. Refresher from any place, no thank you, I'd prefer just plain water to a refresher.
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