Hey Gents,
I have been away from Merb as I was switching from SP to SB and I had met three or four interesting SBs over the last 4 years ( I was on SA as well).
Pros:
- More personal, emotional connection as compared to a SP. More like a fuck buddy + friends with benefits. However, this can be cons for some gents who don't have the time to emotionally involve in a relationship like that and just need a good fuck
- SBs definitely are not clock watchers. I always had PPM arrangements and sometimes we can spent the whole day together without extra charge. I even brought one of my SB with me when I went to Seoul for business trip (which compares to SP will probably cost me a leg)
- There is a possibility that you won't need protection anymore
... condom is not my favorite and I prefer without if possible. With SB, this would be possible after regularly seeing each other for a while, while with SP, this will never happen
- Well, with SBs, you can train them (in a respectful way), the way you like it and also discovers what they like and vice versa. It's more GFE feeling and it's fun for the long term. I make one SB tried GREEK and she loves it afterward.
Cons:
- it's more time consuming to find the right SB. Not every babe on SA has the same taste for sex. Some platonic, some likes to be Dom and some likes to be sub, and some are into weirder stuff like heavy BDSM or FMF, MFM... so it takes time to find the right one
- financial wise, the younger SB will tend to settle over smaller amount of monthly allowance. 18 to 24 yrs old for example, you can find one probably around 1.5k to 2k a month, which equals to like 400 to 500 per week. There are also some will ask impossible amount like more than 700 ppm, twice a week. Well let's say not All people are millionaires
- You don't have time to see them? You still have to pay. Unlike SP, which is PPM, with SB, if you are particularly busy for work or away for business trip, you still have to compensate SBs
- Duration of relationship is not guaranteed. With SP, you know that they will be around and probably for a good period of time. However with SBs, this is an unknown, they can met a boyfriend in couple of months then relationship is either ended or go into a more complicated phase.. He he he Just careful that some SBs have probably been abused when they were young or Daddy issue and they can be pretty fucked up emotionally and sometimes out of control.
So depending what you are looking for, I hope I break it down enough for your gents' info.
By the way, to begin with SA website, you will need to pay in order to message the ladies. Once I break the ice on SA then I will move to WhatsApp for more personal communication.
I usually go with newer or younger SBs. They have less expectation and are probably testing water as well.
I always go with a meet up, dinner date/coffee date with no compensation first date. Then depending on feeling and how it goes, we can either call it off, or arrange next date or head to hotel. If they agree to meet you first date without compensation, they are probably not scammers( but of course you will have to pay for dinner or coffee
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