A vanilla woman is some "plain" Jane who does not give you that immediate spark upon meeting her. Every thing takes time to reveal itself and there is no guarantee there will be any attraction. Things will just phase out on its own and if something does happen things can very tame and a few notches down compared to when meeting an SP - That raw intense primal attraction.What does “vanilla women” mean? I am not ignorant, I just don’t understand the reference
Being in this hobby for too long you get used to and want that intense attraction that is immediate. Nothing to do with looks. A "plain" looking SP who will fuck your brains out will surpass a hot looking civilian girl who doesn't know how to blow you.