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How to live with a small pp

danny09

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Hi guys,


Just wondering, are there any guys here who have a small pp or are on the smaller side? How do you handle these situations? I know it is what it is and I cannot change it, but it still affects my mental health.



Thanks for the insight.
 

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I’m in a worse case than you, I don’t even have a penis.

On a more serious note, don’t let size fool you, I have had sex with men with big dicks and it sucked because they relied on their size to do all the work

They wouldn’t even move, they wouldn’t do anything, they would just stay there and probably think “my big cock is good enough”

Just make sure you have size appropriate condoms, the person you’ll meet might have some if she’s a professional girlfriend


Don’t overthink it, you can also work on your clit stimulation skills and oral (if you do that)
 

danny09

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I’m in a worse case than you, I don’t even have a penis.

On a more serious note, don’t let size fool you, I have had sex with men with big dicks and it sucked because they relied on their size to do all the work

They wouldn’t even move, they wouldn’t do anything, they would just stay there and probably think “my big cock is good enough”

Just make sure you have size appropriate condoms, the person you’ll meet might have some if she’s a professional girlfriend


Don’t overthink it, you can also work on your clit stimulation skills and oral (if you do that)
Thanks for the message. It’s just sometimes a little bit hard on morale.
 

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Hi guys,


Just wondering, are there any guys here who have a small pp or are on the smaller side? How do you handle these situations? I know it is what it is and I cannot change it, but it still affects my mental health.



Thanks for the insight.
If you can comb your eyebrows with your tongue you will be fine.
 

AnthonyAnderson

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I don't doubt that it affects your mental health, and it's a topic that is rarely discussed, but of great significance to those it affects. Some women will be tempted to minimize the issue, but they are wrong.

The first question I would ask is "how small"? It's an important question, because if porn is your reference, the reference point is way off vs real life.. The average erect penis is around 5 inches. If you are a below average, remember that roughly 50% of the population is in the same boat as you.

The second question would be: is it too small for penetration? If yes, I would suggest to emphasize other forms of intimacy. Cuddling, massage, oral sex (cunnilingus). A sexologist may be able to help here to provider tailored advice and/or therapy and/or counselling.

Ultimately, relationship-wise, you will need to find an empathic partner/girlfriend who will be able to alleviate some of your worries.
 

danny09

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I don't doubt that it affects your mental health, and it's a topic that is rarely discussed, but of great significance to those it affects. Some women will be tempted to minimize the issue, but they are wrong.

The first question I would ask is "how small"? It's an important question, because if porn is your reference, the reference point is way off vs real life.. The average erect penis is around 5 inches. If you are a below average, remember that roughly 50% of the population is in the same boat as you.

The second question would be: is it too small for penetration? If yes, I would suggest to emphasize other forms of intimacy. Cuddling, massage, oral sex (cunnilingus). A sexologist may be able to help here to provider tailored advice and/or therapy and/or counselling.

Ultimately, relationship-wise, you will need to find an empathic partner/girlfriend who will be able to alleviate some of your worries.
I'm at 3.43 inches so I guess below average it's really difficult to find a partner that accept such situations those days...
 

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I'm at 3.43 inches so I guess below average it's really difficult to find a partner that accept such situations those days...
I understand that it's not easy. I would suggest to put your energies into areas other than intimate relationships if they feel too daunting. If you've had to deal with rejection too often, it's best to simply avoid further pain and to stop exploring this avenue, at least temporarily. As an alternative, meaningful friendships, family, community work, faith-based activities are things that can provide meaning to life. None of this is easy either, but it's rewarding in the long term.
 
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Georgy07

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Don't listen to them. I have a very small PP too and girls hate it. They will try to tell you that it's all about how you use it but its not true. Small PP is a curse and i know i will never get loved for who i am. But... that's life ! Personnaly, this is why i seek SP companionship and i spend most of my free time enjoying hobbies, sports and stuff... I tried having a girlfriend in the past but it never worked.
 
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danny09

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Don't listen to them. I have a very small PP too and girls hate it. They will try to tell you that it's all about how you use it but its not true. Small PP is a curse and i know i will never get loved for who i am. But... that's life ! Personnaly, this is why i seek SP companionship and i spend most of my free time enjoying hobbies, sports and stuff... I tried having a girlfriend in the past but it never worked.
The most painful is that you will be ending alone and it's not even your fault
 
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danny09

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I understand that it's not easy. I would suggest to put your energies into areas other than intimate relationships if they feel too daunting. If you've had to deal with rejection too often, it's best to simply avoid further pain and to stop exploring this avenue, at least temporarily. As an alternative, meaningful friendships, family, community work, faith-based activities are things that can provide meaning to life. None of this is easy either, but it's rewarding in the long term.
I try to do that but it's like always having a missing part
 

LeDodo

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Hi guys,


Just wondering, are there any guys here who have a small pp or are on the smaller side? How do you handle these situations? I know it is what it is and I cannot change it, but it still affects my mental health.



Thanks for the insight.
Don’t overthink it, you can also work on your clit stimulation skills and oral (if you do that)
Focus more on the clit and try to know the lady sensitive part(s).
If she opened well enough to share with and guide.
 

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I’ve never pulled a measuring tape out but I have eyes to see. My ex had the smallest dick I’ve ever dated and sex wasn’t bad, if anything, I’d made certain things easier
 
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Some people like small pp, some like big pp. There's a pp size for everyone.
Let me let you in on a secret I've learned from many years of playing with pp of many sizes:
Big pp don't age well, it's not that easy to get them hard later in life. Small pp tend to stand at attention much later in life.
(according to my unscientific study)
 
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LeDodo

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Some people like small pp, some like big pp. There's a pp size for everyone.
Let me let you in on a secret I've learned from many years of playing with pp of many sizes:
Big pp don't age well, it's not that easy to get them hard later in life. Small pp tend to stand at attention much later in life.
(according to my unscientific study)
There are 2 things in life that I can do fast: one is getting hungry and the other is getting hard :p lol
 

kstanb

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try those enlargement treatments, the serious ones (surgery)

lose weight,

or focus on making a lot of money
 
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Fradi

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Food for thought:
Did you ever wonder how come nobody wants an oversized pussy or asshole to fit those oversized dicks.
It seems only large dicks are in demand always.
 
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