How to live with a small pp
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I’m in a worse case than you, I don’t even have a penis.
On a more serious note, don’t let size fool you, I have had sex with men with big dicks and it sucked because they relied on their size to do all the work
They wouldn’t even move, they wouldn’t do anything, they would just stay there and probably think “my big cock is good enough”
Just make sure you have size appropriate condoms, the person you’ll meet might have some if she’s a professional girlfriend
Don’t overthink it, you can also work on your clit stimulation skills and oral (if you do that)
On a more serious note, don’t let size fool you, I have had sex with men with big dicks and it sucked because they relied on their size to do all the work
They wouldn’t even move, they wouldn’t do anything, they would just stay there and probably think “my big cock is good enough”
Just make sure you have size appropriate condoms, the person you’ll meet might have some if she’s a professional girlfriend
Don’t overthink it, you can also work on your clit stimulation skills and oral (if you do that)
Thanks for the message. It’s just sometimes a little bit hard on morale.
If you can comb your eyebrows with your tongue you will be fine.
I don't doubt that it affects your mental health, and it's a topic that is rarely discussed, but of great significance to those it affects. Some women will be tempted to minimize the issue, but they are wrong.
The first question I would ask is "how small"? It's an important question, because if porn is your reference, the reference point is way off vs real life.. The average erect penis is around 5 inches. If you are a below average, remember that roughly 50% of the population is in the same boat as you.
The second question would be: is it too small for penetration? If yes, I would suggest to emphasize other forms of intimacy. Cuddling, massage, oral sex (cunnilingus). A sexologist may be able to help here to provider tailored advice and/or therapy and/or counselling.
Ultimately, relationship-wise, you will need to find an empathic partner/girlfriend who will be able to alleviate some of your worries.
The first question I would ask is "how small"? It's an important question, because if porn is your reference, the reference point is way off vs real life.. The average erect penis is around 5 inches. If you are a below average, remember that roughly 50% of the population is in the same boat as you.
The second question would be: is it too small for penetration? If yes, I would suggest to emphasize other forms of intimacy. Cuddling, massage, oral sex (cunnilingus). A sexologist may be able to help here to provider tailored advice and/or therapy and/or counselling.
Ultimately, relationship-wise, you will need to find an empathic partner/girlfriend who will be able to alleviate some of your worries.
I'm at 3.43 inches so I guess below average it's really difficult to find a partner that accept such situations those days...
I understand that it's not easy. I would suggest to put your energies into areas other than intimate relationships if they feel too daunting. If you've had to deal with rejection too often, it's best to simply avoid further pain and to stop exploring this avenue, at least temporarily. As an alternative, meaningful friendships, family, community work, faith-based activities are things that can provide meaning to life. None of this is easy either, but it's rewarding in the long term.
Don't listen to them. I have a very small PP too and girls hate it. They will try to tell you that it's all about how you use it but its not true. Small PP is a curse and i know i will never get loved for who i am. But... that's life ! Personnaly, this is why i seek SP companionship and i spend most of my free time enjoying hobbies, sports and stuff... I tried having a girlfriend in the past but it never worked.
I feel that. And it's normal to feel like that, because we are a social species, and forming meaningful relationships in this modern world is especially difficult. Contrary to @Georgy07 I hesitate to recommend escorts for someome who is lonely, because it can easily become an addiction, which will make your life worse than it is now.
The short and complicated answer is that you have to find meaning to your life. Meaning outside of intimate relationships (see my previous post). But you are absolutely right. There will always be a missing part if we chose to remain single. Few are willing to admit it (men and women alike), preferring to hide behind a discourse of "independence"...According to Victor Frankl–psychiatrist, philosopher, and Holocaust survivor–we can also find meaning in suffering. I am still trying to figure out how.
Edit: apologies if that escalated a bit too quicky
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Focus more on the clit and try to know the lady sensitive part(s).
If she opened well enough to share with and guide.
