Thinking of having a duo. I've had one before but I wanted to hear your expert opinions. How much time do you schedule for a duo?
How much time for a duo?
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60 to 90 is enough. It can be very overwhelming and from my experience anything above that isn’t really necessary unless you want to take your time and get to know them deeply. Then I’d recommend a dinner duo date or 2 hours
For the first time i’d recommend 90 minutes minimum. Then it could vary depending on how you enjoy your sessions & how your partners are. I’ve enjoyed 1 hour sessions & 2 hr sessions also. I love to talk & take my time so 90-120 minutes is perfect for me. However i’ve also had threesomes where there was zero chemistry & i couldn’t wait for the whole thing to end. Lol
Anything less than an hour is a waste in my opinion.
An hour or two is a good sweet spot, especially if it's your first time meeting either or both of the ladies. Though I do feel like my best duos have been dinner date duos, because they allow everyone to get comfortable with each other before the "main event" haha and good food is honestly a great form of foreplay for me & many of my colleagues.
An hour or two is a good sweet spot, especially if it's your first time meeting either or both of the ladies. Though I do feel like my best duos have been dinner date duos, because they allow everyone to get comfortable with each other before the "main event" haha and good food is honestly a great form of foreplay for me & many of my colleagues.
My advice:
Now, if you want to reach legendary level / no financial constraints:
After this first stage, I book them both for an entire evening — minimum 6h to 12h.
It’s expensive, but the selection is so good that they basically become friends lol.
Now I’m planning the next step: a 2-day duo trip to a chalet or something.
- You don’t know either of them > 1h
- You know one girl only > 1h or 90 min
- You know both of them already > 2h+ (budget permitting)
Now, if you want to reach legendary level / no financial constraints:
- Book them each for 10h spread throughout the month.
This way, you get to know them well enough to sense their vibe, preferences, and sexual orientation.
After this first stage, I book them both for an entire evening — minimum 6h to 12h.
It’s expensive, but the selection is so good that they basically become friends lol.
Now I’m planning the next step: a 2-day duo trip to a chalet or something.
Not under 1 hour honestly. I used to be very shy with duos when I first started but recently I started feeling more comfortable and getting wild. A duo goes by very fast because there's a lot of action.. So I recommend booking 2 hours.. Or a dinner date 
I normally do 2+ hours but with some reason behind it.
When I book duos I only do it with one of a few established Indies with whom I am comfortable already and another, new to me, established Indy who is on their list of preferred duo partners.
For this I expect two experienced people who are comfortable together already, and that has so far borne out to be true.
Another reason for longer duos is that I'm older and I take longer between SOGs, so there's intermissions in between.
Then the real risk is that I won't get along with the other SP, but professionalism tends to prevent that and so far, so good.
Since I'm already with an Indy that I know and trust, they tend to curate things should they not go right.
If it were with new-to-me younger agency girls, I'd keep it to 2 hours or less as I feel the risk of having a bad experience increases with that many unknowns.
And yes it is a very expensive hobby indeed!
When I book duos I only do it with one of a few established Indies with whom I am comfortable already and another, new to me, established Indy who is on their list of preferred duo partners.
For this I expect two experienced people who are comfortable together already, and that has so far borne out to be true.
Another reason for longer duos is that I'm older and I take longer between SOGs, so there's intermissions in between.
Then the real risk is that I won't get along with the other SP, but professionalism tends to prevent that and so far, so good.
Since I'm already with an Indy that I know and trust, they tend to curate things should they not go right.
If it were with new-to-me younger agency girls, I'd keep it to 2 hours or less as I feel the risk of having a bad experience increases with that many unknowns.
And yes it is a very expensive hobby indeed!
I’ve been extremely fortunate that over the years whenever i had a threesome i never worried about the clock. With regulars I’d pay a flat fee & there was no clock-watching. Some of them lasted an hour, sometimes less, often longer, etc. As i mentioned earlier i enjoy conversation & sometimes i’d get carried away & it was the ladies who’d call time out & suggest that we move on to the bed & start the action. It was never the same. I remember once after the two ladies arrived i suggested right after they arrived that we all get undressed & put on robes. When we started talking one of the ladies asked to use the bathroom & while she was in there I don’t know why but the other girl & I just started making out on the bed & a few minutes later the other girl showed up next to us & said “Wow that was quick!” & i laughed & invited her to join us. She replied ‘i’ll just sit here & watch you guys for a few minutes while i finish my beverage. Just keep on doing what you were doing & forget i’m here.’ Great times! Lol
I’ve also had a few 1 hour sessions with ladies i had just met but time was never a problem. One time i won an agency contest & the prize was a one-hour threesome with the ladies of my choice. I was offered to extend it but i declined since i didn’t know the ladies & didn’t want to risk wasting an extra hour. By the way i’d recommend not going into this blindly. Do your homework & you likely will not be disappointed. Threesomes can be a lot of fun when the chemistry’s there. However i’ve had a few where there wasn’t much chemistry & the hour felt like three hours! Lol
I’ve also had a few 1 hour sessions with ladies i had just met but time was never a problem. One time i won an agency contest & the prize was a one-hour threesome with the ladies of my choice. I was offered to extend it but i declined since i didn’t know the ladies & didn’t want to risk wasting an extra hour. By the way i’d recommend not going into this blindly. Do your homework & you likely will not be disappointed. Threesomes can be a lot of fun when the chemistry’s there. However i’ve had a few where there wasn’t much chemistry & the hour felt like three hours! Lol
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