I had a pretty bad experience with an SP last week, she was a little rude and gave me a hickey without asking. I don't really want to write a bad review because it's someone's livelihood so I just didn't write a review. Do other people do this as well?
How likely are you to report a bad hobbying experience?
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Does she have a review thread?
If yes, does your experience echoes with the existing reviews?
If yes, does your experience echoes with the existing reviews?
What i would do:
If theres an existing thread on her just write "would not repeat."
I always write bad reviews if I feel like I got scammed.
Most my bad reviews are bait and switch, ending a session 20 min early, rude (like being on their phone often or just being flat out rude)
If it’s just a mediocre session because of chemistry, I won’t write about that
Most my bad reviews are bait and switch, ending a session 20 min early, rude (like being on their phone often or just being flat out rude)
If it’s just a mediocre session because of chemistry, I won’t write about that
Scam, danger, trafficking, service not as advertised are always reported. Underwhelming experiences will happen, but I prefer not to blame the provider publicly.
I have met providers with so so reviews and had amazing experiences.
Sometimes, underwhelming experiences arise from a lack of compatibility between client and provider or non realistic expectation on the client side.
I have met providers with so so reviews and had amazing experiences.
Sometimes, underwhelming experiences arise from a lack of compatibility between client and provider or non realistic expectation on the client side.
I think you being hesitant shows that you’re a good person but at the end of the day, this website is about reviewing your experience so you shouldn’t feel bad for doing so.
What you described wasn’t fun for you but maybe someone else is into women with an attitude and surprise hickeys.
I have had negative reviews in the past and that didn’t stop people from booking me. Each experience is unique and there’s a SP that’s perfect for each client
What you described wasn’t fun for you but maybe someone else is into women with an attitude and surprise hickeys.
I have had negative reviews in the past and that didn’t stop people from booking me. Each experience is unique and there’s a SP that’s perfect for each client
You should post your experience, whether positive or negative. That's the entire main purpose of this board. It doesn't matter whether every single other experience has been positive or not. The sum of all the reviews is what can paint a general picture of the person you're seeing, and the more reviews there are the more reliable that information will be, and the more helpful to board members. It's not about painting sunshine and rainbows all the time, which does a disservice to everyone. That's not doing any of your fellow members any favours. It's about providing useful, actionable information, good or bad, that others can use. Having said that, there's no reason for you to go into all of the minute details if it makes you uncomfortable or if you feel it may be harmful or inconsistent with the SPs usual behaviour. Anyone can have a bad day, and a lack of chemistry can happen to anyone too. Use your judgment and post what others should know, and anything else can de done in DMs.
I post all positive, and I report the worst of negative or any scams. Most of the time I attribute bad sessions to me, so I don't review
As long as you are not rude yourself, and respect her as a person and a worker, I believe your review would be fine. Everything can be said, with tact. When people insult and are mean, it only sounds like revenge.
just out of curiousity why would you always blame yourself if a session is bad?
I noticed an explosion of this type of mentality since the last two years. Why would you be concerned with her livelihood when it is you that paid and got a bad service? This type of mentality contributed to the degradation of service levels these past two years because now the SP knows she will be protected even if she gave a bad service. 15 years ago this was unheard of hence why the service levels back then was way better then nowadays. The purpose of a review board is to post reviews both positive and especially the bad ones. I consider negative reviews much more valuable then a positive review because I noticed also these past few years reviews that are overly positive. So if you get a bad service please review because you hold the SP accountable and you help a lot of hobbyists by not wasting their hard earned money on bad SPs. The stuff you said is pretty bad, a SP should never be rude to a client and a hickey imagine how that could ruin the lives of married men or men with a SO.
Agreed. That was my first thought reading this post.
I don't even let clients give me hickeys because they'd potentially be a turn off to other clients (we all know we're not exclusive but nobody needs a visual reminder of the previous guy lol). I can't imagine in what world it would be a good idea to give a client one knowing he might be partnered etc.
Should clients be held accountable for their lack of hygiene, lack of respect, and general bad behavior which are often the root cause of a disappointing encounter? Do you expect sex workers to act as robots and be insensitive to these repulsive factors? Because when I talk with actual sex workers, that's quite often what leads to those bad reviews. Frustration with a "lack of service" that finds its cause directly in a general lack of respect coming from the client. Food for thought.
The last time I checked the client is not providing the service. Ever seen any business reviewing clients? The client is the one paying, her livelihood comes from the clients. Weird comment. FYI clients are reviewed via backchannels, Indys share information amongst themselves and agencies also blacklist certain clients from seeing certain SPs if she does not want to.
I believe it is the client doing the review and not the SP.
Are you in the habit of defending SP regardless of knowing anything at all of what happened.
This is exactly what stops clients from writing reviews and making this board redundant.
It is not a place for feel good posts only, the whole idea is that we keep each other informed to be able to have a nice and safe experience.
I have never written a bad review simply because I haven’t had a bad experience but that does not mean it will always be like that.
Ask yourself why you never had a bad experience and others seem to accumulate bad experiences.
It doesn't seem to register with you that the service that sex workers provide does not have anything to do in substance with any other service that we use, such that the ones of an accountant or a barber.
Yes I heard this line over and over again. It still does not register with you, the client is not the one providing the service it is the escort. This is a review board for clients to share their experience to help each other out and at the same time for escorts to advertise here to have clients. The client is the one paying.
There is no review board either specifically for an accountant or barber lol.
The service that sex workers provide is unique and a review board is to keep clients from booking scam artists, SP that do not provide what they advertise, scammers and SP that are outright dangerous to see.
As Cloud 500 has mentioned they have their back channels privately and I won’t mention where else so you can be assured they will know if a client is not worth seeing or dangerous to see.
What we do not need is someone defending them who has not seen that particular SP and can only contribute white knight fluff.
