Well you are not a monk and need sex and release. Hypothetically if the situation was reversed would you let her have a fling?
How did you get started with the hobby? And have your interests changed over time?
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I hear you. I was thinking there was not much point to be in this sick world either for a while. And it’s difficult to constantly face rejection while pursuing dating when you can just ‘cut to the chase’ and purchase the end result ( without the meal and bs). I’m in the middle where I resent having to buy it but would still like to fulfill all my fantasies.
I can honestly tell you that I would.
When she started having pain, I thought for a while that maybe she was cheating and I wasn't enough for her.
The possibility of her cheating didn't get me angry... What it would get me angry would be that she never talked to me about her needs. But! She never cheated.
The idea of a SP grew more and more as the time past, then I asked myself the very question you are asking and I realized that I would be ok. That doesn't mean that I don't love her, I just understand "the need".
Some lovely (and painful) stories you've all shared here. Thanks for posting, I enjoyed reading them and for those of you who've suffered, you have my sympathy.
I'm currently almost 4yrs celibate, after a pretty meager 1st time adult dating experience following my divorce 7yrs ago. It's getting pretty difficult.
I'm not sure who I can talk to about my situation to figure out if this pursuit is really going to fulfill my needs. I am desperate for some intimacy but I've done the hookup thing and I don't think that's it for me. I really need a human connection and a caring touch. What I miss the most is truly making love. I know that probably isn't possible in this world but, who knows.
If I could have a caring, romantic connection for an hour or two once or twice a month, and leave it at that, I think that would be ideal.
Does anyone have any advice? Apologies if my comment is inappropriate or not in the correct thread, I will immediately delete if so. Thanks in advance.
I'm currently almost 4yrs celibate, after a pretty meager 1st time adult dating experience following my divorce 7yrs ago. It's getting pretty difficult.
I'm not sure who I can talk to about my situation to figure out if this pursuit is really going to fulfill my needs. I am desperate for some intimacy but I've done the hookup thing and I don't think that's it for me. I really need a human connection and a caring touch. What I miss the most is truly making love. I know that probably isn't possible in this world but, who knows.
If I could have a caring, romantic connection for an hour or two once or twice a month, and leave it at that, I think that would be ideal.
Does anyone have any advice? Apologies if my comment is inappropriate or not in the correct thread, I will immediately delete if so. Thanks in advance.
I think you’re in the perfect right thread for your questions. I think it is possible to, eventually, find what you’re looking for in this hobby but, bear in mind there will be some deception involved until you find the right match. If you have read a lot of reviews here, you certainly have noticed that many members have ATFs so, with patience, everyone finds the right shoe for them.
That's right and if there is anyone who knows what the right shoes are it is the Cap'tain!
Dear Brothers reading my reply,
SP's are one of the best inventions of the human talent since the start of ages. You don't get into trouble , you pay for playing the girlfriend experience for some hours, after that everything returns to the previous state. If you date a girl , she would like to have your time, you will have to spend some money for going out for some dinner dates, buying flower to her , and finally you wont have sex with her until she would like to have that magic and cute moment, you your member will have to be jerked at home until the girl would like to have sex with you. So the SP is there to make your desires come true, for the quantity you agree to pay for her services.
I began in the hobby long time ago , since I work in the air transport industry , travel to lot of places, I have done this in Canada, Mexico, Colombia, Costa Rica , Brazil , Panama, and Dominican Republic. When I started to do this I was about 20 years old in Mexico in my first job of my profession in the northern region of Mexico , in a city called Hermosillo.
Once I did it for the first time , I never stopped , and I have kept a long record of SP's in my life ...
SP's are one of the best inventions of the human talent since the start of ages. You don't get into trouble , you pay for playing the girlfriend experience for some hours, after that everything returns to the previous state. If you date a girl , she would like to have your time, you will have to spend some money for going out for some dinner dates, buying flower to her , and finally you wont have sex with her until she would like to have that magic and cute moment, you your member will have to be jerked at home until the girl would like to have sex with you. So the SP is there to make your desires come true, for the quantity you agree to pay for her services.
I began in the hobby long time ago , since I work in the air transport industry , travel to lot of places, I have done this in Canada, Mexico, Colombia, Costa Rica , Brazil , Panama, and Dominican Republic. When I started to do this I was about 20 years old in Mexico in my first job of my profession in the northern region of Mexico , in a city called Hermosillo.
Once I did it for the first time , I never stopped , and I have kept a long record of SP's in my life ...
I got into the hobby while looking at those adult only resorts in the Dominican Republic. From there to see if they are real I found Terb. Then while researching further found this other site on how to hire and interact with an SP. On that site it had links to Robin’s spreadsheet and from there Merb. After reading Merb for a week or two I booked a three day trip to Montreal the next month.
My taste surely changed and evolved over time. At first it was just wanted to see the young HOT 8s and 9s. Well my version and definition of what these numbers are. Maybe different for you. Then as time went on there were women in their mid to late 30s in the mix. Naomi of SD and Emmanuelle of Montreal Girlfriends. Meeting them was life changing as they opened up to the kind of women that I was truly into. That translated over in the kind of women I want to meet in real life.
The hobby I realized was not some empty fuckfest but an educational quick crash course on women. Lots of self-discovery involved in this whole journey.
My taste surely changed and evolved over time. At first it was just wanted to see the young HOT 8s and 9s. Well my version and definition of what these numbers are. Maybe different for you. Then as time went on there were women in their mid to late 30s in the mix. Naomi of SD and Emmanuelle of Montreal Girlfriends. Meeting them was life changing as they opened up to the kind of women that I was truly into. That translated over in the kind of women I want to meet in real life.
The hobby I realized was not some empty fuckfest but an educational quick crash course on women. Lots of self-discovery involved in this whole journey.
This hobby demands you to have a lot of self control over yourself. I think this activity is not suitable for every one, I have learned a lot in different places around the continent where I have done this hobby, girls from latin America are different from Canadian, every girl have their different ways of approach.
I got into the hobby as a virgin at 23 years old.
I was first exposed to masturbation at 13 years old, and masturbated for the first time at 14.
At 15 years old, a friend of mine told me of "myfreepaysite", and that was when I was exposed to the vast world of full porn videos, and not just clips. Since that discovery, I watched porn and masturbated daily.
Throughout high school, let's just say I wasn't popular and did not have interactions with girls.
When I turned 17 and moved on to Cégep, I moved to Montreal. Unfortunately, I didn't know anybody, and making friends was difficult when everyone else already knew one another.
When I turned 18, my hometown friends brought me to a strip club, and for the first time in my life, I touched a woman's skin, her breasts, and a woman pressing herself against my cock with our clothes on.
From 19 to 22, I went to university in a male-dominated program, and so met no women.
Throughout all of this, I watched porn and masturbated everyday.
In 2012, At 23, I was fed up of not feeling the touch of a woman, and someone caught my attention, and I reached out to her. $160 for 1 hour back then!
She met me at my place at 2 AM, I remember being so nervous, and drank 3 pints of beers to calm my nerves.
She turned out to be the perfect fit for losing my virginity and seeing an escort for the first time. She arrived wearing a hoodie from McGill and leggings, looking so cute. She could tell I was nervous, and put music on, and initiated kissing me, followed by sucking my dick. I remember to this day, the feeling of being sucked on for the first time.
I remember then trying to have sex with her, and remember being confused because the vagina seemed much "lower" than what felt natural to me, it was very awkward trying to penetrate her.
She knew, and before she left asked me, "was I your first time?", and I was stunned in embarrassment and she noticed me turning red and followed up with, "I'm glad I was your first girl".
Seeing this student gave me a taste of what I felt I missed in my younger years. And that's when I started looking at exclusively "teen" porn to try to imagine what I missed out on. At the time, some of my favorite young pornstars were Alice March, Mattie Borders, Rachel James, Brooke Van Buuren, ....
And as the years went by, I kept sticking to watching young women like them and then the increasing age gap excited me more and more. Some recent young porn stars for me are women like: Liz Jordan, Melanie Marie, Trinity Olsen. And I love going back over a decade and watching young women from back then.
Fast forward to today at 35, to answer the question: have my interests changed with time? No, I'm constantly on the lookout for excitement with new young women appearing on the scene, and trying some hardcore things that I see in porn. (I do acknowledge that porn has influenced me a ton, by the way, and know it is a problem!)
I know that my tastes in the youngest women can be controversial on this forum. This is strictly within this hobby. In "real life", I am unlikely to be able to hold a conversation with an 18 year old, and the chemistry would not be there to consider her as a partner. I've read comments about young women being easily controlled, manipulated, etc, and I limit my fantasies to the hobby and not outside of it.
I was first exposed to masturbation at 13 years old, and masturbated for the first time at 14.
At 15 years old, a friend of mine told me of "myfreepaysite", and that was when I was exposed to the vast world of full porn videos, and not just clips. Since that discovery, I watched porn and masturbated daily.
Throughout high school, let's just say I wasn't popular and did not have interactions with girls.
When I turned 17 and moved on to Cégep, I moved to Montreal. Unfortunately, I didn't know anybody, and making friends was difficult when everyone else already knew one another.
When I turned 18, my hometown friends brought me to a strip club, and for the first time in my life, I touched a woman's skin, her breasts, and a woman pressing herself against my cock with our clothes on.
From 19 to 22, I went to university in a male-dominated program, and so met no women.
Throughout all of this, I watched porn and masturbated everyday.
In 2012, At 23, I was fed up of not feeling the touch of a woman, and someone caught my attention, and I reached out to her. $160 for 1 hour back then!
She met me at my place at 2 AM, I remember being so nervous, and drank 3 pints of beers to calm my nerves.
She turned out to be the perfect fit for losing my virginity and seeing an escort for the first time. She arrived wearing a hoodie from McGill and leggings, looking so cute. She could tell I was nervous, and put music on, and initiated kissing me, followed by sucking my dick. I remember to this day, the feeling of being sucked on for the first time.
I remember then trying to have sex with her, and remember being confused because the vagina seemed much "lower" than what felt natural to me, it was very awkward trying to penetrate her.
She knew, and before she left asked me, "was I your first time?", and I was stunned in embarrassment and she noticed me turning red and followed up with, "I'm glad I was your first girl".
Seeing this student gave me a taste of what I felt I missed in my younger years. And that's when I started looking at exclusively "teen" porn to try to imagine what I missed out on. At the time, some of my favorite young pornstars were Alice March, Mattie Borders, Rachel James, Brooke Van Buuren, ....
And as the years went by, I kept sticking to watching young women like them and then the increasing age gap excited me more and more. Some recent young porn stars for me are women like: Liz Jordan, Melanie Marie, Trinity Olsen. And I love going back over a decade and watching young women from back then.
Fast forward to today at 35, to answer the question: have my interests changed with time? No, I'm constantly on the lookout for excitement with new young women appearing on the scene, and trying some hardcore things that I see in porn. (I do acknowledge that porn has influenced me a ton, by the way, and know it is a problem!)
I know that my tastes in the youngest women can be controversial on this forum. This is strictly within this hobby. In "real life", I am unlikely to be able to hold a conversation with an 18 year old, and the chemistry would not be there to consider her as a partner. I've read comments about young women being easily controlled, manipulated, etc, and I limit my fantasies to the hobby and not outside of it.
Good things come to those who are patient.
I did not know whether to laugh or cry, so I did both and remembered my first time with my hand, then a young lady and then much later as a client in the business.
Thanks for sharing!
