Do you tell anyone about your hobby ?

[urquell]

I told 2 male friends about it. And had a 50/50 results.
#1 Not every friend deserve 100% of your confidence.

The first guy I told had been having adventures in the business when it came up. Probably over one too many whiskey...
So we had good times talking and sharing about it, and it never came up in a random or delicate situation. (Trustworthy.)

The second guy was talking to me about hitting strip joints while we we're doing a contract in Toronto.
I obliged but soon realised he was, lonely, horny and his Gf had left him a short time ago. Basically he was a scam magnet.
After one of those experience at a dodgy stripjoint I agreed to get dragged too, I had enough and told him about escort sites and how it worked.
We ended up booking a session with 2 Sp and everything went great. He even thanked me for introducing him.

But then couple years later, having one too many, in company of other friends; he slipped and started talking about that night like it was natural.
(One man's natural is another's extreme...)
I'd be lying if i'd say i'm proud to partake in this business. But I'm single, and sometimes the drive, the loneliness overcomes the moral guide lines.
So needless to say I kinda freaked out inside. I leaned over and I'm pretty sure i'm mumbled something to the effect of : << Shut the fuck up!>>
I don't think I will ever introduce anyone else to those services.

Lesson learned.

That's exactly the kind of thing I was referring to in my post above. Having a great friendship with someone doesn't necessarily mean that you can trust their discretion, and you need to have a very good idea of who someone is before you decide to share details with anyone who may be present anywhere in your personal or professional life. Even people you meet within the community can't always be trusted to treat your info well.

 

[Verbal Kint]

That's exactly the kind of thing I was referring to in my post above. Having a great friendship with someone doesn't necessarily mean that you can trust their discretion, and you need to have a very good idea of who someone is before you decide to share details with anyone who may be present anywhere in your personal or professional life. Even people you meet within the community can't always be trusted to treat your info well.

Agreed. I do tend to trust and end up paying the price. Am I naïve, probably. I like to think if you walk this earth without trusting anyone or willing to do so, are you realy walking anywhere? And yes, people will betray your confindence. It hurts like a motherf***er. It's still worth trying. You win by being that adorable innocent bambi in the headlights. Not by being the car willing to run it over in order to get where it's going. And sometimes, sometimes accidents happens. Know your audience, and one difficult thing as well is to respect yourself enough. Don't give yourself away to easely.

People will always doubt a naked man trying to give e'm a T-Shirt...