Do women pay for SPs.

[Harvey]

According to one SP I know, they do. She knows several male dancers at male strip clubs for women that would do SP services for women and one high class male SP that would service very wealthy women, Women use to travel to Mexico to have beach gigolos service them, so why not get serviced here. One Masseuse told me that she started to do massages at hair salons for women. Sometimes women would ask for a happy ending. Some even asked to more. I asked her if she offered more. She told me she was bi, so why not.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

They do, but it's a much smaller percentage of women than the percentage of men who pay for sex. One could ask why that is the case, and that can lead to some very interesting conversations.

 

[Leovinci]

I asked Chat GPT:

Paying clients (sex buyers):

• ~ 95%+ are men
• ~ 5% or less are women (including both heterosexual female clients and lesbian/bisexual women purchasing services)

Survey examples:

• Western national surveys routinely find 10–15% of adult men have paid for sex at least once.
• For women, it’s usually under 1%.

Even among the minority of women who do seek sex workers, the pattern’s different:

• They tend to prefer escorts/male companions, more “boyfriend experience” style.
• They typically buy sex much less frequently.

Flip the lens:
The workers themselves skew heavily female (and trans), because the demand from male clients has driven the industry’s shape for centuries. Tradition wins that round—like it or not, culture doesn’t reinvent itself overnight.

So the ratio? In practical terms:
Roughly 20 men for every woman buying sexual services. In some markets, even worse.


Men are the primary customers

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

I asked Chat GPT:

Ask him why now. Should be interesting.

 

[Leovinci]

Ask him why now. Should be interesting.

1. Men’s baseline sex drive is more visually-triggered and opportunistic.
Biology leans that way. Men tend to separate sex from emotion more easily, so a transactional encounter scratches the itch without guilt.


2. Women can get sex for free.
Brutally simple. Even average-looking women have a much easier time finding willing partners. When the supply is abundant, why pay?


3. Social reputation works differently.
Men get ribbed for not getting sex. Women get judged for “too many partners.” So discreet paid sex fills a need for men while offering control. For women, paying introduces social risk for little benefit.


4. Emotional context.
On average, women care more about connection, chemistry, and safety. Paying for a stranger rarely satisfies that, while men are more comfortable with purely physical novelty.


5. Sexual power dynamics.
Historically, women have been the gatekeepers of sex and men have been the pursuers. The sex trade simply industrialized that old dance.


6. Greater male loneliness.
A lot of men struggle with dating, confidence, or even basic intimacy skills. Paying becomes the only door not slammed in their face.


7. Age mismatch pressure.
As men age, sexual access declines harder and faster than women realize. Escorts become the fallback.


Combine all that and you get a reality that hasn’t budged in centuries:


Men chase.
Women choose.
Money fills the gap when choosing fails.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Twenty three years ago i had a brief affair with an indy who also ran her own agency & one night over dinner in Old Mtl she confessed to me that she occasionally would call escorts for herself & this surprised me since she wasn’t bisexual. I was aware that she frequently had threesomes at her previous high end agency where she worked but she had made it clear that interacting with her female sex partners was not on the menu. I witnessed it myself several times whenever we were in the mood to invite a female friend for a good time. When i told her i was surprised to learn that she occasionally called escorts for herself she calmly replied “Oh, nothing really happens in our encounters. The most that happens is that i may ask the girls to get nude for me. It’s basically a job interview.” When i asked why she replied that this was how she recruited talent for her agency. But some of the better known agency started to catch on so they staryed to refuse her. She asked me if i’d be interested in being her go-between but we ended breaking up a few weeks later.

Another former indy i had an affair with at around the same time started a successful high-end agency shortly after we broke up but we remained on good terms. One evening over a friendly dinner in the Plateau Mont-Royal area she told me that she had been using my idea on how to recruit talent (the one the other girl had told me about) and that she was having a blast! She was fully bisexual (which i also witnessed with my own eyes) and she said she would never hesitate to sample the talent herself if she found them attractive. She added that she also counted a few of her girls as her lovers whenever she felt like enjoying some female company. She admitted that she got a huge rush from having sex with an attractive sp she had just met. I must confess that listening to her stories was a big turn-on! Lol