According to one SP I know, they do. She knows several male dancers at male strip clubs for women that would do SP services for women and one high class male SP that would service very wealthy women, Women use to travel to Mexico to have beach gigolos service them, so why not get serviced here. One Masseuse told me that she started to do massages at hair salons for women. Sometimes women would ask for a happy ending. Some even asked to more. I asked her if she offered more. She told me she was bi, so why not.
Do women pay for SPs.
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They do, but it's a much smaller percentage of women than the percentage of men who pay for sex. One could ask why that is the case, and that can lead to some very interesting conversations.
I asked Chat GPT:
Paying clients (sex buyers):
Flip the lens:
The workers themselves skew heavily female (and trans), because the demand from male clients has driven the industry’s shape for centuries. Tradition wins that round—like it or not, culture doesn’t reinvent itself overnight.
So the ratio? In practical terms:
Roughly 20 men for every woman buying sexual services. In some markets, even worse.
Men are the primary customers
Paying clients (sex buyers):
- ~ 95%+ are men
- ~ 5% or less are women (including both heterosexual female clients and lesbian/bisexual women purchasing services)
- Western national surveys routinely find 10–15% of adult men have paid for sex at least once.
- For women, it’s usually under 1%.
- They tend to prefer escorts/male companions, more “boyfriend experience” style.
- They typically buy sex much less frequently.
Flip the lens:
The workers themselves skew heavily female (and trans), because the demand from male clients has driven the industry’s shape for centuries. Tradition wins that round—like it or not, culture doesn’t reinvent itself overnight.
So the ratio? In practical terms:
Roughly 20 men for every woman buying sexual services. In some markets, even worse.
Men are the primary customers
1. Men’s baseline sex drive is more visually-triggered and opportunistic.
Biology leans that way. Men tend to separate sex from emotion more easily, so a transactional encounter scratches the itch without guilt.
2. Women can get sex for free.
Brutally simple. Even average-looking women have a much easier time finding willing partners. When the supply is abundant, why pay?
3. Social reputation works differently.
Men get ribbed for not getting sex. Women get judged for “too many partners.” So discreet paid sex fills a need for men while offering control. For women, paying introduces social risk for little benefit.
4. Emotional context.
On average, women care more about connection, chemistry, and safety. Paying for a stranger rarely satisfies that, while men are more comfortable with purely physical novelty.
5. Sexual power dynamics.
Historically, women have been the gatekeepers of sex and men have been the pursuers. The sex trade simply industrialized that old dance.
6. Greater male loneliness.
A lot of men struggle with dating, confidence, or even basic intimacy skills. Paying becomes the only door not slammed in their face.
7. Age mismatch pressure.
As men age, sexual access declines harder and faster than women realize. Escorts become the fallback.
Combine all that and you get a reality that hasn’t budged in centuries:
Men chase.
Women choose.
Money fills the gap when choosing fails.
Twenty three years ago i had a brief affair with an indy who also ran her own agency & one night over dinner in Old Mtl she confessed to me that she occasionally would call escorts for herself & this surprised me since she wasn’t bisexual. I was aware that she frequently had threesomes at her previous high end agency where she worked but she had made it clear that interacting with her female sex partners was not on the menu. I witnessed it myself several times whenever we were in the mood to invite a female friend for a good time. When i told her i was surprised to learn that she occasionally called escorts for herself she calmly replied “Oh, nothing really happens in our encounters. The most that happens is that i may ask the girls to get nude for me. It’s basically a job interview.” When i asked why she replied that this was how she recruited talent for her agency. But some of the better known agency started to catch on so they staryed to refuse her. She asked me if i’d be interested in being her go-between but we ended breaking up a few weeks later.
Another former indy i had an affair with at around the same time started a successful high-end agency shortly after we broke up but we remained on good terms. One evening over a friendly dinner in the Plateau Mont-Royal area she told me that she had been using my idea on how to recruit talent (the one the other girl had told me about) and that she was having a blast! She was fully bisexual (which i also witnessed with my own eyes) and she said she would never hesitate to sample the talent herself if she found them attractive. She added that she also counted a few of her girls as her lovers whenever she felt like enjoying some female company. She admitted that she got a huge rush from having sex with an attractive sp she had just met. I must confess that listening to her stories was a big turn-on! Lol
Another former indy i had an affair with at around the same time started a successful high-end agency shortly after we broke up but we remained on good terms. One evening over a friendly dinner in the Plateau Mont-Royal area she told me that she had been using my idea on how to recruit talent (the one the other girl had told me about) and that she was having a blast! She was fully bisexual (which i also witnessed with my own eyes) and she said she would never hesitate to sample the talent herself if she found them attractive. She added that she also counted a few of her girls as her lovers whenever she felt like enjoying some female company. She admitted that she got a huge rush from having sex with an attractive sp she had just met. I must confess that listening to her stories was a big turn-on! Lol
I hired a male escort once when I was an escort at 19yrs. I wanted to see if it was worth it. I was disappointed with the expierience, wanting someone around my age, and could have sworn the dude was twice my age. 
I was unimpressed.
It is unfair I guess. But why would I have needed to hire an escort since?
-When I was single I had a few guys on rotation threw dating sites. They were aware. I didn't hide it. I always believed in being transparent with my partners. They just didn't know who eachother were.
-When I was in a relationship, and we wanted to bring a lady home for a 3some. I didn't have any issue finding someone I fancied who fancied me. They liked me enough to tollerate that the guy I was with was there too, some denied when they realized there was a bf aswell.
I was unimpressed. It is unfair I guess. But why would I have needed to hire an escort since?
-When I was single I had a few guys on rotation threw dating sites. They were aware. I didn't hide it. I always believed in being transparent with my partners. They just didn't know who eachother were.
-When I was in a relationship, and we wanted to bring a lady home for a 3some.
I didn't have any issue finding someone I fancied who fancied me. They liked me enough to tollerate that the guy I was with was there too, some denied when they realized there was a bf aswell.
From my experience it happens at times but the ladies aren’t invested in it as much as men are. And when it happens (again from my experience) the ‘clients’ are often sex workers themselves or connected in some way to the industry. I remember one time an escort telling me that her boss’ birthday was coming up (female agency owner) and she had hired a male escort for her. I never followed up on how the surprise birthday gift went. Lol
One other time i was with one of my regulars in bed & i casually asked her if she had ever called for a male escort. She replied that she had not called a male escort specifically however a few months prior she & a few of her girlfriends were having a good time one evening & they decided to call a male stripper. I quizzed her how it went & she replied “Oh let’s just say that he left my place a very happy man with a huge smile on his face!”
Over the years a few escorts i got to know well told me that out of curiosity (and boredom) they did call male escorts occasionally but weren’t too impressed with their ‘performance’. One indy in that group added “I realized then that it was a bit ridiculous on my part to waste money on a male escort who didn’t even perform as well as half the clients i have plus these clients pay me to pleasure me on top of that.” A couple of other ladies told me they did try the experience when they visited NYC since the talent level of male escorts in that city was considerably much higher than in Mtl. They even showed me website pictures of some of the male escorts they either saw or were planning to see in the near future. They were all handsome beefy muscular types so i kind of understood what they meant by the quality of talent in NYC as comapred to Mtl. The rates & availability were an entirely different matter, though. Lol
And finally one of the last sp i saw in Mtl who was visiting from Toronto mentioned that there was a male escort in Toronto that she called once in a while when she wanted a good fuck (her words!) and she gave me the impression that she was quite taken by him & his large penis (her words!). Lol.
The reason is simple it comes all down to biology and conditioning from society. A man needs sex all the time while women can go months if not years without sex. The dynamic of men needing sex more then the SPs need the money is clear. Men's weakness is sex. They are willing to do whatever just to sniff a vagina. They are thirsty. This constant dynamic is why most of the clients are men. The times I went to dance clubs you can see how the men were just sharks going after the girls when many of them just wanted to be left alone and enjoy the time with their friends.
I've met a few women over the years - but of course far less than men.
I have thought about hiring an escort before - but definitely a woman. Male escorts don't appeal to me for several reasons. Lol
I have thought about hiring an escort before - but definitely a woman. Male escorts don't appeal to me for several reasons. Lol
Some of you mention the topic of trans woman and I have a good story to tell! Even before I was in the industry, I met a trans woman at a club. I was 19 at the time and I was partying in clubs many time per week and she was almost always there (she knew everyone in the industry like me). She was a escort, I think the only one or one of 2 in Montreal who still had male genital. But she presented herself as a woman and dress like a woman. She was BUSY at work. She only accepted long hours booking at high end hotel. She was charging 10K for the evening. I didnt believe her at first when she told me. It didnt take long for me to understand everything was true. She was sending me pictures and videos of her in the best hotel suites, clients bringing her shopping. She was only wearing designer clothes and accessories. One client bought her a Audi R8. All her clients were 'straight' men, married with kids, usually in their 40s. They paid high price for her since she was rare. One of a kind. And of course, they knew she will never revealed their identities and secret fantasy. And she never did. I wonder were she is today.
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Your sharing just highlights the type of market male escorts are wanted for ...
10k at that time was a lot!
Rarity is a thing but I assume that intercourse wise it's anal only ?
She was doing bottom and top. So she was fucking men and also men fuck her. And yes...in both cases, only anal is available since she had a dick hahah
YES! Thank you for that. I dont understand why it is so hard for some men to understand that lol. Here a video I came across 1 month ago that explain this really well.
FIY: If some of you are offended by this video, it means that this video was made for you lol. Grow some balls. The fact that this girl as to explain it like we explain to a child says enough. (Not talking about you Cloud500, your part of the mens club that understand biology, thanks!!)
Oh ok sorry, my mistake, my first language is French so I was translating : Transgenre, which is one word. Didn't mean to wrote it that way
Im gonna edit my post right now
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