Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

Superior dick ?

Sex was better with my crush than with his friend. Both were attractive but one knew how to use his dick better than the other

 

[LC18]

I know the subject has been touched based a gazillion times.
But I always wondered if a SP and a client are in a relationship how does the trust with each other works? I mean like, will you set rules or promise that you won't see escorts or clients at all once you start the relationship? Obviously that's for the case the escort is stopping her activity or goes into a hiatus.

If a SP starts dating her client? I would assume it’s the same as any other relationships. You either accept that it’s her job or you don’t

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I know the subject has been touched based a gazillion times.
But I always wondered if a SP and a client are in a relationship how does the trust with each other works? I mean like, will you set rules or promise that you won't see escorts or clients at all once you start the relationship? Obviously that's for the case the escort is stopping her activity or goes into a hiatus.

That's personal to each relationship! Only you both can find an answer to that. You can do whatever feels right for your couple.

And the relationship is only possible if both parties are happy and comfortable with what the other wants.

 

[x5fq]

Sex was better with my crush than with his friend. Both were attractive but one knew how to use his dick better than the other

that's what i thought /s

 

[LeDodo]

If a SP starts dating her client? I would assume it’s the same as any other relationships. You either accept that it’s her job or you don’t

I meant in the hypothesis she put herself on hiatus/stop her activity:

Obviously that's for the case the escort is stopping her activity or goes into a hiatus.

And my question was more oriented to the SP trusting someone who was seeing SWs.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

My answer stands, there's not one answer to that. The couple have to discuss this and decide for themselves.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

what do you shave before your incall ?

My eyebrows and eyelashes, then I paint my entire body red. I just want to look as scary as possible. *eyeroll*

I know the subject has been touched based a gazillion times.
But I always wondered if a SP and a client are in a relationship how does the trust with each other works? I mean like, will you set rules or promise that you won't see escorts or clients at all once you start the relationship? Obviously that's for the case the escort is stopping her activity or goes into a hiatus.

I understand why you're fascinated with this subject, but the answers will always be the same.. From my perspective, often when clients have told me they had been in a relationship with a SP, the relationship was still transactional.. it just morphed from client-SP to a "sugar baby" type relationship with more closeness and the dynamic is still uneven because there's still money involved, and I think one or both parties seem kinda delusional about it. I have friends who dated their clients for real and have heard some pretty bad stories, but I also have heard good ones.

Personally I already don't want to be in a relationship with a client, but if I was, he wouldn't be someone who sees different SP on a regular basis. Everyone has their reasons to hire escorts, but some need novelty and "excitement" all the time and have a certain outlook on relationships and sex. If they get that by seeing escorts, particularly if they get involved in "the culture around it", it would be a huge red flag to me. I wouldn't just worry about him cheating. I'd also worry about the things he says behind my back and how he would end up treating me.

You can enjoy seeing a SP and have fun with her, but it's always way easier than having a real relationship. I realized recently that while some clients think they are paying to have complete access to the SP's body which in my opinion is not true, there are a few people believe seeing a sugar baby or a SP is like "paying for a relationship", they don't work on themselves and they think money can buy anything. They know that during a session, we are catering to them, and that's what they wish they could have in a relationship.

However, I wonder if close to retirement I'll change my idea about dating a client.. it would still have to be someone who doesn't partake often, or I wouldn't trust him. I think trust is really important in relationships and I try to be as truthful as possible with my partner or my friends.. but not everyone is like that. Trust has to be earned

 

[Julia Sky]

For Sps that offer greek, or have offered greek in the past with clients knowing it is an option going into the date, did greek always end up happening majority of the time and was that usually the primary reason the client booked with you?

No. The majority books for my oral skills, and it's a minority that wants anal - but that might be different if I charged less for it, who knows. Lol

 

[LeDodo]

I wish you have a separate post to this question to give a appropriate reaction lol

My eyebrows and eyelashes, then I paint my entire body red. I just want to look as scary as possible. *eyeroll*

But coming back to my initial question, by seeing the various replies I might have not express correctly my specific scenario

Nonetheless thanks for the answers!

 

[LeDodo]

No. The majority books for my oral skills, and it's a minority that wants anal - but that might be different if I charged less for it, who knows. Lol

If you do so, you'll surely be tagged in the cheap anal thread lol

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

I know the subject has been touched based a gazillion times.
But I always wondered if a SP and a client are in a relationship how does the trust with each other works? I mean like, will you set rules or promise that you won't see escorts or clients at all once you start the relationship? Obviously that's for the case the escort is stopping her activity or goes into a hiatus.

It's a type of relationship that is almost certain to fail, and maybe catastrophically so, due to the illusory nature of it, and of the characteristics of both partners that are willing to entertain this type of pseudo-relationship. A client, and a sex worker. Are these people generally good at healthy relationships? Poser la question c'est y répondre... One cannot engineer his idealized relationship by picking and choosing elements of different classes of relationships (i.e a little bit of BF/GF "stuff" with some client/escort "stuff"). It won't work. Trust me on that one.

 

[twenty4seven]

Lots of lube and time. Those men usually know and won’t just ram it into me, they also have eyes to see how small I am

There's something so insanely hot about letting a woman take her time to fit you in, esp in CG. It's like, yeah, find that angle you like, I'll just chill here for a bit and watch you work until you're settled.

 

[x5fq]

My eyebrows and eyelashes, then I paint my entire body red. I just want to look as scary as possible. *eyeroll*

micro cuts from shaving can slightly increase susceptibility, but that’s not really the main driver of STI risk compared to protection use and exposure

 

[Lunaseraphim]

micro cuts from shaving can slightly increase susceptibility, but that’s not really the main driver of STI risk compared to protection use and exposure

I don't need education about STIs... I meant that I shave my legs before work.

 

[x5fq]

I don't need education about STIs... I meant that I shave my legs before work.

Sorry, I misunderstood your message. I thought you were referring to shaving down there.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Sorry, I misunderstood your message. I thought you were referring to shaving down there.

If I have to shave down there I won't do it right before a booking..

 

[twenty4seven]

If I have to shave down there I won't do it right before a booking..

I was gonna chime in with something about not shaving but then I realized a Luna with full bush would be too powerful.

 

[Rebaynia]

Asking any SP
If a client shows up with a big one, maybe to big how do you handle it?

Too big in which way? Length or girth?

Length, can only go as far as they fit, and everything too much just doesn't get to enter.

Girth, they know what they have, and often know what it takes to not hurt, foreplay a d lube.

 

[Skym]

To the SPs,
Do you like role-playing?
Especially if a client requests it?

 

[urquell]

No. The majority books for my oral skills

I think it's a nice change that men value conversation with you and listen carefully to your opinions, as it makes us seem like less of a group of ardent degenerates. You must be a fascinating conversationalist to retain the interest of so many people! One day perhaps we should talk. I would interested in how you approach a number of subjects!