Ask us anything part 3

[Endurance2024]

Too big in which way? Length or girth?

Length, can only go as far as they fit, and everything too much just doesn't get to enter.

Girth, they know what they have, and often know what it takes to not hurt, foreplay a d lube.

Yes .. girth .. didn't know what I had TBH at first but after seeing a quite a few SPs it became apparent. Love foreplay and that has always served me well.
Then let her hop on CG and take her time until we are acclimated.

And I just never can tell from the SPs measurements in their bios height 5.10 to 4.11 waist size I thought might give a clue but I find that vaginas come in different sizes just like dick.

So first visit is always a discovery session like anyone else but one of the discoveries for me is, are our parts compatible.

I do have one SP though that I repeat with no CFS. We do Covered PS and have Steller oral sessions. But just one.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

For Sps that offer greek, or have offered greek in the past with clients knowing it is an option going into the date, did greek always end up happening majority of the time and was that usually the primary reason the client booked with you?

Firstly, it's not an option that can either happen or not, I need to know in advance for the obvious reasons, except on tour when I'm (almost) always ready. But (pun intended) in order to answer the underlying question, yes. most of my clients book me for my ass.

 

[Endurance2024]

Read again, she said friends without benefits

Being friend with her I think I might be able to. It's just it will feel like being with ex who you get along with after the breakup (although I don't have any with this kind of relationship ...).

The most awkward situation would be (maybe for her?) that you refuse to be friends but you want to stay a client. How would she take it?

Yes that kind of question could kill the SP/client relationship no matter which one asked it. For my answer I could become just friends with my fav but it would be awkward with the age gap being more than double her age.

She has a circle of friends and family and I as well. How do we explain our friendship to our peeps or do we have to? Could just be very awkward IMO.

 

[Endurance2024]

There's something so insanely hot about letting a woman take her time to fit you in, esp in CG. It's like, yeah, find that angle you like, I'll just chill here for a bit and watch you work until you're settled.

Exactly .. ditto

 

[twenty4seven]

And I just never can tell from the SPs measurements in their bios height 5.10 to 4.11 waist size I thought might give a clue but I find that vaginas come in different sizes just like dick.

So first visit is always a discovery session like anyone else but one of the discoveries for me is, are our parts compatible.

It's pretty much the main defining characteristic of whether or not I repeat with a provider. If she enjoys me, my dick, and I can tell physically/verbally/emotionally then we're probably gonna make it work but there are some women for whom it's just not comfortable, and that's ok too, we won't try and force it for a second time.

 

[twenty4seven]

Firstly, it's not an option that can either happen or not, I need to know in advance for the obvious reasons, except on tour when I'm (almost) always ready. But (pun intended) in order to answer the underlying question, yes. most of my clients book me for my ass.

I understand that. I would've thought it was the waterworks tho

 

[lovethaifood]

It should never be a surprise. You need to tell me before so I can adequately prepare. So yes I’d say they book solely for that if they tell me that’s what they want but sometimes they just can’t get hard enough to stick it in because of stress so nothing happens

Oh, I didn't mean it should be a surprise request during the date, I just meant if the client knows going in ahead of time that greek is an option, is that why they primarily book with that SP, like Michelle Gunn wrote for the ass. I fully understand that there is a lot of prep work for greek on sp part. I see on one of the agency sites that a sp offers greek and it seems like that sp is fully booked a few days ahead whenever her schedule is released. So my intuition says that a lot of clients want to experience greek so that is why they those sps book fast. I could be wrong. Julia sky must have incredible oral skills. Interesting point on the stress and getting hard at moment of truth to stick it in.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It's a type of relationship that is almost certain to fail, and maybe catastrophically so, due to the illusory nature of it, and of the characteristics of both partners that are willing to entertain this type of pseudo-relationship. A client, and a sex worker. Are these people generally good at healthy relationships? Poser la question c'est y répondre... One cannot engineer his idealized relationship by picking and choosing elements of different classes of relationships (i.e a little bit of BF/GF "stuff" with some client/escort "stuff"). It won't work. Trust me on that one.

You can acknowledge that this type of relationship is usually not a good idea without saying "sex workers and clients are not good at healthy relationships".

Asking any SP
If a client shows up with a big one, maybe to big how do you handle it?

To answer this question, personally, since I don't work at an agency or a spa, I don't really have to worry about this because I am already relaxed when I see the client. When I worked for spas I did a lot of volume, and it led to physical pain at times which was sometimes difficult to recover from. I used vaginal moisturizers that are sold over the counter as a solution.

 

[Nachoy]

For threesomes do you prefer to get your own duo partner ?
Are you okay if client brings in a duo partner ?

 

[LC18]

For threesomes do you prefer to get your own duo partner ?
Are you okay if client brings in a duo partner ?

I hate being imposed someone. I have declined a lot of offers because I didn’t like the other girl they picked

It’s either that or I’ll go and won’t touch/kiss her

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For threesomes do you prefer to get your own duo partner ?
Are you okay if client brings in a duo partner ?

I prefer giving the client a few choices of my own duo partners.

I've done duos with other providers before who I didn't know and it was very awkward. There are also people I wouldn't feel comfortable doing duos with because I don't think it would be a good match, nothing against them but I've become more picky about who I work with.

Sometimes the client is thinking about his own fantasy of seeing 2 providers he likes together but he's not thinking properly about how they will get along or if they will have chemistry.

 

[twenty4seven]

I prefer giving the client a few choices of my own duo partners.

This is the way.

Also, with providers I trust I’ve just said “you know our style, what we like, so you pick” bc I think that if they're excited to play with a specific person the whole thing will be the most fun. I've even told them not to tell me so it's a surprise and to date they've all been some of the hottest experiences ever.

 

[Nachoy]

Do you have any duo partners that are male?

 

[LC18]

Do you have any duo partners that are male?

Yes I do

 

[Julia Sky]

Do you have any duo partners that are male?

Yes

 

[Michelle Gunn]

I understand that. I would've thought it was the waterworks tho

yeah, easily 95% of my clients want Greek and/or squirt. Luckily for me, they often work together very nicely

 

[twenty4seven]

yeah, easily 95% of my clients want Greek and/or squirt. Luckily for me, they often work together very nicely

Very nicely indeed

 

[Nachoy]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

 

[x5fq]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

Il faut de tout pour faire un monde. Tu parles de perte. Mais ça n'en est pas une : c'est juste un changement de clientèle cible.
Sans compter qu'il y a des jeunes qui sont aussi une attirance pour des GILFs aussi : tous les goûts sont dans la nature pour les hommes. Sans compter qu'il y a des hommes qui ne sont pas intéressés par les jeunes SPs non plus et préfèrent celles qui sont plus matures.

 

[LC18]

How do you handle ageism as you get older and lose the youthful appearance and attraction to clients? What is your retirement plan?

I am currently experiencing the opposite, I’m getting busier and busier. People seem to find me hotter than when I was 20

I have to admit, I looked like a teenager at that point and people were always shocked to know I was legal (not clients but people in my regular life)

I suspect a lot of people never came back because they found it a bit awkward. I looked borderline legal, I’m very small and at 20 I was a dumbass. Not everyone is into having sex with teenagers (Thank God)



I also get approach in bars more often now than before and get complimented by women now which I didn’t really before