Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

When you're paying for sexual services that doesn't mean that you're in a porn movie and can do whatever you want. There's always going to be a SP who will accept to do what you want if it's within reasonable limits anyways, there are even SP who are subs. It's not hard to clearly discuss services and restrictions and to decipher what kind of experience you'll be able to get with someone. If someone has time to read and write multiple reviews all the time they can take the time to talk to the SP directly and read her ads carefully..

Everyone is hyper fixated on BBFs too. If the provider is offering it out of her own free will and not being coerced into it.. Obviously it's dangerous, but if the client books that provider for it I don't care, as long as he leaves me alone and as long as he doesn't try to make it sound like this is the norm to others. Having someone slap me or fuck me in the ass without asking would be just as traumatic as a client removing the condom, but that wouldn't get someone banned here... It's weird.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Is there to be a uniform rules of conduct to govern all situations?

C’est pas compliqué, ça s’appelle le consentement! Il suffit de demander si la femme a est partante ou non pour telle ou telle activité.

 

[massagecentre]

Question for everyone: has anyone ordered a duo where the outcall girl goes to the incall place where another SP from the incall agency and I are waiting for a duo session? Is this bad protocol?

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Question for everyone: has anyone ordered a duo where the outcall girl goes to the incall place where another SP from the incall agency and I are waiting for a duo session? Is this bad protocol?

I am sure it happened before

 

[CuriousGent]

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Question for everyone: has anyone ordered a duo where the outcall girl goes to the incall place where another SP from the incall agency and I are waiting for a duo session? Is this bad protocol?

it's funny you asked this question, because this morning I was thinking who choose what incall to use in a duo situation where both women are indies and have different incalls but have not meet each other before

 

[Lunaseraphim]

it's funny you asked this question, because this morning I was thinking who choose what incall to use in a duo situation where both women are indies and have different incalls but have not meet each other before

That's happened to me multiple times! It all depends on who's incall is available at the moment, and which location is more convenient for everyone. I always offer to host because I don't mind cleaning and preparing the area.

 

[LC18]

Most of the time, the providers will figure it out between them. It’s most of the time the incall that’s available or cheaper to rent

 

[2fast2slow]

ok I have a question please

there is a provider i saw many times in like 2021-2022. Then she went away, then she came back and when I saw her in late 2023 early 2024 I asked for her number. I saw her very sporadically in 2024 until once early in 2025.

Well she is back for a month and she let me know via text. Truth is, although I like her as a person a lot, sexually (the kind you pay for) I've lost complete interest.

i am not one to 'ghost people", but I just cant think of a way to tell her i am not interested in seeing her anymore, and within the nature of the biz I wonder if it is just not better to not respond? that seems to be the way a lot of people handle things these days.

Or as a provider, would you rather hear the truth, that, although i still really like you as a person, I just dont want to pay to have sex with you anymore?

 

[Alucard87]

Take her on a social date and then tell her you have a nasty STD ?