Ask us anything part 3

[jeffmathers]

Don't know if this as been asked before (probably considering the number of pages ), but i'll ask anyway: from your experience, ladies, what's the ratio between MERB members and not in your clients?
I understand you don't systematicaly ask the question so i know it will be an approximation.
I'm asking the question cause i often notice that there's a gap between the availability of certain ladies and the number reviews of said ladies here.
Some people always assume that merbites "hide" some ladies by not reviewing their experience, that may be so; but another reason could also be that there's a good number of clients who simply don't come here.
(Of course there are also lurkers )

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[Rebaynia]

Don't know if this as been asked before (probably considering the number of pages ), but i'll ask anyway: from your experience, ladies, what's the ratio between MERB members and not in your clients?
I understand you don't systematicaly ask the question so i know it will be an approximation.
I'm asking the question cause i often notice that there's a gap between the availability of certain ladies and the number reviews of said ladies here.
Some people always assume that merbites "hide" some ladies by not reviewing their experience, that may be so; but another reason could also be that there's a good number of clients who simply don't come here.
(Of course there are also lurkers )

I don't really know about any ratio.
I've seen merb members before. Don't know who they are on merb for the most part.

I only know of 1 for sure. Everyone else, I enjoyed my time with, and am sure they did too. Haven't had any reviews written, but I'm alright with that.

The fact that it's been almost 3 years, and there are no negative reviews, and I have only started to be a supporting member, so imagined being an active participating member, not supporting, that if someone did write a good review, might just be shut down anyway. If it was bad it would have stayed for sure.

But those I clocked as merb members, or they told me after, admitted they found the reviewing, dehumanizing, and didn't like to participate in sharing for that reason.

Who knows could be I was bad, but sweet enough they didn't want me to feel negative after. (Not likely from what I have seen in the reviews, but never know. Could be a reason.)

Also I'm not exactly thin. Could be not wanting to be known for liking a bigger person, and there's really no nice way to review a bigger size without it sounding like a jab at attraction. Even for those who like it, there isn't positively charged terms to make it sound desirable, but is something that would likely come up in followup questions, that even a well intentioned review could turn into a fat-phobic thread.

I choose to see it as a positive, no bad news is good news, especially when the day my account was started here, was the day I started being available as a provider. Oct. 2022

 

[LC18]

Are you ok with restaurants asking for your credit card numbers to book a table?

 

[LeDodo]

Are you ok with restaurants asking for your credit card numbers to book a table?

No issues with that. If you book from OpenTable it's rather common. Some even have no show policy to charge penalty. If I'm going to there I don't mind leaving it.
If I'm going to just book everywhere and at the last minute then I might be worried ...

 

[Rebaynia]

Are you ok with restaurants asking for your credit card numbers to book a table?

No.
I guess I understand the concept, but I don't think I have been, or would be comfortable going to, a place high end enough to require a card number to book a table.

Delicious food can be found at places that don't need this type of requirement.

Sounds like the type of place I would wait for a work holiday party to be held at to expierience. When it's the boss who's paying. (Only time I've ever been to places like that.)

 

[philonius]

Are you ok with restaurants asking for your credit card numbers to book a table?

This is a thing?! Weird. Because they charge a no-show fee?

 

[2fast2slow]

Are you ok with restaurants asking for your credit card numbers to book a table?

it depends on the restaurant

 

[LeDodo]

This is a thing?! Weird. Because they charge a no-show fee?

Some yes.

 

[LC18]

This is a thing?! Weird. Because they charge a no-show fee?

I’ve only had 2 places asked me for a credit card to book but yes I guess they too suffer from last minute cancellations or no shows

 

[philonius]

I've used my credit card to make reservations at spas and beauty salons because they get too many cancellations. It's annoying but that's how things are now. If I miss a therapist appointment I have to pay for it..

I have to send a deposit to my hairdresser as well. A lot of people here call SP scammers because they ask for deposits and advise against sending one but the truth is nowadays most freelance workers require deposits..

I don't ask for deposits personally but I get cancellations and during the slow season it can be annoying.

Oh I understand it, just didn’t think it was such a big issue for a restaurant as to warrant it. Makes sense, just seems a bit much.
For the record, I’ve never had an issue with deposits and never been scammed before but I’m not looking for the ‘best deal’ (ie. taking a chance on rando LL posts) and not concerned about the risk of losing a nominal sum so this doesn’t affect me.
So yeah, take my credit card for a resevation I’M NOT SEEING ANYONE THAT REQUIRES A DEPOSIT/SCREENING, THATS HOWNTHEYNGGETYOU!!!1111

Oof, sorry, what was that?! I’ve been here too long, I think…