Ask us anything part 3

[philonius]

I think this was answered in a previous thread but I always find the pre-sex shower a funny transition point. Do you like to start kissing, getting it on over clothes before the shower is had, or would you rather have someone shower early on THEN get into it? If it's the former, do you disrobe in advance in case they come out fully nude/toweled or do you hope they partially re-dress so you can resume where you left off?

I have a preference but I can't remember what most sps said they liked.

 

[LC18]

If it's the former, do you disrobe in advance in case they come out fully nude/toweled or do you hope they partially re-dress so you can resume where you left off?

I don’t like waiting there naked so I put a robe on

 

[kabukicho]

Here's a question: Are there times you consciously try not to cum, when with a client? I know everyone has different post-orgasm refractory periods so I'm wondering if there's scenarios where you deliberately hold out, like if the session is a long one or if it becomes too sensitive immediately following or you know your horniness might wane afterwards? I wonder genuinely bc I do this sometimes, mainly just to stay on the razors edge of climax, and I'm curious if there's more reasons to do it since continued/prolonged intimacy may be expected.

have definitely seen sp hold out or cut short and basically say, your turn. also have repeated w/ a sp who when she does allow herself to,, she'll come in minutes and its vocal.

 

[philonius]

have definitely seen sp hold out or cut short and basically say, your turn. also have repeated w/ a sp who when she does allow herself to,, she'll come in minutes and its vocal.

Yeah, it's happened to me too and they said they wanted me to cum first. After I did and cleaned up we snuggled and then she asked me to finger her and she came. I'm not upset about it but it made me think about the logistics of an sp not cumming on purpose to make sure they're present/able to keep fucking through the whole session.

 

[LeDodo]

Question for both clients and SPs: do you go more often (or maybe all the time?) to "nice" restaurants with a client/SP? The quotes are here to cater for the wide spectrum of good restaurants.

When you are a civilian I assume you have to eat at least 3 meals a day and you won't eat all your meal at nice restaurants all the time.

So for clients and SPs these social dates encounter are kind of being able to enjoy special occasions most the time. Which (sadly) puts civilian a bit in the shadow ...

 

[philonius]

Question for both clients and SPs: do you go more often (or maybe all the time?) to "nice" restaurants with a client/SP? The quotes are here to cater for the wide spectrum of good restaurants.

When you are a civilian I assume you have to eat at least 3 meals a day and you won't eat all your meal at nice restaurants all the time.

So for clients and SPs these social dates encounter are kind of being able to enjoy special occasions most the time. Which (sadly) puts civilian a bit in the shadow ...

Of the last 5 times I went to a "nice restaurant" all 5 were with an sp. Haute cuisine is not really my style but I enjoy it every once in a while or when the situation requires it (ie. when the sp chooses it or I think is too hot to eat at a normal restaurant without being out of place lol).

 

[Rebaynia]

Question for both clients and SPs: do you go more often (or maybe all the time?) to "nice" restaurants with a client/SP? The quotes are here to cater for the wide spectrum of good restaurants.

I haven't been to restaurants with others in this line of work. I have had someone cook me really amazing exotic food before though.

When you are a civilian I assume you have to eat at least 3 meals a day and you won't eat all your meal at nice restaurants all the time.

I tend to eat 1 meal a day, and often just something cheap and easy to prepare. Or off the value menu at McD's, or Timmy's.

So for clients and SPs these social dates encounter are kind of being able to enjoy special occasions most the time. Which (sadly) puts civilian a bit in the shadow ...

I haven't really been on that many dates in my life, in civi or work. Though I find it charming when someone I see for a visit, makes part of our time together, like a mini date.

 

[Nachoy]

Do you ever use vibrators or dildos upon clientele request?

 

[LC18]

Do you ever use vibrators or dildos upon clientele request?

Again

 

[Zero_Six]

 

[philonius]

Here's an honest question: How often do you freestyle (just go to bars/clubs and hit on dudes before transitioning to a paid proposition)? I guess I never thought it happened IRL but an sp told me that they do it infrequently but it sometimes results in clients.

 

[Rebaynia]

Here's an honest question: How often do you freestyle (just go to bars/clubs and hit on dudes before transitioning to a paid proposition)? I guess I never thought it happened IRL but an sp told me that they do it infrequently but it sometimes results in clients.

I don't have the confidence to go into bars to freestyle. If I do go out it is because I am going out to have fun myself.

Though I have been thinking of making business cards. I don't have the confidence to freestyle, yet while stopped at a red light while driving, I have often gotten asked for my number or contact info.

 

[LC18]

Here's an honest question: How often do you freestyle (just go to bars/clubs and hit on dudes before transitioning to a paid proposition)? I guess I never thought it happened IRL but an sp told me that they do it infrequently but it sometimes results in clients.

I used to do it more often when I was younger. These days it’s rare but the last time I did, the man ended up living in my building so it was awkward

 

[philonius]

I used to do it more often when I was younger. These days it’s rare but the last time I did, the man ended up living in my building so it was awkward

So... is that an incall or outcall lol?

 

[philonius]

I don't have the confidence to go into bars to freestyle. If I do go out it is because I am going out to have fun myself.

Though I have been thinking of making business cards. I don't have the confidence to freestyle, yet while stopped at a red light while driving, I have often gotten asked for my number or contact info.

Yeah, the person that told me about it said the same thing, that they were super nervous and awkward doing it but still managed to get a booking or two. Here I was thinking it was only something you see in movies.

 

[LC18]

So... is that an incall or outcall lol?

It actually died in the club. We didn’t go to either place

 

[CuriousGent]

Yeah, the person that told me about it said the same thing, that they were super nervous and awkward doing it but still managed to get a booking or two. Here I was thinking it was only something you see in movies.

did she share more info, did the booking happen on the spot or days later? at he clients place or hers or her incall?

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Here's an honest question: How often do you freestyle (just go to bars/clubs and hit on dudes before transitioning to a paid proposition)? I guess I never thought it happened IRL but an sp told me that they do it infrequently but it sometimes results in clients.

Never done it but definitely curious about it. I was thinking it would probably be more fun to do it with another SP or two and maybe like go to a casino or something kinda wild hehe.

 

[philonius]

did she share more info, did the booking happen on the spot or days later? at he clients place or hers or her incall?

Yeah she said both happened. One they stopped at an atm in the lobby, beside the hotel bar they were at, and went up to his room. Another became an incall reg, and she still sees him.

 

[philonius]

Never done it but definitely curious about it. I was thinking it would probably be more fun to do it with another SP or two and maybe like go to a casino or something kinda wild hehe.

That could be a fun and sexy, scripted roleplay duo that starts in the casino and moves to the hotel.