Not much has changed for me financially. I am less extravagant these days to be careful for the future. The hobby was cut down to zero during the pandemic but I have only hobbied twice in the last four months. There also seems to be less choices these days.
Are things financially the same with you, are you cutting back. Have you cut back on the hobby?
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I only cut my admiration for this hobby for the time being because I'm in a relationship; otherwise, I'm in until my last breath. I must admit that life is becoming increasingly expensive. You only have one life, in my opinion, and tomorrow is never promised . That is the reason I have no regret or desire to stop. I could never ask for anything more.
Life is a bitch. As your financial situation usually improves with age, your libido and performance declines. So higher disposable income not always results in the increase in hobbing.
I was hobbying quite frequently for the past few months (1 or 2 times per week), but I plan to cut down in the near future (1 or 2 times per month).
My financial situation has not changed, but this hobby can get expensive and addictive. I use mostly agencies, and although I’m happy with my favs, I tend to agree that there seems to be less choices these days. Plus agencies seem to schedule many appointments back to back, so a 1 hour appointment becomes 50 mins.
So I might see some Indys going forward, or book longer appts (90 min or 2 hours), but less frequently!
Also, if I hobby less frequently, I’ll look more forward to the appointments and appreciate it more (since it’s less frequent). That’s the plan, let’s see if I can stick to it!
My financial situation has not changed, but this hobby can get expensive and addictive. I use mostly agencies, and although I’m happy with my favs, I tend to agree that there seems to be less choices these days. Plus agencies seem to schedule many appointments back to back, so a 1 hour appointment becomes 50 mins.
So I might see some Indys going forward, or book longer appts (90 min or 2 hours), but less frequently!
Also, if I hobby less frequently, I’ll look more forward to the appointments and appreciate it more (since it’s less frequent). That’s the plan, let’s see if I can stick to it!
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you just wrote a review yesterday!?!?
In the past, I meant. When I was in a relationship, I would put the hobby on hold. Obviously now I’m not in a relationship.
Obviously, it doesn't affect much old farts like me. House has been paid and career is well established.
It should affect more young guns... Would be interesting to have their comments.
It should affect more young guns... Would be interesting to have their comments.
only thing that changed the hobby for me is the fact that most agnecies close early. I'll never be a daytime guy or someone that books days in advance, I don't usually wait for any particular girl either. My urge 90% comes after going out and my booty calls aren't replying. Onlyfans can kiss my ass. The only good thing to come out of post-covid + onlyfans has been to up my dating game.
I remember the old days specially mojo with late night appointments. One of the things that bothers me a lot is that it’s so tough lately to book a girl in one of the biggest agencies. If you don’t book before midnight for the next day then it’s too late.
I spent way too much in the past couple months. Enough to probably buy an SP a condo lol
I will be cutting down for the next couple months. Maybe once a week.
My financial situation has not changed, but I am saving up to buy some property
I will be cutting down for the next couple months. Maybe once a week.
My financial situation has not changed, but I am saving up to buy some property
i am a patron of 3-4 different mps and occasionnaly of an agency. Its very anecdotal, but places do seem less busy in the last few months, and the girls say that as well. I personnaly feel a litlle more financially constrained these days...but instead of slowing down, i seem to have accelerated my activity beyond my means... yolo
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Well right now I’m making calculated choices due to investment in other areas of life.. however as soon as they will fructify … I’ll go full throttle
As long as I can see my ATF I won’t cut back, but if and when she retires I will cut back to half or perhaps retire completely and just concentrate on family and taking them on trips around the world.
I have noticed recently that my hobbying activity has increased even though my salary has not. What began as a twice-a-month massage parlour HE type thing, has now become a twice-a-week FS and massage parlour session.
I am unsure how long I will maintain the present lifestyle but I have recently noticed that where I was once able to save a certain amount of money monthly in my bank account, it has evaporated and there are no longer savings. I am not bleeding yet, but if I do not make a radical change shortly, I will begin to bleed from my savings.
That is a red flag for me.
I am unsure how long I will maintain the present lifestyle but I have recently noticed that where I was once able to save a certain amount of money monthly in my bank account, it has evaporated and there are no longer savings. I am not bleeding yet, but if I do not make a radical change shortly, I will begin to bleed from my savings.
That is a red flag for me.
I can totally empathize, I hope the agencies are not planning to increase their rates soon. I don’t understand how many gents can or want to pay some of the rates of posted for Indy companions but thinking it twice it’s hard for me to justify SD arrangement where you are expected to contribute around 4 to 7k per month plus gifts plus trips. I might be just poor lol
I've slowly cut back on the hobby long ago when I decided to own something. Obviously with life getting more expensive I have less disposable income but since I had already cut back it doesn't really change much for me, at least with the type of experiences I go for. Yes I'd sometimes want more but I'm still satisfied at the moment.
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