I wanted to be one at one point because i like satisfying women but i made an ad and only men replied... Then i got married and she want to leave because canada is too cold but now im alone again and my confidence is down as well.
I wouldn't take women not contacting as a shot to your confidence. I don't know about other women, but since sex is often male pleasure centered, a toy is cheaper. Other women friends can fill the companion and emotional comfort needs that arise. The demand by women isn't as high as the demand of men looking for sexual gratification.
I always think about stop going to strip clubs and stopping the hobby but its how i cope. My question to you is do you genuinely like your clients
Breaking this question in 2. Yes I genuinely like my clients, I am picky about who I see because I need to be able to connect with who I am intimate with and if he can't express that in messages, unfortunately I won't be seeing him.
and they can take you out for fun like to laronde or something that doesnt have sex attached to it without being monetized because the client just wants to have fun and hes a regular who wants you to be open to the possibility of just having a good moment with you.
My personal time is dedicated to my kids and my life partner. It's not that I dont appreciate the time with those I see, but I am out of my comfort zone when I am outside of my home, so only reason to leave home is to earn to support my family. My business is it is my time paid for, not the act specifically, so social time is still paid time, otherwise I would be an introverted hermit staying home.
Its basically like saying i pay your rent, your car, your lifestyle, do i ever get a chance to spend actual you wanna spend time with me time or is that just the arrangement and theres nothing any guy can do about it.
You don't pay for these things, I have a job as well as this. All these things I had before doing this, this offers me the ability not to lose what I already have. And you don't pay for it, I earn my money to pay for my life myself. What I ask for barely even covers the cost of what it costs me to even be available to you.
I know answers may vary, i just want to see if going to these places like massage parlours and seeing these women if off the back im labeled as a loser etc...
I don't know about others, but I tend to refer to those I see as sweeties, not losers. I am often happy to see when one of my people contact me to see them. I take it as a compliment when they call me back again, and will only return to see those I like. I'm too emotionally irregular to be able to revisit someone I didn't like.
thats why i havent done it in a long time only strip clubs because when a stripper likes me shell just stay at my table and hang out whether the club is alive or empty just buy her one or 2 dribks to be nice. Im sorry if this was long just want to know how im seen in the eyes of an sp or mp.
I believe a dancer needs more support in their night than having a drink or 2 baught for them. They aren't paid just for being there, only money they make is what you give them. If they spend the hour with you, that's an hour they don't make any money while actively at work. It's to their deficit to stay and talk, and not be invited to a private dance.
