I used to think like that, but I changed my mind after a few years!
Ask us anything part 3
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I'm not currently partnered but I've never cheated in my entire life. I'd rather work through problems or break up. I'm not a perfect individual and I don't always have the best conflict resolution skills but I try my best to maintain positive and healthy relationships with people I'm close to.
But I understand that for people of a different generation who have children and a long & complicated history with their partner, it's not that simple..
Yes I have, more than once.
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I had period sex with non SP and it was messy. Had to cover the bedding with towels.
I prefer not to
Doesn’t the hotel cleaning staff get mad at you if you tried ?
How dare these clients try to be kind to and offer such favors.
You never even met them
The world is a crazy place.
Imagine if I had sex with a girl I never meet !
Mad at someone who they have no idea who it is and left the hotel?
Also period happens outside of the SW industry just saying ...
God made it so, so we can populate the world
It like why do we need to eat ?
You make it sound like the staff brings sheets from their own home to supply the hotel. I don’t think they care like that
Being a woman, you can have surprise periods. It’s not something you have control over
“Let me start my period on Thursday, that makes more sense in my schedule”
To get something i can't have at home. And to escape the routine and chaos for a short time. With 3 kids, job, house, working wife, very little time for relaxation and intimacy. So I go for a massage once in a while.
Because it makes me feel good and I get to make someone else feel good too (I hope).
This isn't really a fair comparison.
This forum, and other platforms are places where escorts advertise their services. I will not hang out or have sex with someone who has met me on such a platform for free.
If you're uncomfortable with the idea that women here are being paid for sex and companionship and that there are platforms designed for these women to advertise their services, I think you should look elsewhere.
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My question is : what is an act of kindness to you?
To me, kindness doesn't ask for anything in return.
What is kindness in this industry?
To me, kindness is taking the time to understand someone and see them as a person who deserves respect.
It should be immediately seen as a major red flag whenever a potential or regular client starts to expect anything for free. Some clients only use sex workers because they want to dominate and control women whom they treat with contempt. First thing they will do is try to stretch the boundaries and behave like they are entitled to get whatever they want.
Even if someone argues it's not the case, it puts the sex worker in an awkward position, so no client should even go there.
No matter what the intent I feel like it's unfair to put me in this position. Why am I supposed to feel like the bad guy because I'm saying no to hanging out for free to a client I've never met?
I'm not going to stay on this topic because I know how it's going to go.
To go back to my question : what is kindness to you?
What is kindness in the context of this industry, both from the provider and client side?
(Don't say if she's kind she should be offering her services for free, because we know that's not what anybody is here for)
I enjoy the idea of two people being mentally in sync and focused on giving each other pleasure.
Also I love to please people, so for me seeing a women achieve orgasm with help of me is an highest form of pleasure. Also for me your orgasm is a purest form of pleasure at that singular moment. So to experience it and see it in a women is something.
I was planning to read all three “Ask Us Anything” posts, but when I saw that the third one was over 180 pages long, I gave up. At least I can say that this wasn't discussed in the first two XD
For SPs: What's it like to work at an agency? Do you participate in the screening process? How do you discuss expectations with a new client?
Are there more ethical issues with agencies?
Disclaimer: I’ve never been with an agency or with an indy in Canada. I only have experience with one SP in another country
For SPs: What's it like to work at an agency? Do you participate in the screening process? How do you discuss expectations with a new client?
Are there more ethical issues with agencies?
Disclaimer: I’ve never been with an agency or with an indy in Canada. I only have experience with one SP in another country
To me kindness in this business isn’t loud or extravagant—it’s soft, unexpected, and deeply felt. For me I give small gestures: a thoughtfully chosen Starbucks drink, a bouquet of colorful flowers, or an extra tip given not out of obligation, but genuine appreciation. I feel these little things have a way of lighting up someone’s entire day, turning an ordinary moment into something meaningful.
From my perspective as a client , receiving kindness from a SP is also about feeling valued—like your time matters, like you matter. It’s being with someone who doesn’t rush, who doesn’t double-book or keep you waiting endlessly. Because waiting for hours, hearing “just 15 more minutes” over and over, slowly chips away at that feeling. It turns anticipation into disappointment.
But when someone shows up fully, when they give you their time without making you feel like an afterthought—that’s where kindness really lives. It’s in the care, the presence, the quiet respect that says: you’re important, and this moment matters
I have a big qiestion that i think is a very confusing one because ive asked it so many times and got so many different types of answers. My question is as an sp or relationship be very real with me do most women put on an act to be loud and fake moans in order to make their partner or their client happy. I know it varies frpm girl to girl but im talking about most women. I talked to a few women and they said they only would really koan loudly is when they havent had sex for a long time and the loud moaning bullshit is mostly for the guy and his ego so i want to know what do you think about this? Modt of the time when a sp or mp is being really really vocal obviously sometimes it can be genuine but im talking the majority, is it actually genuine or is it to make the work easier for the work and get the guy to cum faster?
I’m not a good actress so if I was faking it would totally be noticeable.
I can be really loud when I’m into it, sometimes it makes me a big self conscious because I don’t want it to sound too much and I don’t want neighbours to hear.
If I’m quiet, it’s because I’m not having fun but usually I will stop and try to do something that feels good to both of us
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