Dealbreaker or not?

LC18 said:

His tastes aren’t better than everyone elses. That’s his preference and he should learn how to respect other’s

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I never said they were. What you seem to not understand was I was reacting to a series of posts that made me feel like my preferences were beneath everyone else's. And were themselves preposterous. And why you would start a thread asking about preferences and then start criticizing people who express them, maybe using language that exaggerates just to make a point, is beyond me.

I also don't understand your business acumen here. Presumably most SPs on this board are posting to market themselves and not piss people off with judgmental attitudes that also make no sense. One would think you would not at all question a client who wants less service rather than more. And just take it in. The only people who have criticized me for wanting less service in the past are my fellow clients who told me that my standards of desired service drag down the level expected by them. So all of your posts have been counterproductive both logically and in terms of any SP marketing.

My posts were only trying to say or illustrate that I only pay for what I actually desire. I can't help what I desire, it is what it is. That I may have reacted to others questioning that in stronger language was to make a point. FWIW I can kiss an average looking person but have no innate desire to do so and will not ever pay to do so as opposed to doing other things. Once again - isn't that what your own thread is or was asking? Rule #1 of marketing is never start a thread to solicit opinions and then piss off a customer or possible customer after you have heard one.

EagerBeaver said:

I do not see it as unusual at all. I only want kissing if it's a very pretty face. That's probably less than 5% of the female population.

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This may be your issue. If only 5% of the female population is "very pretty", your brain may have been affected in some way. Right away in my case of all the SPs i seen (most being face blurred) the vast majority of them were "very pretty". More than the usual women i would see in metro or such.

But hey some peoples say Sydney Sweeney is "mid" facially so clearly in my view peoples have unrealistic standards.

Halloween Mike said:

This may be your issue. If only 5% of the female population is "very pretty", your brain may have been affected in some way.

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My brain is not affected in any way. If I am very impressed by the face, I want to kiss it. It's subjective, and that's it. As you mentioned most SPs pics are blurred, so whether I ask for the service is entirely unpredictable. But in practical experience, it has been rare.

If I see an SP, it's primarily for getting a BBBJ. It's substantially more the case now than ever before because, I am not ashamed to admit, age, and more specifically high blood pressure medications associated with age, have robbed me of consistent erectile functionality. The good news is I always enjoyed BBBJ more than fucking anyway. The bad news is, it kind of sucks not being able to maintain a consistent boner.

Julia Sky said:

Super curious as well !!

I love kissing too. It's part of the experience to me. It's always a little awkward for me when someone doesnt want to kiss but of course I dont force it haha. If I was a client I wouldn't book someone who won't kiss.

Im also a huge fan of oral both ways, so if I was a client that would probably be super important.

Curious to see clients replies!

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Kissing brings me to a full hard on getting ready for that deep slippery bj then a deep pounding! Makes all the difference with it! No kissing and a covered BJ just will not make me solid hard!

LC18 said:

Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

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It depends really on the level of attractiveness, charisma and price of the girl.

If she's average looking and no bbbj but the 2 other go and she's charging 300$ I will say pass. For another girl who is a smoke show at the same price I would probably say or course. I don't think it is a one solution fits all.

A lesser attracrive man could be ok with the girl I wouldn't be interested in

Enjoying life said:

Kissing brings me to a full hard on getting ready for that deep slippery bj then a deep pounding! Makes all the difference with it! No kissing and a covered BJ just will not make me solid hard!

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Same. Its what start the engine for me. lol

LC18 said:

Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

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In a worse case scenario, the first 2 I could pass and not be a deal breaker . . . however for DATY that would be a definite deal breaker if not offered.

I well know that a big part of an encounter is a fantasy, make-believe, and the most successful SPs are those that can make us believe it's true to some point. Being in the 'senior' age group if by offering cunnilingus I can be led to believe that I can still offer some pleasure to a woman, even for a few moments, that will definitely be the highlight of my day.

For me its digit the more important one all the other one i can pass and im good with it !

As long as she visually matches my taste, I just care about feeling my dick inside something

None of these are dealbreakers for me

oneday said:

For me its digit the more important one all the other one i can pass and im good with it !

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The more I think about it digits are very important to me too. I love to finger while I eat, while we kiss, while she goes down on me. I bought a nail file just for this purpose lol.

I don't have any absolute deal breakers, however if there are multiple things missing (looks, services, attitude), that's when I have the courage to refuse.

if we are talking about the window-shopping phase, I think we are all the same trying to find the full package, looks and service.

One thing does give me the ick
when the girl says "babe" during the booking process

"Hi Babe"
"Yes Babe"
"Ok Babe"

holy fake attitude. that's just me tho

I’m currently shopping for services for the upcoming weeks, and here’s my approach:

I keep three tabs open: one with a lexicon of terms, one for SP reviews, and one listing the SPs and the services they offer.

I shortlist SPs who have good reviews and include terms of interest to me, for example, BBBJ.

It’s not a strict requirement, tho. I think of it as a percentage system: BBBJ might count for 50%, and my threshold is 70%. That means I’d need another feature or term to reach that 70%.

A full package would be worth 100%. Extras would push the total above 100%, which might make me willing to pay more to secure my spot.

On the opposite side, If one day I find an anal goddess then I will transform into an ATM machine.