We can do better as men.

[Jebmtl]

I’m concerned about how some of us act when we are with our women. I’m a man that can last long in a session but I don’t destroy the woman I’m gentle. I connect with my providers on personal level. A provider contacted me she’s telling me how some clients are treating her like a piece of meat I would say more like a sex doll. She is a caring woman who wants to really make her clients happy. I know from experience that she provides an amazing service. I wanted to share that we need to treat our women with respect, compassion and respect. You can’t just walk in fuck the shit out of her and destroy her body. I love and enjoy sex but when I get contacted by a woman and she shares her experiences with clients I’m ashamed and disgusted. Don’t get me wrong I’ve experienced very intense sexual sessions with women but they are always happy to see me. We respect each other there’s trust she is happy to give me pleasure. I wanted to share with you guys not to put anybody down or shame anyone. In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends. Make them feel special and you be surprised on the service you receive. I’m just trying to express myself so we all have better experiences.

 

[Anong]

Respect, respect and respect is the first thing. Great hygiene and respect their boundaries.

In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends

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[Enjoying life]

Being kind with offering a drink always gives you a hot time!

 

[vwjf]

Being kind with offering a drink always gives you a hot time!

It’s a lot more than a drink…. I do agree. I tend to discriminate my SP. I try to minimize the risk of pimping, and of desperation. I also make my desires clear and if I sense uneasyness I do not mind opting out so there is no weirdness or pushing boundaries.

Intrinsically, the buying and selling of sex is no different than anything else. Except that the illegality of it makes the power dynamics very unfair, and as customers, we need to be ethical about it. Yes I do understand, there is a slight irony here, but legality and morality have often been found to be on opposite ends...

So in a nutshell, yes, we can and should do better.

 

[CaptRenault]

I try to minimize the risk of pimping...

If you see agency girls, the owners and bookers are their pimps. So you should only see indies. Of course many indy girls have "boyfriends", AKA pimps so you never really know who is being pimped.

 

[Jacobisrael]

I’m concerned about how some of us act when we are with our women. I’m a man that can last long in a session but I don’t destroy the woman I’m gentle. I connect with my providers on personal level. A provider contacted me she’s telling me how some clients are treating her like a piece of meat I would say more like a sex doll. She is a caring woman who wants to really make her clients happy. I know from experience that she provides an amazing service. I wanted to share that we need to treat our women with respect, compassion and respect. You can’t just walk in fuck the shit out of her and destroy her body. I love and enjoy sex but when I get contacted by a woman and she shares her experiences with clients I’m ashamed and disgusted. Don’t get me wrong I’ve experienced very intense sexual sessions with women but they are always happy to see me. We respect each other there’s trust she is happy to give me pleasure. I wanted to share with you guys not to put anybody down or shame anyone. In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends. Make them feel special and you be surprised on the service you receive. I’m just trying to express myself so we all have better experiences.

100% non sexual attention is as important as sex for me. It enhances the experience is in the interest or guy as well for the girl. Even naughty pse girls want some

 

[Enjoying life]

100% non sexual attention is as important as sex for me. It enhances the experience is in the interest or guy as well for the girl. Even naughty pse girls want some

I always have something for them when they come and give them a taste of my many interests!

 

[Jacobisrael]

If you see agency girls, the owners and bookers are their pimps. So you should only see indies. Of course many indy girls have "boyfriends", AKA pimps so you never really know who is being pimped.

It might seem crazy for some. One time I saw an SP at Laval (independent) when we were done. Her sister (SP) came at the door. The one I saw told her to wait until I get out. I said no worries she can come in. Then we discussed and she said I rather a pimp than work for an agency. Her definition is a nice friend that books hotel for her. She didn’t really consider the agency a pimp but more like a scammer more than anything.

 

[LeDodo]

I think (and hope) that most of us here are respectful.
But that shows being an Indy even with some basic screening won't save you from the randomness of clients if you're in an agency.