Dealbreaker or not?

LC18 · Jul 5, 2025

Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?

I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

LC18 · Jul 5, 2025

I find a session without kisses very different. I don’t really know what to do, sometimes men will tell me they don’t kiss for those kind of dates but will come very close to my mouth confusing me au passage

Julia Sky · Jul 5, 2025

Super curious as well !!

I love kissing too. It's part of the experience to me. It's always a little awkward for me when someone doesnt want to kiss but of course I dont force it haha. If I was a client I wouldn't book someone who won't kiss.

Im also a huge fan of oral both ways, so if I was a client that would probably be super important.

Curious to see clients replies!

CLOUD 500 · Jul 5, 2025

LC18 said:
Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

No kissing is the biggest deal breaker for me. No kissing = No booking

LC18 said:
BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ is wanted and none would be a dealbreaker

LC18 said:
DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?

I can live without this

LC18 said:
I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

Makes sense

Mandouke · Jul 5, 2025

Very interesting topic.

Kissing is a dealbreaker for me; without it, there is no session.

The other two I would consider to be crucial in an FS session; however, kissing for me is of the utmost importance and usually a dealbreaker.

Having said that, I went for an FS GFE recently as a so-called experienced hobbyist. I have taken the liberty of posting the review link here, and I fully accept responsibility for my decision to see her. I came away with $300 lighter in my wallet and was adamant that I would be much more judicious in spending any more money on new escorts offering GFE experiences. I will stick to the handful of providers that I currently know.

I arrived at this decision even though all three of the options you queried were available to me, that is BBBJ, DATY and kissing. Just because they are offered does not mean that they are delivered in any professional capacity whatsoever.

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/miss-una-chinese-college-girl.244774/post-1748186

LC18 · Jul 5, 2025

Mandouke said:
I arrived at this decision even though all three of the options you queried were available to me, that is BBBJ, DATY and kissing. Just because they are offered does not mean that they are delivered in any professional capacity whatsoever.

Fair point, if I had a dick, I’d probably prefer no BJ than a botched BBBJ

LC18 · Jul 5, 2025

DetectiveDavidMills said:
DATY: I love DATY. Enjoying doing it. I love giving clitoral orgasms to women like that. It gets me harder. It is a letdown if not offered. But when i met a lady who doesn't offer it but offer a bunch of bells and whistles, then i will be ok with it since i pay for pleasure and in the end, their goal is to please me, i will be fine if not offered.

That’s actually one of my turn ons but we’ll keep that for a separate thread. Men that get hard from eating pussy are hot in my opinion

UncleBob · Jul 5, 2025

For me, in order of importance:

1 - DFK : I will not book if not offered even if BBBJ and DATY still offered.
2 - BBBJ : I will probably not book but if DFK is offered and the lady has hundreds good reviews, who knows...
10 - DATY: I love to Daty but I often skip on a first date... But if I repeat, I would like it to be offered but it's not a deal breaker.

When I book a Lady that advertize GFE with all acronyms offered and after I pay, she's not GFE anymore, I will proceed anyway with her restrictions but there will be no repeat and to soothe my disappointment, I will write a review accordingly...

However, some of these false advertizing ladies offered quite an amazing experience like this Charly in Laval and I got really excited and thought I would still repeat but after getting back down on earth, I never repeated... The Highlight with her was her Beauty and her Bubbly Personality. I'm sure she had/has quite a lot of clients for who, GFE is not mandatory.
She would have tell me she was not GFE at first, I would have never met this gem lol...

Julia Sky · Jul 5, 2025

So far it seems like kissing is the most important for a lot of people. I'm not entirely surprised tbh but it's nice to read this thread and see that many people share that preference!!

It's a good reminder that intimacy is so much more than just penetration and that actually, most clients are looking for more than just a warm hole

Pardon the vulgarity haha.

NoPantiesAllowed · Jul 5, 2025

For me it's pretty simple. I don't mind if she allows daty or not, I usually never go down on girls, unless she ask for it.
Bbbj or cbj is okay with me, I usually never stay long in that part.

A big must for me is kissing, if you don't kiss I'm not gonna call you. Even if you're popular or rated best provider of the year.

anatomy · Jul 5, 2025

For me all 3 come as a package for the complete GFE, without any one of them it's a no go.

LC18 · Jul 5, 2025

It seems like if 2 out of 3 are offered it’s still ok as long as those 2 include kissing? Or that she would have to be very special for you to see her without kissing

curious2012 · Jul 5, 2025

LC18 said:
It seems like if 2 out of 3 are offered it’s still ok as long as those 2 include kissing? Or that she would have to be very special for you to see her without kissing

No go for me for all three.....specially DATY....I just love to taste first! lol....and such a turn on!

S.S neo · Jul 5, 2025

I don’t kiss so not an issue for me.

I would accept CBJ iif BLS is possible. no daty is a total dealbreaker.

urquell · Jul 5, 2025

1) Kissing is a must have for a FS session. No DFK equals no session
2) BBBJ is a must have. I would rather have no BJ than have CBJ and no encounter is complete without a BJ, period.
3) DATY is a tougher question to answer. I enjoy giving pleasure to my partner, but the act itself doesn't give me pleasure. The pleasure my partner gets gives me pleasure. So, because some women don't enjoy oral sex very much I would get no pleasure from doing it with them and so it wouldn't matter to me very much. Conversely, it really heightens my enjoyment of the session if she also enjoys oral. So, is it a dealbreaker? no. Is it a strong preference with the right partner? Absolutely. In this case you could almost stretch to point to say that the dealbreaker would be having a woman who enjoys oral, rather than DATY being a dealbreaker. Nitpicky, nitpicky.

Of course, each person might also have other non-negotiable things that don't touch this list at all. I know a guy who will only have sessions if he can get his salad tossed. I know a woman who will only have sex with a man who will wear a hat during their encounter. Any kind of hat but a fireman's hat is her favorite. It's a wild and wonderful world out there. lol

EagerBeaver · Jul 5, 2025

LC18 said:
Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?

I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not? NOT

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not? DEALBREAKER

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not? NOT

vwjf · Jul 5, 2025

Kisses: Yes. Always ask and agreed before. I understand why some SP might not want to, and that’s ok, but I won’t visit them.
DATY: Same as above
BBBJ: I like them, I like cumswapping after (especially in a duo), 2 or 3 of us. But not a dealbreaker.

LeDodo · Jul 5, 2025

LC18 said:
Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?

I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

I think those questions come down to personal preference. At least for me I need those 3.
It's part of the moment dynamic.
But again that's personal.

LeDodo · Jul 5, 2025

LC18 said:
That’s actually one of my turn ons but we’ll keep that for a separate thread. Men that get hard from eating pussy are hot in my opinion

I didn't know I could be hot!

LeDodo · Jul 5, 2025

Julia Sky said:
So far it seems like kissing is the most important for a lot of people. I'm not entirely surprised tbh but it's nice to read this thread and see that many people share that preference!!

It's a good reminder that intimacy is so much more than just penetration and that actually, most clients are looking for more than just a warm hole Pardon the vulgarity haha.

I think it's down to the E of GFE, Experience. As you said it's not just down to the hole. But the whole thing. I would assume that if it's just the hole, MP might be the logical choice.

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