Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

We're not missing out on genuine relationships because we are getting paid for a service or an experience we are offering, and being an escort requires a lot more than beauty.

I'm not dating rich men or trying to find men to give me money in my personal life. Being an escort is a job. It's not your whole life.
I hope people understand that there is a difference between what I do for work and how

I approach relationships in my personal life.
I'm not going to find a relationship by posting escort ads on Merb lol this isn't where I want to find my person, and if anyone is mad about that they should reconsider why they're hiring escorts in the first place

 

[Fradi]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

Not all women think that way even if it may be true.
My wife was totally gorgeous and turned heads all the time but she never thought of herself that way,
She certainly didn’t marry me for my money as I didn’t have any.

We built a life together and a decent life style which unfortunately she didn’t even have a full year to enjoy after retiring.
Not all men only want a gorgeous woman for one thing and believe it or not most gorgeous women have the same dreams and hope as the rest and actually when things fall apart a man can get tired of a gorgeous woman just as easily.

 

[madmonkey82]

[Clients]

Do you mind if the SP is on her period when you guys meet?

I have never encountered that. But given my fetishes for fluids I would like to some day.

 

[Julia Sky]

Damn sorry to hear that.
I'm curious to hear from others (based on LC's response I think she can be included in this category) who started at that age and don't regret it.
(Also tbh trying to make myself feel less bad about seeing a 20 year old who didn't seem cut out for this field)

I don't regret starting at 18 because it allowed me to gain a lot of independence and experience quickly. But I absolutely regret SAYING that I was 18. The clientele for teens is often predatory, I experienced a lot of fucked up shit my first 2 years as an escort, and far too many clients were too obvious about secretly hoping I was actually a minor posing as an 18 year old.

 

[mtlspacial]

We're not missing out on genuine relationships because we are getting paid for a service or an experience we are offering, and being an escort requires a lot more than beauty.

I'm not dating rich men or trying to find men to give me money in my personal life. Being an escort is a job. It's not your whole life.
I hope people understand that there is a difference between what I do for work and how

I approach relationships in my personal life.
I'm not going to find a relationship by posting escort ads on Merb lol this isn't where I want to find my person, and if anyone is mad about that they should reconsider why they're hiring escorts in the first place

Hi Luna

I said some people miss out. It didn't mean all do. I apologized if I didn't word it properly.

What you say is 100% accurate. Merb is the last place to go for a relationship. LOL.

But, to work on what you said, some girls do only date rich men, and will never had any other type of relationship. That was kinda my point. Hopefully it makes sense.

Cheers

 

[mtlspacial]

Not all women think that way even if it may be true.
My wife was totally gorgeous and turned heads all the time but she never thought of herself that way,
She certainly didn’t marry me for my money as I didn’t have any.

We built a life together and a decent life style which unfortunately she didn’t even have a full year to enjoy after retiring.
Not all men only want a gorgeous woman for one thing and believe it or not most gorgeous women have the same dreams and hope as the rest and actually when things fall apart a man can get tired of a gorgeous woman just as easily.

Hi Fradi,

I didn't want this to come out as a generalization, but I guess I failed here. Maybe I'm discussing this on the wrong board LOL.

I had the same experience as well. I got to date some very beautiful women in my life. Never been rich. Beauty sure was exciting at the the beginning, but you need friendship, connection, intimacy and goals to make it last. I don't know who came up with the quote show me a beautiful girl and I'll show you a man who's tired of being with her. That's kind of what you said.

Frankly, I will like gorgeous just as much as the next man, but brains and confidence is way more attractive.

 

[LC18]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them. Same as rich men that women only date for their money (while some genuinely would prefer to be non transactional relationship).

I was having drinks with a cousin of mine years ago. She was really beautiful. She told me she couldn't take it anymore because men only wanted to fuck her.

I don't blame anyone for choosing to take advantage of what they have for money. I really don't. But, I feel some people miss out on genuine relationships.

I wasn’t pretty when I was younger, I was just young. That was the main attraction


Now, I can tell that I’m pretty by the way people act around me and talk to me. I am happy I can use my pretty privilege to fuck any man I want, to get an apartment even if I don’t meet all criteria, to get discounts and perks

Yes people want to fuck me but some actually realize that they like me and seek a deeper connection

 

[Vardhan945]

I don't regret starting at 18 because it allowed me to gain a lot of independence and experience quickly. But I absolutely regret SAYING that I was 18. The clientele for teens is often predatory, I experienced a lot of fucked up shit my first 2 years as an escort, and far too many clients were too obvious about secretly hoping I was actually a minor posing as an 18 year old.

I just cant wrap my head around an 18 year old not being scared about meeting strange men and having the balls(pardon the expression) to do it, especially as an independant.

Perhaps Mtl is just a lot safer than where im from.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hi Luna

I said some people miss out. It didn't mean all do. I apologized if I didn't word it properly.

What you say is 100% accurate. Merb is the last place to go for a relationship. LOL.

But, to work on what you said, some girls do only date rich men, and will never had any other type of relationship. That was kinda my point. Hopefully it makes sense.

Cheers

Yes, some women only date rich men, but how many women have you met who have told you that, in your personal life? I mostly see that on TV. Maybe we are just part of different social classes and meet different people.. but from my perspective rich men are not that common. It's also a cliche that a beautiful woman can just get whatever she wants. I think I'm not bad looking, and I don't get any free passes in life.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Correct me if my thinking is wrong, but I always had the perspective that being a beautiful woman can be a curse, in the sense that most men only want you for your sexual value to them.

I have a feeling that these beautiful women are not being approached by men much (in real life, not online) given the state of modern men and of the modern world. Speaking for Millenials and Gen-Z.

 

[Julia Sky]

I just cant wrap my head around an 18 year old not being scared about meeting strange men and having the balls(pardon the expression) to do it, especially as an independant.

Perhaps Mtl is just a lot safer than where im from.

I'm more scared of homelessness than I am of any man lol. But also I've always been the careless type when it comes to meeting people, I've always had the mentality that if something happens I'll deal with it when it happens.

I'm also somewhat insane and hope that whoever really wants to actually harm me is brave and strong. Lmaooo

 

[mtlspacial]

I have a feeling that these beautiful women are not being approached by men much (in real life, not online) given the state of modern men and of the modern world. Speaking for Millenials and Gen-Z.

Good chance, it's always hard to approach a woman. It's probably harder for a woman to get approached of she's out of the league of most men.

But sometimes our view is so tainted by social media. You see these beautiful women saying quote I want a man in finance, 6'5, blond eyes, blue eyes unquote on tik tok. Some guys don't want the trouble.

I went out with a girl out of my league once. I loved her.Lots of common interests, we met at university. I had her hired where I was working as she needed a job. But it was others men's behaviors that I didn't enjoy when I dated her. Other men had no problem proposing to her even though they knew she was dating me. Some manager wanted to introduce their sons to her. I'm not the jealous type, but I was feeling they didn't respect our relationship as a couple. On top of that, some of them were friends.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

But it was others men's behaviors that I didn't enjoy when I dated her. Other men had no problem proposing to her even though they knew she was dating me. Some manager wanted to introduce their sons to her. I'm not the jealous type, but I was feeling they didn't respect our relationship as a couple. On top of that, some of them were friends.

Bingo. For men, generally speaking, it's not advantageous to partner with a women too high above your own "mate value" (i.e. "out of your league"), exactly for the reasons that your experience reveals.

 

[LC18]

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

 

[mtlspacial]

That's

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

Hi Lena, that's a very good question.

I have been with my partner for close to 20 years. Gradually she complete lost interest in sex and told me multiple times I could see someone else. I won't pressure her into sex if she lost the interest in it. But you can be certain if she decides to be active again, I won't want to cheat.

Now, why I go to escorts? I'm not going to entertain a relationship with a side chick unless I meet someone who will 100% accept that's the only relationship I could give her.

 

[LC18]

I'm not going to entertain a relationship with a side chick unless I meet someone who will 100% accept that's the only relationship I could give her.

A lot easier that’s for sure

 

[gordon87]

What name do you ladies want to be called:escorts,providers,working girls,etc.?

 

[Sean007]

[Partnered people]

Why do you cheat?

Similar for me. I’ve been with my partner close to 25 years and there is no sex in our relationship for at least 10 years. I used to be very intense in porn to fulfill my needs but at some point I wanted intimate human contact. So went to massage parlor and then a masseuse told me about Indy companion. So I started seeing companions from Indy companion as well. I’m still with my wife and I love her but I see professionals for intimacy!! And I would not see a non professional for fear of complications….

 

[Enjoying life]

What name do you ladies want to be called:escorts,providers,working girls,etc.?

It’s way better and more comfortable with a regular SP than too chase and waste your time! I don’t have to drive anywhere!

 

[Enjoying life]

Similar for me. I’ve been with my partner close to 25 years and there is no sex in our relationship for at least 10 years. I used to be very intense in porn to fulfill my needs but at some point I wanted intimate human contact. So went to massage parlor and then a masseuse told me about Indy companion. So I started seeing companions from Indy companion as well. I’m still with my wife and I love her but I see professionals for intimacy!! And I would not see a non professional for fear of complications….

It’s just better sex with a sp period!