How Can an Escort Tell your Ethnicity?

[overfiend]

So I posted a while back in 2024 when Euphoria started posting what Ethnicities their girls do not prefer, which is still beyond me to this day, but my other question is this...how do they know what your ethnicity is. I get if you are black....but if you are a metis..is that a may be ? What about Arabs or some Hispanics having the same color as Indians. I mean some Sikhs are pretty white and are Indians ...so its all good for them . How do they go about it ? Show up and ask you ? Do you have to show proof? They do the inquisition before the act Also i get Our black brothers for the most are well endowed so that can cause some problems, but what is the issue with Indians?

 

[Halloween Mike]

When it comes to "black" i assume anything that is starting to look "darker" than a regular white person may be prohibited? There is so much levels of "being black". Remember that guy from Harold and Kumar 2 when Kumar says he is a racist or something cause he single him for checkup at the airport, then the guy says "dude im black", wich Kumar reply "you barely brown" lol. Wonder if he pass or not

As for Indians i assume anything that look remotely like a "typical Indian" would be prohibited. For instance said Kumar in the movie ... Usually Latinos do not look anything like Indians even if their skin can also be brownish. For Arabs tough it can be more tricky.

Personally here is how i see it. These "guidelines" in their profiles are mostly there to be a warning. Basically lets say you are slightly brown because your father was a metis/had a brown parent, but you don't really see yourself as "black" per say. Well its up to you if you want to take the risk of booking someone that has a "no blacks rule". Maybe it won't be an issue, maybe she will refuse you. But you would be "safer" going with someone that accept black gentlemens. I guess same for the ones with the "Indians rule". If you look a bit "foreign" be it Arab, Pakistani or whatever, you taking a chance. I doubt any SP will ask for your official papers that says your nationality...

Then i supose there is always the "putting every chances on your side". I mean if you look like Jagmeet Singh (wear the same thing he does, big beard etc) you lessen your chances vs someone that would be clean cut ...

Anyway ... I know its easy to say for me as i am a typical white french canadian, so it does not affect me, but i personally enjoy the "extra stats" Euphoria has on their website. Like the extras. You know you got better chances for cim if its on their profile. Yes the "at her discretion" apply (and i was refused cim by one Euphoria girl wich has it in her profile) but if its plain "no" i know my chances are smaller. That does not mean she never do it (i also saw this happen in the pass where an SP prefer not advertising it but will do it) but you get what i mean.

I assume they also put the ethnicity part in the same "mentality".

 

[envelopes]

Why are we pretending we don't know the reason

 

[LC18]

I know some born and bred Quebecois that are very dark, dark hair and eyes too. Must suck for them to be refused at the doo

Not that it doesn’t suck of other people as well but I mean it’s…

 

[Michelle Gunn]

It probably has to do with the name you give them, and if you've read their page/profile you'll know you're dealing with a racist.
Since no one wants to be turned away at the door... so whether or not you fit nicely into a "category", most people will self select the fuck away from a racist.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Indians are victim of this kind of ignorance. There are many people from other countries like Trinidad, Guyana, Mauritius, but I find the people here in Quebec especially assume you are Indian. Not the same at all besides the skin color. They got very different values and even different names. Trinidadians have English first names. In Toronto this was less of an issue since there are already so many people from the Caribbean there. From what I can see, these broad bans are based on your appearance. I seen Mexicans look like Indians, and I seen some Arabs that look like Indians. Seems really silly.

 

[terrybogard88]

Indians are victim of this kind of ignorance. There are many people from other countries like Trinidad, Guyana, Mauritius, but I find the people here in Quebec especially assume you are Indian. Not the same at all besides the skin color. They got very different values and even different names. Trinidadians have English first names. In Toronto this was less of an issue since there are already so many people from the Caribbean there. From what I can see, these broad bans are based on your appearance. I seen Mexicans look like Indians, and I seen some Arabs that look like Indians. Seems really silly.

It s nice from you to share that perspective. Everything reside in one sentence comrade: travelling makes people rich. Rich in the mind and rich in the knowledge. The knowledge of the differences and cultures. It enlarges perceptions.

 

[overfiend]

SAD though...what this boils down to in 2025...we go around all loud saying " We are beyond Racism" yet one look at "Euphoria" you feel that you are being judged by "the cover" rather than "the content"

 

[LeDodo]

It s nice from you to share that perspective. Everything reside in one sentence comrade: travelling makes people rich. Rich in the mind and rich in the knowledge. The knowledge of the differences and cultures. It enlarges perceptions.

I'm lucky to be rich in that perspective. But I had a hard time doing immigration paperwork in Canada and felt like it was such a burden ...

 

[Wildstar]

It's interesting, several MTL agencies (though not Euphoria) have asked me about my age/ethnicity, presumably to screen on behalf of girls who have publicly undisclosed restrictions in those areas. I guess it's up to the girl at the end of the day to refuse service at the door for perceived racial reasons (though I imagine it could get very awkward...like the Family Guy meme of holding up a skin tone card)

 

[jmioffe]

how do they know what your ethnicity is.

I understand why places have those notes. Certain behaviors are more common with certain groups than others. It's not a genetic test. It's not about blood. It's more about likelihood of certain behaviors among some populations.

How do they go about it ? Show up and ask you ? Do you have to show proof? They do the inquisition before the act Also i get Our black brothers for the most are well endowed so that can cause some problems, but what is the issue with Indians?

If you really are Indian and fool them into thinking you're Hispanic, they won't be mad. If you are Hispanic and you act like the kind of Indian they're trying to avoid, they won't like that.

If you really are black and fool them into thinking you're Metis, they won't be mad. If you're Metis and you act like the kind of Black they're trying to avoid, they won't like that.

If you lie on the phone and don't appear to be who you say you are when you show up in person though — that already creates an atmosphere of distrust that they were trying to avoid by excluding you.

The reasons sex workers have told me they try to avoid those groups are:

* not the penis size. Often these clients not even interested in sex. it's the pimp mentality. The girls don't want to be bullied or threatened into being part of some wannabe Iceberg Slim's stable.

* not really hygiene issues, though it does come up. The truth is these girls deal with that with all races. The main issue I've heard is a marketplace/bargaining mentality (like booking an hour and showing up with 3 others to argue that each should pay 1/4 of the hourly fee); shortchanging the payment or stealing it back when they think they won't get caught.

I've also heard complaints about clients so sexually inexperienced they expect a sex nanny (more work than just being an escort) or beset with some kind of madonna/whore complex, completely mistreating sex workers as lesser (and using that as rationale to steal from or shortchange them.)

I'm not a sex worker though, so take that all with a grain of salt. it's just what I've been told from the many I know.

I recount it because I think it's unfair to paint these preferences as a sort of racism from the girls or the agencies, when they're just practices, based on lived experience, designed to preserve their livelihoods.

 

[Sasha_]

When I open my mouth and start talking!

 

[Fradi]

Yeah it sucks to be excluded because of colour, ethnicity or age but in the end would you really want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.
Better to know up front and the good thing is that there are many gorgeous young women who will accept you so no need to waste your time with the ones that won’t.

 

[overfiend]

Yeah it sucks to be excluded because of colour, ethnicity or age but in the end would you really want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.
Better to know up front and the good thing is that there are many gorgeous young women who will accept you so no need to waste your time with the ones that won’t.

You are making it sound so poetic...why be with someone who doesn't.....She is a floozy dude. I am not asking her to marry me...i am here to bonk her. And forgive the saying" the more forbidden the fruit, the more you want it"...yet when a call girl gets all choosy it kind of make me see some irony...she is selling her body which means cash is the goal, and body is the product. I mean if she valued her body, she would not be a prostitute right??? So why now is she touchy about race and color ?

 

[LeDodo]

You are making it sound so poetic...why be with someone who doesn't.....She is a floozy dude. I am not asking her to marry me...i am here to bonk her. And forgive the saying" the more forbidden the fruit, the more you want it"...yet when a call girl gets all choosy it kind of make me see some irony...she is selling her body which means cash is the goal, and body is the product. I mean if she valued her body, she would not be a prostitute right??? So why now is she touchy about race and color ?

Maybe for those reasons:

The reasons sex workers have told me they try to avoid those groups are:

* not the penis size. Often these clients not even interested in sex. it's the pimp mentality. The girls don't want to be bullied or threatened into being part of some wannabe Iceberg Slim's stable.

* not really hygiene issues, though it does come up. The truth is these girls deal with that with all races. The main issue I've heard is a marketplace/bargaining mentality (like booking an hour and showing up with 3 others to argue that each should pay 1/4 of the hourly fee); shortchanging the payment or stealing it back when they think they won't get caught.

I've also heard complaints about clients so sexually inexperienced they expect a sex nanny (more work than just being an escort) or beset with some kind of madonna/whore complex, completely mistreating sex workers as lesser (and using that as rationale to steal from or shortchange them.)

I'm not a sex worker though, so take that all with a grain of salt. it's just what I've been told from the many I know.

I recount it because I think it's unfair to paint these preferences as a sort of racism from the girls or the agencies, when they're just practices, based on lived experience, designed to preserve their livelihoods.

 

[HDarrow0]

It probably has to do with the name you give them, and if you've read their page/profile you'll know you're dealing with a racist.
Since no one wants to be turned away at the door... so whether or not you fit nicely into a "category", most people will self select the fuck away from a racist.

I suppose all women are racists then given that most exhibit extreme racial preferences when it comes to dating and mate selection