BFE isn't like GFE though, it's very specific. It means he will be on call to come fix a flat tire but he will also be up late playing video games in the same room at full volume while you try to sleep.
Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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That could be me lol
Or help with any technology related issues ...
But as a random thoughts I did think about testing the waters of companionship or boyfriend for hire. I've a background in technology and I grew up helping everyone. Somehow I tend to have mainly female friends to discuss and listen about anything and I really like to curate and plan experiences. I actually enjoy seeing people happy instead of me enjoying it myself.
I think in North America women don't tend to hire male companions unfortunately. I know they exist, but there are very few male escorts who only cater to women.. I think there are cultural reasons associated with it but I'm not really sure what they are and how I could explain this.
Most of the male escorts I've heard of and known serviced only or mostly men. I have a friend in the US who has been an escort for over 20 years, he's in his 40's now. His experiences with men are very similar to ours.. He's had been paid by the hour and for 15 minute and 30 minute sessions, but he's also had dinner dates and sugar daddies who furnished his apartment and bought him a car. He's been paid for companionship but he's also catered to men's foot fetishes, golden showers and all kinds of things like that. This person sounds privileged but he's far from it, he grew up really poor and was basically homeless when he started ..
Most of the male escorts I've heard of and known serviced only or mostly men. I have a friend in the US who has been an escort for over 20 years, he's in his 40's now. His experiences with men are very similar to ours.. He's had been paid by the hour and for 15 minute and 30 minute sessions, but he's also had dinner dates and sugar daddies who furnished his apartment and bought him a car. He's been paid for companionship but he's also catered to men's foot fetishes, golden showers and all kinds of things like that. This person sounds privileged but he's far from it, he grew up really poor and was basically homeless when he started ..
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In Japan companionship is very common, combined with a patriarchal culture and marriage rate at the lowest, it's not surprising to see women paying for such services. No intimacy involved but really a male that is opened to discussing and comforting when needed.
I need to move back to Asia lol
Yeah, I saw several documentaries about male companionship in Japan being very popular. One thing I found unsurprising was that female sex workers were some of the most common clients of these male escorts (or ''hosts'' which is a more ambiguous term) I wonder if the reason why it's so common there is probably that culturally there seems to be an obsession with ''romance'' in media for young women, yet relationships seem different.. From what I was reading recently, there is still a problem of teenage girls being commodified and objectified (kinda like here but overtly..) and I can see how these girls grow up to be women who want an experience they missed out on because they were pushed into a role they didn't agree to having. I saw a documentary from 10 years ago about cafes where adult men go and talk to middle & high school girls in school uniforms about various things including sex are really popular, and some of these teenage girls end up actually having sex with these men, and the police doesn't do much about it. It's sad
Romance is cultural anchored in Asia. You can see it in the entertainment like music or TV everything is almost revolving around that subject (at some point I was quite sick to always listening to songs about love lool). But the irony is that those media convey these fantasies whereas reality is different. Maybe that's where the market is: evocating situations or stories about love and romance where the reality does not offer it and they can dwell into it.
That's also why at some point (especially for K-pop) the singers are forbidden contractually to have any sort of relationship with someone because it will break the fans' fantasy. Obviously it will sell less and the fan base will decrease.
For female sex workers being clients of male escort/host it's not surprising. There is a serie of movie from Hong Kong on this topic. It's made as a comedy but the message behind is sad actually. There were 3 movies the first one being Golden chicken
As for the movie name, in Chinese a "chicken" refers to a female SW as a slang and "duck" for male SW.
The mid-high school girl phenomenon is another issue. It's cultural and for me it's associated to sexual aggression. Better not discuss about it here ...
Works for me. I've had the pleasure of sharing a lady with another gentleman before and would do so again. Just don't pick anyone sensitive who would react strongly to my giant throbbing phallus of the almost reptilian length of my wide, sinuous tongue. When I'm with 2 ladies it's all admiring gasps and then blushing anticipatory giggles, but when it's with another guy sometimes they get self-conscious and I want everyone to be comfortable. Just let me know when!Oh you're giving me an idea! It happens quite often that men ask me for a male duo partner they can explore bisexual fantasies with.I was struggling to find someone as male escorts aren't easy to find! Wow, how lucky I am!
Thank you for the movie suggestion! I didn't know that was common in Hong Kong. I've head of female providers here hiring other sex workers, but mostly women. I've considered booking a SP myself, probably a milf, for social time or a more cuddle oriented session lol. (you can all call me a simp now) the problem is that we all kinda know each other in the industry, so it's a bit weird.. When I first started as Luna, one of my first clients was another SP who is younger than I am and asked for a cuddle session. I was really surprised.
I guess romance in media vs in reality is everywhere but in some cultures things are still more traditional, I guess some people feel rushed to married for children and reasons of convenience, which isn't the case here as much.. It's kinda like how a lot of house wives prior to the 90's were really into soap operas and harlequin novels, to escape their monotonous lives...
I am moving towards a no duos thing. Those will soon be the last few weeks before I stop offering them and ultimately fade away and retire
I guess this is an enticing offer, people only have a couple weeks left to make their fantasy of having a duo with you and another provider..
I'm not planning on retiring anytime soon, so I like to get to know potential duo partners all the time!
It's actually very common in Hong Kong and the choice is actually scarier (by the number). Now that I think about it, here I find interesting that the escort industry is very different from over there. In Hong Kong due to a law loophole it is allowed to have a one-woman brothel because a SW can work on their own. But there SWs are like "commodities" because of the huge number and the low entry price (we are talking about less than 50-60$).
Thinking about it I find it extremely creepy and less glamorous below a picture of how it looks from the building corridor:
That's maybe why I never had an inch of interest to partake in this even out of curiosity.
Yes I'm Asia the whole concept of getting married, having children is heavy. I know Chinese girls who wanted at any cost to get married before the dreadful 35-40 y.o. some of my classmates found their "soulmates" thank to this (and also thanks to idolization of male westerners...) . My quick rant on South Korea, most of the Korean TV series are around love stories and it disgruntled and bother me when as a guestimate South Korea has the most domestic violence in Asia. The way they work the soft power versus the reality disgust me.
I got lost on my train of thinking... Let me come back to enjoying the summer lol
I think there are probably different ranges of escorts even there, but I have no idea.. This is all really interestingIt's actually very common in Hong Kong and the choice is actually scarier (by the number). Now that I think about it, here I find interesting that the escort industry is very different from over there. In Hong Kong due to a law loophole it is allowed to have a one-woman brothel because a SW can work on their own. But there SWs are like "commodities" because of the huge number and the low entry price (we are talking about less than 50-60$).
Thinking about it I find it extremely creepy and less glamorous below a picture of how it looks from the building corridor:
That's maybe why I never had an inch of interest to partake in this even out of curiosity.
Yes I'm Asia the whole concept of getting married, having children is heavy. I know Chinese girls who wanted at any cost to get married before the dreadful 35-40 y.o. some of my classmates found their "soulmates" thank to this (and also thanks to idolization of male westerners...) . My quick rant on South Korea, most of the Korean TV series are around love stories and it disgruntled and bother me when as a guestimate South Korea has the most domestic violence in Asia. The way they work the soft power versus the reality disgust me.
I got lost on my train of thinking... Let me come back to enjoying the summer lol
never enough nudes
If you asked me this 3 years ago, I would have said 1 was too many. I avoided taking any nudes before becomeing an SP. Most risqué photo I took was a side view of short short panties to show the shape of my ass.
Now, according to Master there could never be enough, but I still shy away from completely nude unless he requests it, but I don't feel comfortable with sharing them. Where I have, what I have, he was given the ok to share it, but was also the first time in 20 years that much of me was exposed. The day we became official and he collared me. I think I might actually have just 1 that I have shared confidently.
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sort of a had a minor showdown with my boss today at the cafe I work at and I think I'm going to quit
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