Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2
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I was there before, might come backIt's always hard to come back
Been there, stayed for 13 months, then came back, couldnt stand the open racism constantly in your face. Spent most of my time in France but also in Spain and Portugal.
Yeah. Whenever I travel I find it really hard to come back, particularly in the winterIt's always hard to come back
It's Pamela Anderson's birthday today. I've always loved her and particularly lately I find her very beautiful naturally. I saw a post about her on instagram and all these people are insulting her, calling her old, saying she should wear makeup etc. It's really unfortunate how mean some people can be...
I saw a post about her on instagram and all these people are insulting her, calling her old, saying she should wear makeup etc. It's really unfortunate how mean some people can be...
When someone books a provider and nothing sexual ends up happening because there was a lot of lively conversations and fun, it's really unfair no matter how high the rates were to say that the SP scammed the client. Sometimes it's up to the client to make the first move.
Consent is important to everyone in this industry, and it can happen that clients are shy and not ready to go to the bedroom the first meeting, so don't assume that the provider maliciously continued talking to avoid doing anything else. I understand it's disappointing but if you didn't initiate anything, and then you write a negative review about the provider, insulting her looks on top of it as revenge, it's not really a good look for you.
Consent is important to everyone in this industry, and it can happen that clients are shy and not ready to go to the bedroom the first meeting, so don't assume that the provider maliciously continued talking to avoid doing anything else. I understand it's disappointing but if you didn't initiate anything, and then you write a negative review about the provider, insulting her looks on top of it as revenge, it's not really a good look for you.
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It’s normal for the guy to initiate as I always do after some meaningful conversations of course!
I don't think it's necessarily the told of the guy to initiate but for some of us it can definitely help, in a gentle way of course.
My comment is relating to something I read elsewhere on the forum and no recent experience of mine.
But it's happened that a client ended up not being ready for anything sexual during the session and just made another booking. Once a client offered wine at his hotel room, he got more drunk than I did and couldn't perform. I felt very guilty after and afraid that he'd write a bad review but he didn't .. I thought about it later and these things can happen.
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Thank you beautiful Luna!
I love making company comfortableI don't think it's necessarily the told of the guy to initiate but for some of us it can definitely help, in a gentle way of course.
My comment is relating to something I read elsewhere on the forum and no recent experience of mine.
But it's happened that a client ended up not being ready for anything sexual during the session and just made another booking.
The man is too shy to make a move or say something so instead he’s just gonna go back home and complain about it online
In my opinion it's on him and the provider doesn't deserve a bad review that harms her reputation
But to know this, one has to ask and not assume.
If I see the guy doesn't initiate, then I will eventually ask if he's ready for the shower. It doesn't have to be a physical contact to initiate. If the guy is not ready to be sexually active in his session, he can still take his shower, then the session will unfold with or without sex. I think of those times where I am not sure I can kiss the client since they don't approach me (which is rare). I don't just not do it, I ask if I can. Sometimes they are just shy — some people need us to break the ice.
My job is to understand who you are and what you want, I won't just wait for you to tell me everything, I will go get the answer I need.
That's what I usually do personally as well. I either ask if he's ready to shower or make a gentle gesture and ask if he wants to move to the bedroom. I also feel like it's my job to break the ice.
But I can see how during a booking time would pass really fast and the provider just didn't initiate. It doesn't mean she's a scammer and deserves a bad review. The review could have mentioned what happened without insulting her looks, as well..
It’s a clients responsibility to prepare his self especially with conversation making an sp feel comfortable like I always have something to give her as that certainly breaks the ice then great conversation afterwards!That's what I usually do personally as well. I either ask if he's ready to shower or make a gentle gesture and ask if he wants to move to the bedroom. I also feel like it's my job to break the ice.
But I can see how during a booking time would pass really fast and the provider just didn't initiate. It doesn't mean she's a scammer and deserves a bad review. The review could have mentioned what happened without insulting her looks, as well..
This.
It is up to you to find out if he is there just to chat or to make him comfortable, if he wants intimacy also.
You are the one who has the experience and has done this hundreds of times. This is what you advertise that you are there to make him feel at ease with you.
If all he wants to do is chat and have someone listen great job done.
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