You don’t need money to be memorable

[Fradi]

Great vibes! I noticed that as well! I stay far clear from the dating scene as this is way better!

Actually no it is not if you want to be real.
There is no SP on earth that can compare to a loving relationship where you share your life your dreams your love with someone you have a family, children, grandchildren and a lifetime of memories with
Even seeing the best escort on the planet is just a fulfilled fantasy and while it maybe sexually satisfying it just that not something that is real or freely given out of love but something transactional that is bought and payed for.

Nobody will ever convince me that it even comes close, I have lived both and there is no comparison.

 

[Enjoying life]

Actually no it is not if you want to be real.
There is no SP on earth that can compare to a loving relationship where you share your life your dreams your love with someone you have a family, children, grandchildren and a lifetime of memories with
Even seeing the best escort on the planet is just a fulfilled fantasy and while it maybe sexually satisfying it just that not something that is real or freely given out of love but something transactional that is bought and payed for.

Nobody will ever convince me that it even comes close, I have lived both and there is no comparison.

I understand but the dating scene today is an interview to see what you have nothing with love I find

 

[Enjoying life]

I understand but the dating scene today is an interview to see what you have nothing with love I find

There are tons of marriages that are transactional today

 

[Fradi]

I understand but the dating scene today is an interview to see what you have nothing with love I find

The shots on goal that you never took could have made you a star.
Life is all about putting yourself out there and making your own luck, the rest are just excuses.

 

[Fradi]

There are tons of marriages that are transactional today

Yes and there are tons of investments that will make you bankrupt. Pick the one that will make you rich. You and you alone determine your luck nd destiny.

 

[Enjoying life]

The shots on goal that you never took could have made you a star.
Life is all about putting yourself out there and making your own luck, the rest are just excuses.

Making sure no one gets tide to your money then be taken to court!

 

[Enjoying life]

Yes and there are tons of investments that will make you bankrupt. Pick the one that will make you rich. You and you alone determine your luck nd destiny.

Well, we are still on here so it must be pretty satisfying! lol

 

[Fradi]

Making sure no one gets tide to your money then be taken to court!

Excuses, excuses lol these are the words of someone who is scared to take a chance on life but believes in blaming things on everything else.
Life is all about taking chances and picking yourself up when you fail. Anyway I think I have already maybe said too much you do what works for you.

 

[Enjoying life]

Excuses, excuses lol these are the words of someone who is scared to take a chance on life but believes in blaming things on everything else.
Life is all about taking chances and picking yourself up when you fail. Anyway I think I have already maybe said too much you do what works for you.

I went to the other side of the world for love as I know what it’s like you just get tired of things after while! Either way it still costs money!

 

[Rebaynia]

I've mentioned before, one of my favorites, whether he has climaxed or not, by about 30 minutes in will call for a break, and we have coffee time. He loves the social time together as much as the intimacy.

Then there's I like giving massages, I think I have recieved 3, not an issue, I don't ask for them, but when a client while holding eachother felt how tense my shoulders were, and volunteered. I was so needing it.

I have another, who as his son was getting older and he needed to cut down on the amout of toys at home, gave me armloads of action figures for my youngest. Almost every time I went to see him I left with trying to balance too much in my arms.

I've also had artwork that was made for me after visits. It was touching to be seen in such a beautiful way.

And most recently. A client who has given me the opportunity to make online content with him... and is excited to help start promoting me as soon as I can get a platform up and running.

There is another who reminded me of home dates I used to have with my ex when we would make datenight stay in, just by having fruit, cheese, crackers, and wine that we got to enjoy on the balcony, good company.

Another took me to the building pool for some of our time, was fun cuddleing and hanging onto him in the water as we kissed and were in a private but still more public setting.

it doesn't take much to make a visit memorable. It just takes meeting more than just the bed.

The best part is this comes from them, not asked, not requested, not demanded, they just want these extra aspects to be part of our time together, and I am so for it.

 

[Rebaynia]

I would think most clients would treat their providers with basic human decency, but the fact that this thread was created tells me that that's not the norm?

I refuse something like 5/10 new propositions because all the person on the other end of the communication wants is a living sex doll, not an encounter with a human.

Often another 4 didn't read outcall only, and are asking for incall.

Maybe when I'm lucky 1/10 new contacts wants an encounter with an actual person.

If they want a living sex doll, there are many providers out there, they don't need to be seeing me. I feel like crap after encounters like that, so I stay away from them. For me that's what agency service felt like back in the day and I left it behind pretty quick for a reason. I like that I get to adore and look forward to seeing the people I get to frequent.

 

[LC18]

On the flip side, while we get a lot of threads about proper etiquette, behaviour, payment practices and such there's very little going the other way saying what makes for a good provider experience from the guys point of view

Nothing is stopping you from creating a thread and sharing what you think could improve your dates. I see that often and I always wonder if you’re just scared or lazy. It takes 4 mins to create and type something. This is originally your space so you can create as many threads as you want but guys here prefer creating 20 threads on the rates increasing

P.S: It’s not about you, the “you” and “you’re” were used in their general form

 

[LC18]

LC: seems to me a bit of a double standard you have concerning clients and providers. In a previous thread you mentioned not wanting to give anything away for free to clients but in your example above, you find it charming that a professional gave away his "services" (accounting knowledge) for free to a provider. Hmmmmm

Anyway: I maintain that we should all just act like nice people with each other. Be kind and generous and the people around you will likely act the same.
take care

Tor

I can find that charming and not want this for myself. I have never asked anyone to repair something at my place free of charge. If they offer to do it that’s another thing.

Just like if someone hit my head very hard and I decide to offer my time for free, that would be my choice. Or the concussion’s choice in that case…

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Oh once I arrived a bit early close to the incall. It was quite hot on that day and I took the time to buy some drinks in the supermarket nearby to quench the thirst before and after lol

I deleted my comment, I wanted to rewrite it but I forgot. I was mostly talking about outcall, ben even incall—bringing something is toughful!

 

[LeDodo]

I deleted my comment, I wanted to rewrite it but I forgot. I was mostly talking about outcall, ben even incall—bringing something is toughful!

On that occasion bought some Dubai chocolate (before the salmonella outbreak lol) and toys for her pet.
The latter was thought in advance whereas the former was spontaneous and I thought it would be a nice snack (before and/or after) the fun

 

[urquell]

Nothing is stopping you from creating a thread and sharing what you think could improve your dates. I see that often and I always wonder if you’re just scared or lazy. It takes 4 mins to create and type something. This is originally your space so you can create as many threads as you want but guys here prefer creating 20 threads on the rates increasing

P.S: It’s not about you, the “you” and “you’re” were used in their general form

It's been a while since the "what are you? chicken?" thing has had much of an effect on me, but I thought it was funny anyway. lol. I understand that you weren't writing about me specifically, and thanks for clarifying that. I can see from your comment that what I said came across more antagonistically than intended. In the OP you had asked for stuff from both the SP and client perspective as far as making interactions better and I thought this was meant to be an inclusive thread covering both points of view. I went back and re-read it and I can see now that it can also be interpreted as getting both client and SP perspective on how to make client interactions better for the SPs. Inferring from your response I'm gathering it was the latter, and that you're probably right and a separate thread should be opened on how to make interactions better for clients as opposed to SPs. I apologize for hijacking the direction of your thread and will open a new one later when I have a bit more time to cover client issues.

 

[Enjoying life]

The shots on goal that you never took could have made you a star.
Life is all about putting yourself out there and making your own luck, the rest are just excuses.

Im only one person as i cannot meet everyone and met tons! Glad you found an amazing woman and sorry for your loss!

 

[luxurystacy]

This isn't going to anything even close to what you're looking for, but I've had several girls tell me that they like clients who are absolutely drunk off their ass (in a hotel ground zero environment) because they can go up to the room and usually either the guy immediately passes out when he gets on the bed or figures out very quickly that he can't perform and sends the girl off so she can go right back downstairs and pull another client without having to do much of anything.

Now, I can totally see why drunk clients would be total nightmares, but these ladies in the ground zero hotels absolutely swear by them. Go figure.

I dont want to meet a client who's drunk when I arrive. I have some clients who party, but we start partying together in the same time.
I had one client one time that booked me for 5 hours; he was already a bit tipsy when I arrive (no big deal). We started chatting and drinking together.
After 2 hours, we go in his spa and at this point he was drunk! He started drowning!! I had to pick him up and keep his head above water.
After that we went inside and I started giving him a BJ. He fell asleep while me doing that lol. You think that I could just relax, look at my phone etc...Yeah but no, because who knows what he's gonna tell me after he wake up : ex: I was asleep so it didn't count, you should have wake me up, forget to give me money etc. I didnt feel safe either. I decide to wake him up, ask for the money for the time I was here and I left early.
Ive had some fun long hours appointments with clients and we got drunk together (but only with clients that Ive met before).
But in this case, it was a first time meeting. Not a good first impression lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Wow, some people seem to really think we think a good client is a passed out drunk one because we ''won't have to work''... It's interesting because in over 3 years of being SP, it only happened twice that a client was too drunk to perform, and I actually felt really guilty. One of those times I arrived at the hotel and the client was already drinking, I did stay with him the whole time because he wasn't feeling well. I'm not really sure why SP would volunteer the information to a client that they love hopping from blacked out client to blacked out client at night unless she was trying to mess with him, because it sounds extremely unsafe to do this.

I've done night shifts at MP before, sure some clients were drunk or high but they were more aggressive actually. Often the condom ''fell out''. I don't often get inquiries from clients who seem to be super drunk and often these people aren't coherent and seem volatile.

I think the point of this thread is that if you are a client who is kind with the provider and generous without using money or gifts, we are not talking about fixing the entire person's home, you are more likely to develop a better connection with this provider. She is more likely to give you extra time and to talk to you in between bookings. From what I understand the goal of this thread was that we don't want a ton of money and gift thrown at us necessarily and we may actually remember the guy who was kind and understanding during a rough moment and maybe shared something that could help us a lot more than the one who brought a giant bouquet of flowers and a huge tip but was an asshole.

 

[LeDodo]

Shouldn't it be a question for SP? How memorable an attention as you mentioned is what you might feel at that moment as a little gesture or question but was considered as something huge/big. Except if at that moment the SP shared how it was touching/nice. Without any feedback we will never know.

Like at work I do things "naturally" or not consciously but the "good" things I'm doing are picked up, shared and praised by my peers.

That's why I want to see SPs feedback on that as as client we might not know why at that time it mattered