What’s your opening line

[Flyingby]

Hey guys
Just had a great conversation with a merbite friend about how to make an SP feel at ease quickly.
What is your opening line to make an sp feel comfortable on the first meeting? I am not looking at gift ideas or anything of the sort. Just to ease the stress that we both feel. With indy’s it’s easier because you speak through text messages.
Thanks all for your advice

 

[MaxxxEdge]

Hello......

 

[Flyingby]

Hello......

Haha. Shit. That’s where i fucked up then. I always start with salut, maybe it comes out wrong

 

[jalimon]

When I get out of the shower I usually put on a smile, look at her in the eyes and say "You are ok with me I do not scare you in any way?"

Which depending on the situation will be followed by:
"ok to big bang boum" if I see an absolute positive response in her eyes, or "I am going to like you" if the response seems all right or "Ho by the way you DFK only if you wish to" if the girl is still a bit ice cold, which they appreciate.

For me this works magic. I am sure we develop our own lines. You have to understand that my main goal is to avoid a 10-15 minute chit-chat.... Talking is nice but got to be honest that's not why I am there

Cheers,

 

[Julia Sky]

Hello......

Dude hahahahah this made me laugh

But honestly, I cant think of an actual opening line, besides the usual hello kissy kissy nice to meet you lol... My advice would be : use humor throughout the session. Girls love funny guys. I personally feel a lot more comfortable with someone who makes me laugh. Laughing is a great tool against stress

Oh and since I'm 75% québécoise and french is my first language, if an English-speaking guy tries to talk to me in french, they totally win with me. LOL. I find it soooooo cuuuuuute. It melts both my heart and my panties.

 

[cloudsurf]

Would you like some wine.
You look beautiful......especially if she is not. (That`s a joke...my compliments are sincere)

Julia is correct smile and say something that will make her laugh.

 

[neverbored]

For outcall sessions, I always do the following (duration 1 min):

Never hide behind the door and make sure the entrance is bright (I want her to see me as much as I want to be able to see her)
I greet her like I would an old female friend (I don't want her to feel uncomfortable should there be others in the hallway -- passion is only to ever be expected once the door is closed only)
Make sure all areas are well lit and nothing creepy (cameras, laptops, etc) is visible
Bottles of water, wine etc still sealed available
I leave the $ on the table for her to see

I've had girls tell me that it really made them feel at ease quickly.... sometimes it isn't what you say

 

[MaxxxEdge]

Haha. Shit. That’s where i fucked up then. I always start with salut, maybe it comes out wrong

Tried "salut" once, but my French kind of sucks... must of come out as "salope," because she slapped me and walked away...

 

[neverbored]

Tried "salut" once, but my French kind of sucks... must of come out as "salope," because she slapped me and walked away...

LOL , when tipsy, Salut can also come out as s'lut

 

[jalimon]

Haha you should have said both "Salut Salope" then there is no ambiguity

 

[Julia Sky]

I remember when I was a kid reading a novel about a little boy who was anxious about saying hi to his new teacher at school. And after 5mins of wondering if he should say Salut or Allo, he goes "Salaud !", lololol

 

[cloudsurf]

I've had girls tell me that it really made them feel at ease quickly.... sometimes it isn't what you say

True. I make a move as if I`m going to kiss their lips and instead kiss their neck....then tell them how good they smell.

One of the best lines a girl ever said to me was "nice to meet you"....after she inserted my cock in her pussy.

 

[MaxxxEdge]

LOL , when tipsy, Salut can also come out as s'lut

That could have been it, too... but then I'd be referring to myself, as in: "I am not a whore, I'm a slut... whores get paid, sluts do it for free..."

*No disrespect to any SP's who might take offense to the aforementioned "terminology" lol

 

[heliragedeleted]

Actually my best line is «*hello, I’m looking for my wife «* those that laugh, I know I’m Going to have a good time.

 

[IamNY]

make sure the entrance is bright (I want her to see me as much as I want to be able to see her
Make sure all areas are well lit and nothing creepy

This is probably the best advice to put a girl at ease. You can always adjust the lights after she is comfortable.

 

[jalimon]

Actually my best line is «*hello, I’m looking for my wife «* those that laugh, I know I’m Going to have a good time.

haha that's very good!

Remember Honey at Euphoria? I almost booked her just for the sake of entering the room and say "Hello Honey I am home!"haha

Cheers,

 

[EagerBeaver]

Any clearly canned opening line suggests creepiness and/or a lack of imagination or both IMHO. Development of communication skills means being able to be spontaneous, think on your feet, show yourself to be a conversation starter and not someone who is a candidate for an extra in a really bad low budget horror film who speaks woodenly on cue. The idea that a canned opening line should be used with escorts suggests that they are mindless and that most of them will not perceive being treated as such.

Is there anything wrong with greeting an escort as you would greet a new business client? I think that is the mindset one should have, pretty much everything else is sophomoric and condescending or else downright creepy.

 

[heliragedeleted]

My god eb, you’re so intelligent ,knowledgeable , suave, and creepy. I guess it’s that constant litigation and «*effet de manche*» that gives you the edge over all us poor suckers.

 

[Willgill]

Actually my best line is «*hello, I’m looking for my wife «* those that laugh, I know I’m Going to have a good time.

Did any one reply "shut up, you had me in hello"?

 

[Julia Sky]

Some people are so busy communicating in real life and developing actual social skills that, believe or or not, they don't even have time to spend 15 years on an online anonymous board...

Oops I did it again...