We can do better as men.

[Jebmtl]

I’m concerned about how some of us act when we are with our women. I’m a man that can last long in a session but I don’t destroy the woman I’m gentle. I connect with my providers on personal level. A provider contacted me she’s telling me how some clients are treating her like a piece of meat I would say more like a sex doll. She is a caring woman who wants to really make her clients happy. I know from experience that she provides an amazing service. I wanted to share that we need to treat our women with respect, compassion and respect. You can’t just walk in fuck the shit out of her and destroy her body. I love and enjoy sex but when I get contacted by a woman and she shares her experiences with clients I’m ashamed and disgusted. Don’t get me wrong I’ve experienced very intense sexual sessions with women but they are always happy to see me. We respect each other there’s trust she is happy to give me pleasure. I wanted to share with you guys not to put anybody down or shame anyone. In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends. Make them feel special and you be surprised on the service you receive. I’m just trying to express myself so we all have better experiences.

 

[Anong]

Respect, respect and respect is the first thing. Great hygiene and respect their boundaries.

In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends

G

 

[Enjoying life]

Being kind with offering a drink always gives you a hot time!

 

[vwjf]

Being kind with offering a drink always gives you a hot time!

It’s a lot more than a drink…. I do agree. I tend to discriminate my SP. I try to minimize the risk of pimping, and of desperation. I also make my desires clear and if I sense uneasyness I do not mind opting out so there is no weirdness or pushing boundaries.

Intrinsically, the buying and selling of sex is no different than anything else. Except that the illegality of it makes the power dynamics very unfair, and as customers, we need to be ethical about it. Yes I do understand, there is a slight irony here, but legality and morality have often been found to be on opposite ends...

So in a nutshell, yes, we can and should do better.

 

[CaptRenault]

I try to minimize the risk of pimping...

If you see agency girls, the owners and bookers are their pimps. So you should only see indies. Of course many indy girls have "boyfriends", AKA pimps so you never really know who is being pimped.

 

[Jacobisrael]

I’m concerned about how some of us act when we are with our women. I’m a man that can last long in a session but I don’t destroy the woman I’m gentle. I connect with my providers on personal level. A provider contacted me she’s telling me how some clients are treating her like a piece of meat I would say more like a sex doll. She is a caring woman who wants to really make her clients happy. I know from experience that she provides an amazing service. I wanted to share that we need to treat our women with respect, compassion and respect. You can’t just walk in fuck the shit out of her and destroy her body. I love and enjoy sex but when I get contacted by a woman and she shares her experiences with clients I’m ashamed and disgusted. Don’t get me wrong I’ve experienced very intense sexual sessions with women but they are always happy to see me. We respect each other there’s trust she is happy to give me pleasure. I wanted to share with you guys not to put anybody down or shame anyone. In my opinion treat our woman as if they were our girlfriends. Make them feel special and you be surprised on the service you receive. I’m just trying to express myself so we all have better experiences.

100% non sexual attention is as important as sex for me. It enhances the experience and is in the interest of the guy as well as for the girl. Even naughty pse girls want some

 

[Enjoying life]

100% non sexual attention is as important as sex for me. It enhances the experience is in the interest or guy as well for the girl. Even naughty pse girls want some

I always have something for them when they come and give them a taste of my many interests!

 

[Jacobisrael]

If you see agency girls, the owners and bookers are their pimps. So you should only see indies. Of course many indy girls have "boyfriends", AKA pimps so you never really know who is being pimped.

It might seem crazy for some. One time I saw an SP at Laval (independent) when we were done. Her sister (SP) came at the door. The one I saw told her to wait until I get out. I said no worries she can come in. Then we discussed and she said I rather a pimp than work for an agency. Her definition is a nice friend that books hotel for her. She didn’t really consider the agency a pimp but more like a scammer more than anything.

 

[LeDodo]

I think (and hope) that most of us here are respectful.
But that shows being an Indy even with some basic screening won't save you from the randomness of clients if you're in an agency.

 

[bodick7]

« We can do better as men. »
I don’t feel much brotherhood for some other clients. Men are men.
Some has the need to take control over women and I see it as a typical male disorder.
When I hear stories from SPs and other women over men behaviour, I wonder what’s the problem with that gender.
I just feel bad when I hear men poisoning (…and taking) women lives.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

 

[Jebmtl]

I been reading your posts. I really want my woman to be happy with their work. If women are contacting me it’s because they feel free to express themselves and trust me. They confess their darkest secrets/moments freely. So you can imagine the relationship I have with women not to brag but I’m kind and gentle and my experiences are intense passionate and pleasurable. I have sex for long sessions so it can be done and my women enjoy the session. I’ve been told many times when they are with me they’re not working. They don’t watch the clock. I’m having a lot of fun. I’ve been told that I should be a porn actor or male escort for women. Not interested. But I treat them with the highest respect. But this behaviour of a small group of men has to stop. They are fucking it up for everyone. I have 2 women that are serious thinking of leaving business. I love these women we have experienced amazing times together. I’m sure many of you have been with women that you want to see as much as possible and then imagine one day they are gone wouldn’t that suck? I’m not shaming anyone but think of your actions there’s no girl that can do anal for 45 minutes or bj for one hour but if she knows you, how you are inside and out. You be surprised what she will give you freely. I’ll share an example when women find out that I’m coming for an appointment. I get flowers, dessert and gifts from them. They open the door smiling and jumping for joy. Jumping on me hugging and kissing me as I walk in. Wouldn’t you want to be treated like a king. Maybe I’m different. Maybe it’s all the bad clients that make my experiences better. At the moment I feel I need to be papa bear and protect my cubs.

 

[talkinghead]

I gotta say this is all a bit much.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

 

[Dvsone]

I been reading your posts. I really want my woman to be happy with their work. If women are contacting me it’s because they feel free to express themselves and trust me. They confess their darkest secrets/moments freely. So you can imagine the relationship I have with women not to brag but I’m kind and gentle and my experiences are intense passionate and pleasurable. I have sex for long sessions so it can be done and my women enjoy the session. I’ve been told many times when they are with me they’re not working. They don’t watch the clock. I’m having a lot of fun. I’ve been told that I should be a porn actor or male escort for women. Not interested. But I treat them with the highest respect. But this behaviour of a small group of men has to stop. They are fucking it up for everyone. I have 2 women that are serious thinking of leaving business. I love these women we have experienced amazing times together. I’m sure many of you have been with women that you want to see as much as possible and then imagine one day they are gone wouldn’t that suck? I’m not shaming anyone but think of your actions there’s no girl that can do anal for 45 minutes or bj for one hour but if she knows you, how you are inside and out. You be surprised what she will give you freely. I’ll share an example when women find out that I’m coming for an appointment. I get flowers, dessert and gifts from them. They open the door smiling and jumping for joy. Jumping on me hugging and kissing me as I walk in. Wouldn’t you want to be treated like a king. Maybe I’m different. Maybe it’s all the bad clients that make my experiences better. At the moment I feel I need to be papa bear and protect my cubs.

another john with a deluded self-image and sense of possession over the prostitutes he pays to fuck him

 

[Jacobisrael]

another john with a deluded self-image and sense of possession over the prostitutes he pays to fuck him

Ye that’s a bit too much. He’ll learn at some point don’t worry

 

[Salbandini]

If you see agency girls, the owners and bookers are their pimps. So you should only see indies. Of course many indy girls have "boyfriends", AKA pimps so you never really know who is being pimped.

Lol i still cant believe people dont see this regarding agencies . But anyway ..

 

[Salbandini]

I gotta say this is all a bit much.

More like fked up . Someone who believes their own bullshit

 

[Salbandini]

Ye that’s a bit too much. He’ll learn at some point don’t worry

No he wont. Lol . This is merb . These are the people. Not all but a large portion. Believe their own nonsense .

 

[Dvsone]

Ye that’s a bit too much. He’ll learn at some point don’t worry

These are the type of guys that turn into stalkers and end up getting blacklisted