When a wife, girlfriend, or lover choses to help herself reach orgasm by using her fingers, is this a turn on or turn off ?
It can be considered a turn on because
-it shows that she is comfortable enough with you as a partner to play with herself while having sex.
-that she is in the moment and wants to achieve the same rush that most men achieve with less effort.
-that she wants to move with your rhythum and cum at the same time.
-you get to experience her convulsions of ecstacy that are more real than any acting could provide
It can be considered a turn off because
- it may be considered a selfish act as she focusses more on herself than on you as a couple
- it can be humbling, because with all your best efforts you are failing to hit maximum results for her
- it seems ackward and distracting to have her fingers massaging herself while you are having intercourse
Feel free to give your opinion or add any other pros or cons.
It can be considered a turn on because
-it shows that she is comfortable enough with you as a partner to play with herself while having sex.
-that she is in the moment and wants to achieve the same rush that most men achieve with less effort.
-that she wants to move with your rhythum and cum at the same time.
-you get to experience her convulsions of ecstacy that are more real than any acting could provide
It can be considered a turn off because
- it may be considered a selfish act as she focusses more on herself than on you as a couple
- it can be humbling, because with all your best efforts you are failing to hit maximum results for her
- it seems ackward and distracting to have her fingers massaging herself while you are having intercourse
Feel free to give your opinion or add any other pros or cons.