Oh yeah i get that. I just meant more the guys who send 200-500$ as e-transfer online or such. Im sure there is also a genuine good feeling but i think some of them depending on the situation also enjoy showing they have the money and the means to do it. I think myself included if i would win the loto, i would likely bring my favorite SPs on vacations or such and obviously gift them many things. Sometimes its dependable on financial situation.
2 years ago i received in DM on OF a video of a pornstar (who also escort) selling for 10$ or so a video of her first facial of 2024, and she "thanks" Mr C saying "you know who you are" and i dunno it just felt so hotLucky Mr C
I just want to point out that I said multiple times that nobody is expecting gifts. We all know that not everyone can take us on vacations (btw nobody ever took me on vacations), take us out for an entire day, etc. We know it depends on financial situation. There isn't a competition between clients, or at least there shouldn't be. I've had clients tell me before that they felt like they had to compete with others, and it made me really uncomfortable, because I felt like they were doing something they maybe wouldn't have done otherwise, which breeds negative feelings. My appreciation of a client doesn't necessarily have to do with how much he spent on me, and I know many providers feel the same way. (repeating the same thing so that it sinks in..)
If you won the lotto and you took your favorite SPs on vacations and gifted them many things, would you be doing it because you want to show off your money? Keep in mind that nobody will ever know it's you. I've posted pictures of dates I went on, but people have no idea who took me on those dates, and I prefer it that way for reasons of privacy. It's the same thing with gifts. Even if you bought your favorite SP a house nobody would know it's you, so I don't know how it's showing off the money to buy it. When I take my friends out to eat at nice restaurants or bring nice wine and food to their place, or when I give people presents, I don't expect that they will post it on social media and tag me. I'm not trying to show off that I can afford it, I just want to make these people happy... I'm sure that's also why you wish you had the money to give gifts and bring someone on a nice vacation.
Btw, there are people who use gifts in manipulative ways. There's a client I blocked because he crossed my boundaries, who harassed me under different pseudonyms for an entire year. His latest attempt at booking me was asking what my size is for luxury lingerie. He then texted me and said "hey its (insert name here), when can i see you and give you your lingerie?".. He thought that he could bait me with a luxury item, but he was wrong. This same client gave me a tip after he violated my boundaries.
There are others who will say "I gave her so many gifts and took her on so many nice dates, why is she not giving me more than I paid for?" Well, because that wasn't the agreement. If you give a gift or a tip, it should be because you really want to. I do think that girls at agencies who only get to keep 200$ from a GFE booking deserve a tip, but that's my personal opinion.
