Sugar daddy

[LC18]

I've never received an allowance, I just ask for something and get it.

I prefer being with one person and being able to do activities outside of the bedroom, not having to plan how long you'll be together and how much they owe you.

 

[Nfsprostreet]

What website do you all recommend for sugar babies in Montréal? Just curious on the process. Is it more complex being discreet?

 

[No_Church_InThe_Wild]

I’d say that with these arrangements there is more flexibility and the pace is definitely slower and feels more natural ... whereas in the hobby plenty of times your rushed and so it might feel like a sprint ...you pretty much know what your going to get which ain’t a bad thing but your always on the clock and everything needs to sort of be choreographed from your shower to the small talk to the missionary position lol , right down to what time you need to tie your shoe laces

 

[escxx173792]

I have been a sugar daddy. It is dinner, or some kind of activities ans then sex. The girl spend 2-3h with me and it is 500$/meet. It’s about the same as market price. But it feels more intimate, like an actual girlfriend. I hate to spoil for you all that exclusivity is not going to happen. I am married, I don’t request my girl to not see anybody else. I know a lot of them are young and will have a cute boyfriend or maybe other sugar daddies. For health reasons, I always use protection. I know some sugar daddies do not use protection with the girls.

 

[sene5hos]

For health reasons, I always use protection. I know some sugar daddies do not use protection with the girls.

When I read this, I can't believe it.

The Sugar Daddies and the escorts are completely out of touch with reality.

Moreover, Dr. Réjean Thomas from the Clinique l'Actuel said that there is a new growth in ITS and this would be due to the absence of the wearing of a condom.

 

[2fast2slow]

I have been a sugar daddy. It is dinner, or some kind of activities ans then sex. The girl spend 2-3h with me and it is 500$/meet. It’s about the same as market price. But it feels more intimate, like an actual girlfriend. I hate to spoil for you all that exclusivity is not going to happen. I am married, I don’t request my girl to not see anybody else. I know a lot of them are young and will have a cute boyfriend or maybe other sugar daddies. For health reasons, I always use protection. I know some sugar daddies do not use protection with the girls.

i assume your wife does not know about this arrangement? how do you swing 2-3 hour appts without her wondering where you are? I have a hard time with 30 min appts

 

[Fradi]

When I read this, I can't believe it.

The Sugar Daddies and the escorts are completely out of touch with reality.

Moreover, Dr. Réjean Thomas from the Clinique l'Actuel said that there is a new growth in ITS and this would be due to the absence of the wearing of a condom.

I am guessing you meant SB let’s not confuse them with escorts as I have never met one so far that didn’t use protection for SF and I hope I never will.
Yes they are both sex workers, escorts however wear the title well and don’t pretend they aren’t selling sex, for them money doesn’t seem to have a bad odour if it is obtained through sex, they are into different fantasies.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

i assume your wife does not know about this arrangement? how do you swing 2-3 hour appts without her wondering where you are? I have a hard time with 30 min appts

Damn I can't picture myself in a relationship where both partners dont allow some time off from each other! That's not a relationship, thats called a cage!

 

[2fast2slow]

Damn I can't picture myself in a relationship where both partners dont allow some time off from each other! That's not a relationship, thats called a cage!

lol, one partner allowing 'time off' so the other partner can fuck around is not the definition of a relationship to most people, unless an explicitely open marriage....

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

lol, one partner allowing 'time off' so the other partner can fuck around is not the definition of a relationship to most people, unless an explicitely open marriage....

I never said it was a one way thing, I am all in for equality. Open relationships are the only thing that works, otherwise it's all cheat and lies.

 

[min6666]

What website do you all recommend for sugar babies in Montréal? Just curious on the process. Is it more complex being discreet?

I'm curius to

 

[slow&steady]

If you spend enough time on merb, enough time at MP places, enough time seeing SPs.....you will understand the following about seeking:

1- many are scammers using fake pics or are real and want you to check their onlyfans site or some kind of virtual service
2- many are real but they have no intention of you touching them. they want dinner dates (and nothing more) for $$$ surprisingly many men are simply looking for this type of company.
3- many ARE real girls but they are either curious or too chicken shit to meet... so they never end up seeing anyone


OK so once you eliminate category 1,2 and 3 your left with about 10% of the supply of girls

Out of the remaining 10% a few girls on seeking are actually escorts but they also look for sugar daddies because its fun to ask 2x or 3x as much. If i want i can drop at least 10 names right now of girls i recognized (but i wont cause will start a shit show here)
a few girls will give you want you want but it may take time, multiple dates, getting to know the girl as you would a girlfriend in real life plus ull be spending money along the journey (maybe even a lot) and maybe in the end its a disappointment.

keep this in mind when join the site. Of course its possible to find what you want and even for free! .... but also note if you join and you see 60 girls online, maybe not even one may end up offering what you want. If you got a nice thick wallet its better but you will still lose a lot of time on the site.

Its just by opinion

 

[LC18]

If you're not using protection with your sugar baby, good luck.

 

[lastsamurai]

If you spend enough time on merb, enough time at MP places, enough time seeing SPs.....you will understand the following about seeking:

1- many are scammers using fake pics or are real and want you to check their onlyfans site or some kind of virtual service
2- many are real but they have no intention of you touching them. they want dinner dates (and nothing more) for $$$ surprisingly many men are simply looking for this type of company.
3- many ARE real girls but they are either curious or too chicken shit to meet... so they never end up seeing anyone


OK so once you eliminate category 1,2 and 3 your left with about 10% of the supply of girls

Out of the remaining 10% a few girls on seeking are actually escorts but they also look for sugar daddies because its fun to ask 2x or 3x as much. If i want i can drop at least 10 names right now of girls i recognized (but i wont cause will start a shit show here)
a few girls will give you want you want but it may take time, multiple dates, getting to know the girl as you would a girlfriend in real life plus ull be spending money along the journey (maybe even a lot) and maybe in the end its a disappointment.

keep this in mind when join the site. Of course its possible to find what you want and even for free! .... but also note if you join and you see 60 girls online, maybe not even one may end up offering what you want. If you got a nice thick wallet its better but you will still lose a lot of time on the site.

Its just by opinion

Amen. I have lost 2 girls I liked so far after spending a month on SA. First girl does not want money and is only interested in real relationship. Since she does not live in my city and only visits her family periodically, I do not see how it would work long term. I met the second girl after flirting for a couple weeks over text messages. It seemed everything went so well but stupid me, I offered her money before the date was over. And she took it. A week later, she told me she was said because she felt it was transactional. Wtf, these girls want a relationship with benefits but do not want to feel transactional at the same time. God help us.

 

[chucky]

Funny how comments go in all directions here. The point is, there is no clear definition of what is a SD or a SB, so all would-be SD and SB wonder what they should be. I had multiple conversations with SBs that led to 2 real meetings. The first one (a very cute asian woman) asked me for 200$ per encounter and we did 2 hours encounters (that's way cheaper than an escort). Saw her 3 times and gave up as she was not as GFE as I needed. The second one was a mature quebecoise that was as uncomfortable as I was talking about money. I think she needed companionship first and thought why not get some money in the process. She was nice but I did not enjoy sex with her that much so I ended that relationship too. In all this process, what I learned is that it is not realistic to think I can have the true lovers relationship I was looking for while paying for it, so I am back to massage/escorts to fill my need for sex and, yes, affection (or illusion of).

 

[slow&steady]

im curious to know if members have met the girls i met over the years lol .....these come to mind because were often online so i assume they met many guys
- theres the married milf with blond thick curly hair east of montreal (used to be onlne always, later disappeared). took work to meet
- the 20 something thai girl (used to always be online, now gone) later got hard to catch
- the mexican girl around downtown (always online) started getting demanding

these are some of my memorable ones that im sure some of you must have met if were on seeking 1 or 2 years ago

 

[Eurasian]

I'll give my 2 cents...

I've been on SA for a few months now. I've found of kinds of girls... around 60% of them will say X amount PPM (90%) or monthly allowance(10%). In that 60% about 2/3 will say they need to feel comfortable with you to have intimacy (unlike escorts who won't have a choice most of the time), and 1/3 who don't care about how they feel towards you and are straight up PPM intimacy type.

The other 40% is a mix of everything, curious girls who wonder what the site is about, girls looking for hit big (rich partner to marry), others use it as tinder but are attracted to mature guys, etc.

I met 2 girls only, none of whom I gave any money for the meet. First girl, paid for restaurant and that's all, nothing happened, just a good bye kiss... I think she's the kind who doesn't sleep on first meet, especially if no money is involved. second girl, I paid for restaurant and hotel.. something happened obviously and no money was given. I haven't contacted the 1st girl since because she's not my type, though I would fuck her if I am out and having fun with her, she is fun. the second girl, she's been wanting to meet again since that first meet and it'll happen. She's a 25 yo Latin chick who's got high libido and a sense of adventure and is not looking to make money out of this arrangement, she just wants to enjoy her time and learn all kinds of things from an older guy as she is tired of guys her age whose only topic of discussion is tiktok and how much booze they can consume.

In both girls (and ones I haven't met), I find it's a lot of time invested as opposed to MP/escorts. I use protection and don't expect those girls to see only me as I can't see them that often anyways, I make it clear to them.

 

[Wandsbek637]

I'll give my 2 cents...

I've been on SA for a few months now. I've found of kinds of girls... around 60% of them will say X amount PPM (90%) or monthly allowance(10%). In that 60% about 2/3 will say they need to feel comfortable with you to have intimacy (unlike escorts who won't have a choice most of the time), and 1/3 who don't care about how they feel towards you and are straight up PPM intimacy type.

The other 40% is a mix of everything, curious girls who wonder what the site is about, girls looking for hit big (rich partner to marry), others use it as tinder but are attracted to mature guys, etc.

I met 2 girls only, none of whom I gave any money for the meet. First girl, paid for restaurant and that's all, nothing happened, just a good bye kiss... I think she's the kind who doesn't sleep on first meet, especially if no money is involved. second girl, I paid for restaurant and hotel.. something happened obviously and no money was given. I haven't contacted the 1st girl since because she's not my type, though I would fuck her if I am out and having fun with her, she is fun. the second girl, she's been wanting to meet again since that first meet and it'll happen. She's a 25 yo Latin chick who's got high libido and a sense of adventure and is not looking to make money out of this arrangement, she just wants to enjoy her time and learn all kinds of things from an older guy as she is tired of guys her age whose only topic of discussion is tiktok and how much booze they can consume.

In both girls (and ones I haven't met), I find it's a lot of time invested as opposed to MP/escorts. I use protection and don't expect those girls to see only me as I can't see them that often anyways, I make it clear to them.

I have had similar experiences to yours. Met 3 girls in 2 months. With two, no money involved. They had super high libido. They were not top looking either, but very much into sex. Third one, money involved, and good sex (definitely GFE, and I would say PSE), young and decent looking, and way cheaper than escorts. We drink wine, have sex, talk, have more sex, etc.