Stripper proposes sex. Is it a good idea?

[CaptRenault]

The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services. They know that guys fantasize about meeting a girl outside the club, because it's a challenge to convince the girl and the client has had a sneak preview of what she's like. The girl knows that providing sex is not the usual practice for a stripper and she may not even be familiar with the prevailing rates are for escorts. So strippers often suggest a rate that can easily be double what a normal rate is.

If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM. At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex.

There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.

 

[polaroid]

Sounds sketchy to me. She knows that you're horny, possibly drunk and have money. Whenever someone suggests going to a second location, it increases the chances of something bad happening. If you want to see an SP, book an SP. If you want a lapdance, go to the stripclub. Don't mix the two together unless you're prepared to potentially be jumped by her partner when you show up at "her place".

Same goes with massage parlors those who offert presentations I remember one place on the main not one came to shake my hand and sounded totally stoned now that place stop doing presentations all together but me too I'm not into bringing a striper out but I agree with having a proper presentation a thing you dont see in asian mp !!!!

My point is that if I would ever do it I would go to a public place like a Hotel so both partys feel safe.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services. They know that guys fantasize about meeting a girl outside the club, because it's a challenge to convince the girl and the client has had a sneak preview of what she's like. The girl knows that providing sex is not the usual practice for a stripper and she may not even be familiar with the prevailing rates are for escorts. So strippers often suggest a rate that can easily be double what a normal rate is.

If a normal agency girl in Montreal gets $280/hour, then expect a stripper with decent looks to ask for $600 or more. She thinks this is reasonable because she is already making good money most nights while dancing so why shouldn't she ask for a lot of $ for a special service outside of normal working hours. They also will suggest that they can meet you when they get off work at 3AM. At least this has been my experience the few times that I have discussed meeting a stripper for sex. I never followed through because it never made sense--too costly and too inconvenient. It's so easy to book reasonably priced escorts in Montreal that it's not worth it trying to convince a stripper to provide sex.

There is also a kind of natural attitudinal divide between strippers and escorts. Strippers are naturally exhibitionistic and comfortable with showing off their bodies in public, but they may have a hard time crossing the line into full intimacy with a stranger ("I couldn't have sex with someone I don't even know!"). Escorts, on the other hand, can't imagine parading naked in front of lots of men ("what if someone I know sees me!") but they are cool with having sex one on one with a stranger and no one else knows about it. Two different mindsets.

I totally disagree, I never paid for a take out from strip clubs and I’ve had several

 

[Skym]

Never happened to me in Canada but I recall 2 occasions where a stripper offered "extra" to me and that was in Czech Republic and Mexico.

 

[Equator360]

The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.

I have a lot of acquaintances who are strippers or were in the past, some of them also were escorts or still are, and some never crossed that line. It's not an act of desperation, it's a choice. Some of them have been escorts or masseuses before and they will find clients at the club once in a while although they are retired from FS. Some of them also work as indy escorts or masseuses part time on top of being strippers, and this is one of their preferred ways of finding clients.

 

[Equator360]

The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.

`When I say they are desperate, I do not mean they are starving. Gone are the days of $1800-2500 shifts. The strip clubs are empty, seeing a naked woman does not do anything for me anymore. 1It only takes a few minutes to drain $100 out of a guys pocket. The dancers will take shifts at MPs and do SP work to maintain the lifestyle that they are accustomed to. An SP or MP can give a guy what he can get at a strip club and more. Some dancers will have off hours service, but they will not charge SP rates. Expect to pay 50 to 100% more.

 

[Skym]

Depends lol

God...i always wished my favorite stripper Ana offered this instead of always giving me the runaround lol

 

[Enjoying life]

Actually if she really is into you she will not even discuss price just take off your pants , DFK, and put a condom on you which I can say it happened once on my birthday! Price of a normal lap dance! It was wild cause it was in the booth!

 

[merbuser1221]

The strip biz is dying and these ladies are desperate. That is not to say you will be getting a good deal in the end.

“The strip biz is dying”

That may be a good thing

 

[Equator360]

They are pricing themselves out of the market.

 

[Anong]

Centuries ago when strip clubs were :Vibrant and Real fun" it happened few times that strippers agreed to meet "Private" except one no one asked for "time compensation"
Those were one time fun but 2 really remained as friends for longer time. One use to come every week-end before going to work and the same stayed around 2 years till she found boyfriend.
The 2nd one I knew more than 15 years is still in contact and available for sex, as a friend. When she was working in Club on my Birthday she treated me with the drinks and like mentioned in Post # 49 above.
Always on her Birthday and Valentine I bring her Cake , chocolate and flowers. Till today we remained as sincere friends.

 

[interferon]

“The strip biz is dying”

That may be a good thing

You have your own views on SCs but some of us really enjoy em. I hate to see them die off and it'd put a lot of cool people out of work or drive them to kinds of work they might not want to do.

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

I spent way too much bread on strip clubs in my late teens and early 20's. Nonchalantly walked into one during the summer of my 16 years and got my first lap dance, which I was NOT prepared for LMFAO, nor the walk of shame back home (IYKYK). Also went through the cringe virgin phase of trying to get dates from strippers, hindsight being 20/20 I would've been better off developing some testicular fortitude and booking a soiree with a lady of the evening instead. It was like spending all that money on game demos but never actually playing the full version of any game, if you know what I mean (clumsy analogy, demos are supposed to be free, but in these dark times for the gaming industry I wouldn't be surprised by anything).

Anyway, one time I was at a pretty upscale club and getting dances from this one chick I reckoned was cute. Things got particularly hot and heavy in the booth because I legit gave her DATY and DATO. Usually it's them that grind on you and try to get you to have a party in your pants, now the roles were reversed with zero barrier. We then verbally agreed that after closing time, we'd meet up and go somewhere private to get to know each other better. Zero mention of any remuneration, so all signs pointed to her being DTF. Quittin' time rolls around, I'm waiting there and she just hurries past me like she got a call that the repo man was hauling shit out of her house. I felt so used and objectified; like, you feign interest and lie to my face, I gladly put my tongue in your asshole and you don't even have the common fucking decency to suck my dick. :^(

 

[CLOUD 500]

The problem with many strippers who are open to the idea of providing sex to a client outside of the club is that they expect to charge a premium for their services.

Not sure about that, seems to be in line with Indy prices. It is much more fun to see a girl that you already know then a total stranger. Booking an escort is fun but it quickly looses novelty, you see one then others but it quickly becomes boring. I had a situation where I been seeing a sexy stripper for over one year and all of a sudden she accepted take out. That was so much more fun the the idea of doing more with a girl that I known for a long while and wanting more but not having it that is not necessarily available to all. But to each their own. But Spock said on the Original Star Trek, "After a time, you may find that 'having' is not so pleasing a thing after all as 'wanting.' It is not logical, but it is often true." I think the same applies here.