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Mtl_explorer

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it's a random thought so i didn't want to create a debate around this and there are features that i have in mind that would probably wouldn't make sense businesswise but could be cool for users.
But the basic would be a visual redesign, it's (very) dated, apparently more emojis would be appreciated. Being able to allow VPN could be useful also in this day and age.
The whole structure of the threads is also dated. For example instead of demultiplying boards for each province, we could have one Review board and a dropdown menu for each region. The outcall/incall could also be handled this way etc.
It probably won't happen so that's why it was only a random thought :)
At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default. There are pros and cons to revealing one's IP; we know the benefits, but the downside is that we shouldn't forget that customers are technically "breaking the law" in this hobby, and when we report a bad experience, we don't really want to put ourselves at risk. That’s my humble opinion. ;-)
 

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At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default. There are pros and cons to revealing one's IP; we know the benefits, but the downside is that we shouldn't forget that customers are technically "breaking the law" in this hobby, and when we report a bad experience, we don't really want to put ourselves at risk. That’s my humble opinion. ;-)
This website is also "breaking the law" and yet it's still there after 20 years
 

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At first, my messages were being removed and I didn't really know why, until I realized I was using Safari on macOS, which hides the IP address by default.
I’ve had whole threads deleted bc of this when I use my phone and it's dumb. Neither terb or perb force this and it's a wild requirement in the Year of our Lord 2026.
 

LeDodo

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I’ve had whole threads deleted bc of this when I use my phone and it's dumb. Neither terb or perb force this and it's a wild requirement in the Year of our Lord 2026.
Well maybe it shows how some MERB users behave ...
 

Lunaseraphim

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Well maybe it shows how some MERB users behave ...
That's the thing. There are so many trolls on this platform that are coming to ruin provider's reputations, and shills that make people not trust reviews. Right now for indies, it feels like even a few pages of good reviews isn't enough to get you clients consistently. You have to have new reviews all the time to prove your worth. No matter what, as a provider, it feels scary to have such a fragile reputation that can easily be affected by certain comments..

Some members clearly don't use this platform as it's intended to be used. I've seen clients bring out a conflict in the open on a review thread or on a lounge thread multiple times, sort of like a ''call out'', ironically.. The thing is that often others lack the context, and they are just assuming they know what happened, or they trust whatever that other person said blindly, without hearing the other side of the story. Some people are just here to make others look bad and get into arguments, which isn't the same as a healthy and respectful debate.

I understand that people want anonymity on a forum like this, for obvious reasons, but at the same time, a lot of users build a reputation themselves among others and their ideas are trusted more because they post more often and have a certain distinct personality. These users will be booked more easily because we know their opinion will be believed. If a person like this makes a fake account, they could start posting a bunch of nonsense or say things they won't have to be accountable for.

Some providers are just a few clients away from not being able to pay their rent. Or if their reputation sinks, they will be out of work for a while. This isn't like a stable job that guarantees an income for an extended amount of time, or like other types of freelance work.. (usually most freelance workers are allowed to advertise their services out in the open, for instance, and what they're offering is a lot less controversial)
 

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Right now for indies, it feels like even a few pages of good reviews isn't enough to get you clients consistently. You have to have new reviews all the time to prove your worth.
My personal experience seems to be the exact opposite of what you are saying. I get a lot of new clients while seldomly receiving new reviews. Maybe being in this industry for many years helps, but I am not sure how it's perceived for the new clients who begin to dabble in it.
 
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