2004 seems like a much different time. This would be around the era that a I dated this woman I am talking about in my earlier comment. Maybe she was lying, but even though she had such a rough time, the conditions seemed a little different. She didn't have to see as many clients in a row and ''GFE'' wasn't as much of a thing back then its seems. One thing that was hard for her was that she was expected to look and act like everyone else. She told me all of the girls were blonde and skinny and under 30, she eventually bleached and straightened her beautiful curly red hair because her boss told her she looked messy. Her agency refused to hire her friend who was very normal, because she wasn't thin enough. Over the years, more than one SP told me they felt pressured by clients to hang out with them after bookings or talk to them all the time. It was not so obvious to me at first but I realized after talking about many women who are in this industry and have been before, that I am paying for their time. What I understood was that for these girls working for agencies, it will be more advantageous to see clients outside in order to be better paid or maybe get a sugar daddy or two. They don't know how to work outside of the agency perhaps. There is one indy who hung out with me at the park to share some drinks after a 3 hour date last summer. It was a really cool moment and I hope she didn't feel like she had to do that to keep seeing me, but we have an awesome connection so I think it was sincere. Most indies in general have been generous with their time when they could, but I understand that this can come at a cost for them.
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