Multiple girls or Longer duration?
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It depends on the limiting factor in your budget. When I am flying into town, I have a set budget in both money and time I can spend. I have in the past seen 2 at a time simply because I did not have enough time to see them separately. One on one is still my favorite though. Making a connection is important for me to enjoy my time, and that is not happening when there are three people in the room.
I like two 2 girls if they work well together. I've read a few reviews where one of the girls was great but the other wasn't any fun. The reviewer even mentioned that he wished she wasn't there! lol but I would want 90 minutes at least so if the budget works then great, if not, one at a time.
Ihave done the two girl thing before, it is like putting really good spaghetti on fantastic pizza. I would rather enjoy one at a time.
As a girl get's to know you, usually the comfort level goes up. Almost always that's good. 2 hours is good. 2 diff times is probably better. It's a psychological thing...inside their head (this is true also for men, in a different way)...two different sets of circumstances -- the guy is still "reliable"....then trust goes up.
Sexually, you have more time to play with her, please her (a massage, or use your imagination)....women give back more than they get usually. That pays off too.
Anyway, I like women almost always, even if the sexual chemistry is not always there. (It varies for me a lot, by person and by day....not that I really understand it, except that I can tell it does. Maybe it's her pheromones as much as anything. Who the fuck knows...but some people it clicks and some not so much....I can't attribute it to much else. Not the body, not the look, not the conversation...well, all play some factor, but it does not seem to be the key factor. Laughter is a key factor....and pheromones as much as I can tell.
Anyway, giving time for the pheromones to kick might be good. ??
Apparently, science is not sure humans really communicate via pheromones....but there seems to be something to "chemistry" to me.
Sexually, you have more time to play with her, please her (a massage, or use your imagination)....women give back more than they get usually. That pays off too.
Anyway, I like women almost always, even if the sexual chemistry is not always there. (It varies for me a lot, by person and by day....not that I really understand it, except that I can tell it does. Maybe it's her pheromones as much as anything. Who the fuck knows...but some people it clicks and some not so much....I can't attribute it to much else. Not the body, not the look, not the conversation...well, all play some factor, but it does not seem to be the key factor. Laughter is a key factor....and pheromones as much as I can tell.
Anyway, giving time for the pheromones to kick might be good. ??
Apparently, science is not sure humans really communicate via pheromones....but there seems to be something to "chemistry" to me.
HERE IS AN ARTICLE "THE SCIENCE OF LOVE" THAT MIGHT EXPLAIN THE PHENOMENON OF ATTRACTION :
The science of love
*
Getting much more scientific and practical,it is amazing to see what marvelous machine our brain is , as the chemical cocktail that accompanies different stages of relationships is deployed.
* * * These neurotransmitters actually come into play naturally if the level of STRESS does not disturb this *NATURAL ORDER AND BALANCE.
Psychyatrists try to mimic this interplay by prescribing combinations that may or may not be effective and most work is done by TRIAL AND ERROR over what may be a very lenghty period of time.
* * *By personal experience I would *suggest that medication may be necessary *and if so, never wait for it to give results only by itself…psychological support may be of help, yet the KEY *to get back on tract *is in your hands : keep active ,
start some level of exercise and slowly increase it….perform some kind of relaxation,breathing and meditation by *using mindfullness ,that is, being more aware and living the present moment.
Your opinion is appreciated
LEANDRE
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm
The science of love
We call it love. It feels like love. But the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature’s beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing.
With an irresistible cocktail of chemicals, our brain entices us to fall in love. We believe we’re choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature’s lovely plan.
The 3 stages of love
Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in the States has proposed 3 stages of love – lust, attraction and attachment. Each stage might be driven by different hormones and chemicals.
Stage 1: Lust
This is the first stage of love and is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and oestrogen – in both men and women.
Stage 2: Attraction
This is the amazing time when you are truly love-struck and can think of little else. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.
Adrenaline
The initial stages of falling for someone activates your stress response, increasing your blood levels of adrenalin and cortisol. This has the charming effect that when you unexpectedly bump into your new love, you start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth goes dry.
Dopamine
Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!
Fisher suggests “couples often show the signs of surging dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food, focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of this novel relationship” .
Serotonin
And finally, serotonin. One of love's most important chemicals that may explain why when you’re falling in love, your new lover keeps popping into your thoughts.
Does love change the way you think? A landmark experiment in Pisa, Italy showed that early love (the attraction phase) really changes the way you think.
Dr Donatella Marazziti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa advertised for twenty couples who'd been madly in love for less than six months. She wanted to see if the brain mechanisms that cause you to constantly think about your lover, were related to the brain mechanisms of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
By analysing blood samples from the lovers, Dr Marazitti discovered that serotonin levels of new lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder patients.
Love needs to be blind
Newly smitten lovers often idealise their partner, magnifying their virtues and explaining away their flaws says Ellen Berscheid, a leading researcher on the psychology of love.
New couples also exalt the relationship itself. “It's very common to think they have a relationship that's closer and more special than anyone else's”. Psychologists think we need this rose-tinted view. It makes us want to stay together to enter the next stage of love – attachment.
Stage 3: Attachment
Attachment is the bond that keeps couples together long enough for them to have and raise children. Scientists think there might be two major hormones involved in this feeling of attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin.
Oxytocin - The cuddle hormone
Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm.
It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex. The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes.
Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also responsible for a mum’s breast automatically releasing milk at the mere sight or sound of her young baby.
Diane Witt, assistant professor of psychology from New York has showed that if you block the natural release of oxytocin in sheep and rats, they reject their own young.
Conversely, injecting oxytocin into female rats who’ve never had sex, caused them to fawn over another female’s young, nuzzling the pups and protecting them as if they were their own.
Vasopressin Vasopressin is another important hormone in the long-term commitment stage and is released after sex.
Vasopressin (also called anti-diuretic hormone) works with your kidneys to control thirst. Its potential role in long-term relationships was discovered when scientists looked at the prairie vole.
Prairie voles indulge in far more sex than is strictly necessary for the purposes of reproduction. They also – like humans - form fairly stable pair-bonds.
When male prairie voles were given a drug that suppresses the effect of vasopressin, the bond with their partner deteriorated immediately as they lost their devotion and failed to protect their partner from new suitors.
And finally … how to fall in love
• Find a complete stranger.
• Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives for half an hour.
• Then, stare deeply into each other’s eyes without talking for four minutes.
York psychologist, Professor Arthur Arun, has been studying why people fall in love.
He asked his subjects to carry out the above 3 steps and found that many of his couples felt deeply attracted after the 34 minute experiment. Two of his subjects later got married. * * * * * * * * * * * **
*

The science of love
*
Getting much more scientific and practical,it is amazing to see what marvelous machine our brain is , as the chemical cocktail that accompanies different stages of relationships is deployed.
* * * These neurotransmitters actually come into play naturally if the level of STRESS does not disturb this *NATURAL ORDER AND BALANCE.
Psychyatrists try to mimic this interplay by prescribing combinations that may or may not be effective and most work is done by TRIAL AND ERROR over what may be a very lenghty period of time.
* * *By personal experience I would *suggest that medication may be necessary *and if so, never wait for it to give results only by itself…psychological support may be of help, yet the KEY *to get back on tract *is in your hands : keep active ,
start some level of exercise and slowly increase it….perform some kind of relaxation,breathing and meditation by *using mindfullness ,that is, being more aware and living the present moment.
Your opinion is appreciated
LEANDRE
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm
The science of love
We call it love. It feels like love. But the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature’s beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing.
With an irresistible cocktail of chemicals, our brain entices us to fall in love. We believe we’re choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature’s lovely plan.
The 3 stages of love
Helen Fisher of Rutgers University in the States has proposed 3 stages of love – lust, attraction and attachment. Each stage might be driven by different hormones and chemicals.
Stage 1: Lust
This is the first stage of love and is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and oestrogen – in both men and women.
Stage 2: Attraction
This is the amazing time when you are truly love-struck and can think of little else. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.
Adrenaline
The initial stages of falling for someone activates your stress response, increasing your blood levels of adrenalin and cortisol. This has the charming effect that when you unexpectedly bump into your new love, you start to sweat, your heart races and your mouth goes dry.
Dopamine
Helen Fisher asked newly ‘love struck’ couples to have their brains examined and discovered they have high levels of the neurotransmitter dopamine. This chemical stimulates ‘desire and reward’ by triggering an intense rush of pleasure. It has the same effect on the brain as taking cocaine!
Fisher suggests “couples often show the signs of surging dopamine: increased energy, less need for sleep or food, focused attention and exquisite delight in smallest details of this novel relationship” .
Serotonin
And finally, serotonin. One of love's most important chemicals that may explain why when you’re falling in love, your new lover keeps popping into your thoughts.
Does love change the way you think? A landmark experiment in Pisa, Italy showed that early love (the attraction phase) really changes the way you think.
Dr Donatella Marazziti, a psychiatrist at the University of Pisa advertised for twenty couples who'd been madly in love for less than six months. She wanted to see if the brain mechanisms that cause you to constantly think about your lover, were related to the brain mechanisms of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
By analysing blood samples from the lovers, Dr Marazitti discovered that serotonin levels of new lovers were equivalent to the low serotonin levels of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder patients.
Love needs to be blind
Newly smitten lovers often idealise their partner, magnifying their virtues and explaining away their flaws says Ellen Berscheid, a leading researcher on the psychology of love.
New couples also exalt the relationship itself. “It's very common to think they have a relationship that's closer and more special than anyone else's”. Psychologists think we need this rose-tinted view. It makes us want to stay together to enter the next stage of love – attachment.
Stage 3: Attachment
Attachment is the bond that keeps couples together long enough for them to have and raise children. Scientists think there might be two major hormones involved in this feeling of attachment; oxytocin and vasopressin.
Oxytocin - The cuddle hormone
Oxytocin is a powerful hormone released by men and women during orgasm.
It probably deepens the feelings of attachment and makes couples feel much closer to one another after they have had sex. The theory goes that the more sex a couple has, the deeper their bond becomes.
Oxytocin also seems to help cement the strong bond between mum and baby and is released during childbirth. It is also responsible for a mum’s breast automatically releasing milk at the mere sight or sound of her young baby.
Diane Witt, assistant professor of psychology from New York has showed that if you block the natural release of oxytocin in sheep and rats, they reject their own young.
Conversely, injecting oxytocin into female rats who’ve never had sex, caused them to fawn over another female’s young, nuzzling the pups and protecting them as if they were their own.
Vasopressin Vasopressin is another important hormone in the long-term commitment stage and is released after sex.
Vasopressin (also called anti-diuretic hormone) works with your kidneys to control thirst. Its potential role in long-term relationships was discovered when scientists looked at the prairie vole.
Prairie voles indulge in far more sex than is strictly necessary for the purposes of reproduction. They also – like humans - form fairly stable pair-bonds.
When male prairie voles were given a drug that suppresses the effect of vasopressin, the bond with their partner deteriorated immediately as they lost their devotion and failed to protect their partner from new suitors.
And finally … how to fall in love
• Find a complete stranger.
• Reveal to each other intimate details about your lives for half an hour.
• Then, stare deeply into each other’s eyes without talking for four minutes.
York psychologist, Professor Arthur Arun, has been studying why people fall in love.
He asked his subjects to carry out the above 3 steps and found that many of his couples felt deeply attracted after the 34 minute experiment. Two of his subjects later got married. * * * * * * * * * * * **
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As per the question,
What I have done is booked three hours with an SP I have seen before and been comfortable with, I asked her to make a recommendation for a duo, based on the recommendation I have booked the second girl to arrive at the beginning of the second hour and had her stay for an hour or two based on chemistry, I usually hobby in Toronto and it has worked out.... this also works best with agency girls as the drivers are pretty good at being on time, especially if it’s a daytime afternoon rendezvous...
What I have done is booked three hours with an SP I have seen before and been comfortable with, I asked her to make a recommendation for a duo, based on the recommendation I have booked the second girl to arrive at the beginning of the second hour and had her stay for an hour or two based on chemistry, I usually hobby in Toronto and it has worked out.... this also works best with agency girls as the drivers are pretty good at being on time, especially if it’s a daytime afternoon rendezvous...
No contest for me...I prefer The longer duration. I don’t like the idea of rushing a session and/or doing a bit here and a bit there with one SP here and one SP there. IMHO, it’s silly. The session would be over just as I’m warming up.
Longer sessions rule for me.
Longer sessions rule for me.
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