Most taboo fantasy

[Lunaseraphim]

You never actually answered my question either but I think I get it now anyway. There's even a whole "woke" term for it; consensual non consent (or CNC). Many people play along those lines. Maybe you're woke and you didn't even know it.

Shocking revelation : respecting a woman and fulfilling her fantasies is ''woke''!! Let's call Journal De Montréal!

 

[Michelle Gunn]

what question? it is below me.

I'm trying to understand the interest in the fantasy where you have sex with someone who cannot reciprocate. It just seems boring to me but now I'm starting to understand that it's a variation of the basic (sorry, woke term coming up) CNC fantasy, but we can call it a rape fantasy if that makes everyone feel better.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm trying to understand the interest in the fantasy where you have sex with someone who cannot reciprocate. It just seems boring to me but now I'm starting to understand that it's a variation of the basic (sorry, woke term coming up) CNC fantasy, but we can call it a rape fantasy if that makes everyone feel better.

Rape fantasies or CNC are actually pretty common.. and yea same I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who's unconscious but I'm not going to judge someone else for it. One fantasy I've had was being ''woken up'' that way by a partner I already trust and really like.

 

[LeDodo]

One fantasy I've had was being ''woken up'' that way by a partner I already trust and really like.

One of my kink lol
But for that it's a bit tricky. Especially you don't know how your partner will react when woken up. Sometimes people can be grumpy when woken up ... Lol

I've experienced that once but to be honest I didn't feel anything... Maybe I was too sleepy lol
Edit: the once was for a BJ.
Otherwise woken up when my partner was feeling somehow horny, I was very inclined to answer to the call lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

One of my kink lol
But for that it's a bit tricky. Especially you don't know how your partner will react when woken up. Sometimes people can be grumpy when woken up ... Lol

I've experienced that once but to be honest I didn't feel anything... Maybe I was too sleepy lol
Edit: the once was for a BJ.
Otherwise woken up when my partner was feeling somehow horny, I was very inclined to answer to the call lol

Yeah like all fantasies, they may be different when applied to reality lol.

 

[Rebaynia]

Well to be fair, there are many fantasies I don't share because they are illegal. It is part of makes them taboo.

As for calling consensual non-consent a woke term.
It's been in the kink world forever. My entire relationship carries a degree of consensual non-consent, the trust that he won't abuse it, but he has consent to push me past my limits, I would not/have not allowed for myself. Hell the very first thing he did was take nude shots of me and share them, after 20 years of me refusing to take or show people nudes.

Part of the fun of fantasies is finding things you like, or would like to do, and getting to live them out in moments you can under consensual terms.

 

[LeDodo]

Taboo Fantasy: From Transaction to True Connection
What begins as a professional arrangement slowly transforms into something deeper — and unexpectedly tender. A client and a service provider, both guarded in their own ways, find themselves drawn to each other beyond the surface. In the quiet moments between meetings, conversation flows easily. They discover shared values, similar scars, and a surprising emotional resonance that neither expected.
The journey from client to confidant is anything but simple — navigating the blurred lines of intimacy, the weight of social stigma, and the question of whether feelings can flourish in such unconventional soil. Yet as boundaries soften and trust builds, affection grows — not out of fantasy, but out of genuine connection. It’s not about saving or changing one another, but seeing and accepting each other fully — flaws, pasts, and all.
In this slow-burn romance, desire follows emotional intimacy, not the other way around. What began as a service becomes a story of two people finding something rare: honesty, understanding, and love in the most unexpected place.

TLDR: a taboo fantasy where a client and SP develop a relationship

 

[jeffmathers]

Exposed myself? In what way? Im the bad guy now LOL. It never happens that I had a 18 years old client...even when I was younger. And Ive never compare myself to a doctor.. And for your info, it's not an oath, it's called Code de déontologie and Im part of one too; so I think I am more educated on you on this topic but go on.

you are more educated on this.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Taboo Fantasy: From Transaction to True Connection
What begins as a professional arrangement slowly transforms into something deeper — and unexpectedly tender. A client and a service provider, both guarded in their own ways, find themselves drawn to each other beyond the surface. In the quiet moments between meetings, conversation flows easily. They discover shared values, similar scars, and a surprising emotional resonance that neither expected.
The journey from client to confidant is anything but simple — navigating the blurred lines of intimacy, the weight of social stigma, and the question of whether feelings can flourish in such unconventional soil. Yet as boundaries soften and trust builds, affection grows — not out of fantasy, but out of genuine connection. It’s not about saving or changing one another, but seeing and accepting each other fully — flaws, pasts, and all.
In this slow-burn romance, desire follows emotional intimacy, not the other way around. What began as a service becomes a story of two people finding something rare: honesty, understanding, and love in the most unexpected place.

TLDR: a taboo fantasy where a client and SP develop a relationship

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Well to be fair, there are many fantasies I don't share because they are illegal. It is part of makes them taboo.

As for calling consensual non-consent a woke term.
It's been in the kink world forever. My entire relationship carries a degree of consensual non-consent, the trust that he won't abuse it, but he has consent to push me past my limits, I would not/have not allowed for myself. Hell the very first thing he did was take nude shots of me and share them, after 20 years of me refusing to take or show people nudes.

Part of the fun of fantasies is finding things you like, or would like to do, and getting to live them out in moments you can under consensual terms.

I don't really have crazy fantasies but I think there are a lot of things in the kink world that really depend on how they are done and how educated the person is about the kink.. This isn't that kinky per se but I don't like hands around my neck or having my hair pulled, but someone I was dating last year did these things properly. I enjoyed it lol.. He did it in a ''soft way''. I can't even describe it. We would kinda take turns being the dominant ones in bed but he was most often the one who was, which surprised me.

 

[jeffmathers]

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

You're a wonderful person who deserves someone like that. You're smart, genuine, look perfect, compassionate. I believe if you make your wants and dealbreakers known in the civilian world you can find that person. You're not asking too much. They'll be lucky to have you.

 

[Enjoying life]

It's not because they are gen z in my opinion... Most 18-19 year olds are just simply too young. A lot of them can't be good SP they are just beginning and have 0 experience either in their personal life or as SP. You can't be blaming them.. But you're right that not seeing SP under 25 is probably a good solution. Heck even older SP have no experience and can be shy and awkward at first, really often I read reviews of guys who went to see a girl who is just beginning and they are really angry they got bad service... It's kinda normal for the session not to be necessarily perfect right away, specially if the person is a teenage girl. You need to acquire some experience and self confidence to be a good SP. If you are worried about this then see someone who has a year or two of experience.

I feel the same about clients. I don't want to see a 18-19 year old, I feel creepy. My limit is 21, I'd rather not see guys under a certain age but I have a business to run tho and these guys are clients.. In my personal life I don't date guys younger than 30, but I see clients who are in their 20's sometimes. I also wouldn't date men who are 80 year olds but sometimes I have clients that agent

Luna makes this world a better place!

 

[LeDodo]

This isn't a taboo fantasy here lol I'd go as far as saying that the fantasy can be a little dangerous.. because we do develop some connections with our clients and there can be tenderness and friendship with people but that doesn't mean it's becoming a romantic relationship. (I know some SP enter relationships with their clients tho)

The fantasy here is that it's becoming a romantic relationship

My ''fantasy'' is meeting someone who treats me as well as my clients do in my personal life, who would be okay with what I do for a living.. And would be willing to make efforts for me. That doesn't mean buying me champagne and expensive jewelery or taking me to fancy restaurants, but something thoughtful once in a while would be nice, who thinks about me and remembers what I like, maybe bringing me a treat here and there, taking me on dates, planning to see me ahead of time instead of being like ''what are you up to'' at 2am or breaking up with me every 2 weeks, actually wanting to build something long lasting.. but that is only taboo because I'm comparing people I've dated to clients and because dating as an escort is difficult.

I think what you consider a fantasy is very realistic expectations about a relationship. I really hope you can find that person. But I'm assuming from what you're saying that you were not lucky in your past relationship ...

The difficult part lies with being ok with what you do for a living. It's difficult but not impossible.